Homemade Wreath – Teacher Appreciation Gift


Looking for a unique and memorable teacher’s gift to make for your school art or preschool teacher? How about a fun wreath to decorate the door or classroom? My daughter and I had fun putting this wreath together for an art themed party we had but the wreath turned out so nice we gave it to one of her teachers as a gift.

You’ll Need:

  • A grapevine wreath
  • Colorful ribbon
  • Twist tie or floral wire
  • Art supplies like crayons, colored pencils, paintbrushes, colorful scissors, and maybe a tiny wooden art easel
  • Glue gun



Most of the decorative art supplies were gathered from our own stash so I really only needed to buy the wreath and ribbon.


To assemble:

    1. Tie and knot the ribbon around the wreath to start off. Then keep wrapping the ribbon all the way around the wreath to make a diagonal pattern. Cut the ribbon and tie the loose end to the original knot where you started.

    2. Create a big bow out of the same ribbon with several ends hanging down. Here’s a great video on how to tie a big, beautiful ribbon bow. Attach it to the wreath with the floral wire. (Or you could use the glue gun to glue it. However you might see the glue if your ribbon is sheer.)

    3. Now start decorating with the art supplies. I was able to attach most of the art supplies by inserting them directly into the twisted grapevines or tucking them under the ribbon. For heavier or flatter items we used the glue gun.

Viola! A pretty wreath to give as a homemade end-of-year appreciation gift for your favorite teacher.


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Teaching Your Kids the Importance of Giving Back

In light of Hurricane Sandy and the devastation to families in the Northeast and Thanksgiving coming up, a lot of talk at our dinner table has centered around helping others and being grateful or thankful for what we have. My husband and I frequently talk to the kids about giving back but we always feel like we need to do more and want to find ways to get the kids more involved in activities that help others.

Donate money.

Writing a check to support a charity is definitely one way to help. We always tell the children when we donate money and why we liked that organization. Now that our kids are a little older, we choose a charity to support by voting as a family. Every year we also buy a Christmas gift for a needy child from the YMCA or our Township’s Giving Trees. The kids help us shop to buy the donated items so they see what other families are lacking. We also donate money to the World Wildlife Fund every Christmas to support an endangered animal. I let each child pick an the animal they want to support. Every year before Christmas, we donate our used toys and clothes to charity. By making giving a family tradition, doing them consistently, the kids anticipate the activity and actually ask about what they can do to help.

Our kids also love one of our Church fundraisers for a local Women’s Shelter. They hand out plastic baby bottles and ask people to fill them with all loose change around the house. Our kids love searching the house for coins to put in the bottle.

Donate time.
But as a family, my husband and I would like to do more hands-on work where we can show the kids how our efforts and donating time makes a positive impact. Some of the activities that we are involved in offer some great opportunities to give back to the community. With our son’s Cub Scouts troop we have packed care packages for our troops with Operation Yellow Ribbon and we’ve sorted food at our local Food Pantry. When our kids were taking piano lessons, every year their teacher had the kids perform a Halloween concert at a local nursing home. The residents love to see the kids in their costumes playing music. We helped clean up the local forest preserve with my daughter’s Adventure Guides group.

For ideas on how to give more, I love MomItForward.com, a site that is all about changing the world one Mom at a time. The site has a wealth of great suggestions on how to raise giving children. What we love about the Mom It Forward suggestions is that they remind us that we should all be practicing more random acts of kindness AT HOME. It’s important to help strangers, but it is also important and really easy to help those we love.

For ideas on how you can volunteer with your children, ask at your Church. Call your local Senior Center and see if you can come and play games with the seniors. Call the animal adoption center and see if they need help cleaning or exercising the animals. Try a local Woman’s Shelter and see if they need help sorting clothing donations. Organize a neighborhood can drive. These are all age-appropriate activities for kids.

Some other resources include volunteermatch.org, where you can type in your zip code and interests and find a list of opportunities to volunteer in your community. If you are looking for information on how the family can be more Green, check out the Dr. Seuss Lorax Project, which teaches kids to save the environment and endangered animals. Finally, GenerationOn.com has some great information on how kids can help make a difference. There are some great ideas on how to help those affected by Hurricane Sandy.

What do you and your family do to give back? If you know of any great opportunities for families to volunteer together, please list them here. Any advice on volunteer projects for kids by age?

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Family Time Management and Organizational Tips

School has started and everyone in the family is back onto a more consistent schedule, which gives me a sigh of relief. However, even though we are back to that school-year routine, new challenges are cropping up. A flood of school papers and kids’ artwork is coming home weekly and piling up. It’s hard to keep track of all of the after school activities and gear. I’m already bored with making lunches for my daughter and need some new ideas. Finally, it’s like pulling teeth to get the kids to talk about their day at the dinner table. It’s impacting my ability to have FUN!!!!

I figured that I wasn’t the only one facing these challenges so I decided to round up some advice to give us busy families some relief. After all, managing the family schedule and keeping the house organized leaves more time for Family Fun and “Chocolate Cake Moments.” What challenges are you facing now that school has started up again? Please leave me a comment. I’d love to hear from you.

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5 Tips to Organize Your Kids’ School Paperwork


Now that school and after school activities have started, paperwork of all kinds is about to coming flooding into your house. Isn’t it amazing the amount of papers that your kids bring home? Even if your school has gone “paperless” like ours, between my two kids, we still bring home about 10 papers a day that need to be signed, saved, recycled, or kept for an upcoming event. Artwork, homework sheets, phone lists, permission slips, and birthday party invites are already threatening to take over my kitchen. To avoid the piles of clutter in your kitchen, check out these tips on how to organize your kids’ school paperwork so that nothing gets lost and you keep the clutter under control.

1. Designate a place to put all school papers. Do you have a desk or place to set up a few files? If not, claim a place in the kitchen, office or laundry room that is the perfect spot for school papers. Ask the kids to help out and empty the folders in their backpack every night so nothing gets forgotten or misplaced.

2. Create a folder filing system. You’ll need folders for temporary papers, permanent information, and kid’s artwork. In the temporary folders, put the paperwork that you need to hang onto for a few days. This can be field trip forms, notices for school parties, birthday party invitations, or weekly homework packets. At the end of the week, empty the folder into the recycle bin. In the permanent folder, include school phone numbers, schedules, contact numbers for afterschool activities, etc. Finally, throw your kids artwork in a special folder. At the end of the month, go through it and keep the masterpieces you want. Don’t forget to date them first! (Download my FREE eGuide on How to Organize and Showcase Your Kids Artwork for more ideas.) download my free e-Guides Organize the School Paperwork Chaos.

3. Create folders or a holding area for your kids other activities such as Religious Education Classes, Tutor schedules, Boy Scouts, Soccer, Spanish class, piano, etc. We have a few magazine racks sitting on the laundry room counter for this purpose because they can hold papers, phone lists, folders, and any text books the kids need to grab for their weekly classes. I put it in the laundry room so it’s easy to grab as we walk out the door for class.

4. A box for Box Tops. Collecting Box Tops for school? Have an envelope or small box in a kitchen drawer designated to hold the box tops you collect to send in for school fundraising. When it is collection time, they will be easy to find so you can divide them up equally between the kids to send in.

5. Family Schedules at a Glance. Get a designated Family Calendar. It is essential to have a place where everyone in the family can refer to for upcoming activities, appointments, and social dates. If someone asks your daughter to babysit, she can easily check and see if she is available. If Dad comes home from work and no one is home, he can check the calendar and see that everyone is at soccer practice. There are several Mom or Family Planning Calendar brands on the market, so see which one works best for you, create your own or use an online service like Cozi.com that Mom, Dad, and maybe kids can access with their cell phones.

What other tips do you have for getting the kids’ paperwork organized so you feel more in control?

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Tips for Volunteering for your Child’s School or Activities

Now that school, scouting and sports activities are underway the need for volunteers for these organizations is in full swing. We all want to help out and get involved in our kids school or extracurricular activities, right? It’s a great way to meet your kids’ friends so you can put faces to their stories. It’s also a nice way to meet other parents in your area. Even when your kids are teens and it may not be cool to be seen with Mom, some readers have assured me that their teens really do appreciate seeing their parents get involved in their world.

However, don’t let volunteering stress you out or become a burden. I want to stay involved in my kids’ schools and they aren’t overbooked with activities, but some days the requests for help seem overwhelming. Or, some Moms tell me that they feel such guilt to contribute that they volunteer, but it adds stress to their lives and they end up resenting it. If that is how you feel, stop!

Sure, schools and organizations need all of the volunteer help they can get. But, everyone is at a different point in their life. If you have the time to volunteer and enjoy it, do so.

You may want to organize the Book Fair this year because you have some great ideas on how to make it better. Great! But, if work is just crazy for you, then cut yourself some slack and only do what you can. The last thing you want to do is commit to a project and not deliver or do it poorly because you resent the time.

Have no fear, there are plenty of different ways to give back and each year you can volunteer at a different level. Here are some tips to help you decide how you want to volunteer.

1. Every year is different.
Some years, my schedule was flexible so I could chaperone field trips, help set up the book fair, and bake for the Holiday Bake Sale. Some years work was all consuming and I had no time, so I sent in supplies or treats and only volunteered for activities in my child’s class, not for the whole school. If you have a tough year ahead, don’t be afraid to say “no”. There will always be opportunities to help the following year.

2. Don’t be afraid to get off the beaten path.
Don’t think that you are limited to the tasks you see on a sign-up sheet. If you work full-time or just have a crazy busy schedule, ask if there are tasks or projects you can do at home to help out, when you have downtime. Cutting projects, sorting, computer research, and a host of easy-but-still time-consuming activities could really help the teacher or scouting leader. There is always work needed to be done, just ask your child’s teacher, coach, or scout leader what you can do to help. You can also do these tasks WITH your child to show them the value of being involved and helping others.

3. Get smart and go to school!
If you signed up to be Room Mom this year, don’t panic. There are some great resources out there to help you with ideas so you don’t have to recreate the wheel. I love RoomMomSpot.com as a site with plenty of ideas for classroom parties, activities, and even a run down of common Room Mom duties. Download their free ebook, the Room Mom’s Survival Guide. It’s offered by the incredibly helpful people at VolunteerSpot.com, a great resource offering online sign-up sheets, scheduling tips, and volunteer management software and that makes coordinating volunteers easier for classroom Moms, scouting leaders, teachers, and coaches.

However you enjoy getting involved in your child’s school or activities is perfectly fine and should be appreciated by the teachers, scout leaders, coaches and your child. Give yourself a break – there’s no guilt needed here. Decide how much you want to give and then enjoy!

How do you fit the time into your schedule to volunteer for your child’s school or other activities?

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How to Ease those Back to School Jitters

My son is starting middle school this year. (I CAN”T BELIEVE IT! sniff.) This is the first year EVER where he can’t stop asking me when school is going to start. But, while he’s excited to head to a new, bigger school where he’ll have access to more friends, clubs, and social events, he is still a little apprehensive. It’s new and it’s change and that’s always scary.

To us it may not seem like a big deal but yourself in your kids’ shoes this Back-to-School season. Heading back to school is exciting but it can also cause a little fear or anxiety for your kids. Especially if they are starting a new school – jumping up to middle school or high school, moving to a neighborhood, or even taking that big step from kindergarten to all day first grade. Being introduced to a new building, new teachers, new classmates and even a locker with a lock is a big transition. Even if your child is excited and eager to go to their new school, they may be anxious about a few things and it’s helpful to identify their stress and talk it out.

Here are some tips to smooth the transition and start the new school year off right.

Get Them Involved.
Have your kids help you with the back to school shopping. They’ll feel more in control if they can help with the process of choosing their supplies, backpack and even school clothes.

Don’t Miss Orientations.
No matter what grade your kids are entering this year, be sure to attend Back-to-School Nights and Meet the Teacher(s) events before school starts. It makes a huge difference to see a friendly face on the first day of school.

Be relaxed but excited.
Kids can sense any anxiety you may be feeling, so be sure to talk positively about school. Don’t ask them if they are nervous if they haven’t even considered that they need to be nervous yet. (My kids run wild with the power of suggestion, so I try to head it off at the pass.) Talk positively with your child about new experiences and new friends.

Practice makes perfect.
Kids will feel more secure if they know what to expect so practice walking to school or the bus stop. Or drive to the school and say, “This is where I’ll park to pick you up or where the bus will drop you off and that is the door you will go into.” Walk through the middle or high school building with your kids so they can find their locker and their class rooms. Practice using a combination lock with your soon-to-be middle school student. I was surprised that this was one of the main anxieties for kids starting middle school.

Talk it out.
Nothing beats just talking about the upcoming school year. Take the opportunity to talk with your kids at the dinner table or while driving in the car to see what they are most excited about or what is making them a little nervous. Tell them how you felt when you started school. One thing that has worked well for us is to find a kid in the neighborhood that is a year or two older and have your child talk to them about what the new school is like.

Here are even more specific tips on how to Get Your Child Ready for Kindergarten, Smoothly Transitioning Your Kid Into Middle School or Preparing for High School. Or, check out all of my Back-to-School Tips for Busy Moms.

Do you have a child starting kindergarten, middle school or high school this year? Are they nervous or excited? How do you help ease their anxieties?

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8 Ideas to Make Your Child’s School Lunch Less Boring

School Lunch Ideas

If your child is bored of the same old lunch ideas, here are 8 fun and easy ideas to make lunch the highlight of your kids’ school day. They’ll be surprised with your creativity and you’ll be surprised how the lunch box comes home empty. See all of our Back-to-School Tips and Sanity-Saving Ideas here.

1. Get ‘em to pitch in.

Getting your child involved with the meal preparation is a great way to help ensure that they eat their lunch, not trade it away. Try filling one of each of three plastic baskets with fruits, vegetables and snacks. Then allow your child to pick one item from each basket for their lunch. Add a sandwich and a drink, and you’re done. They might actually eat all of their lunch if they got to choose what’s in it.

2. Theme of the week.

Your child’s classroom usually has a theme of the week so why not a lunch theme? Surprise your kids by incorporating a new lunch theme every few weeks, such as serving all red foods. Pair a strawberry jelly sandwich with cherry tomatoes and low-fat ranch dressing with cherry Jell-O for dessert. Meals could be all round foods (a bagel with cream cheese sandwich, an orange, and carrot rounds) or a backwards lunch (a sandwich with meat and cheese on the outside and a note written in reverse telling your child to eat dessert first). If you can figure out how to tie their lunch to their actual lesson plan that week, even better.

Girl with school lunch box

3. Shake it up.

Prepare the same old food in a new way. Instead of a regular peanut butter and jelly on white bread (ho hum), make Pinwheel PB&Js by rolling up the PB&J in a flour tortilla and slicing it into pinwheels (fun!). Try a peanut butter and raisin or banana sandwich for kicks. Try dark chocolate peanut butter instead of regular peanut butter. While some kids freak out when they see a new “food form,” as kids get older they will be willing to try more things, so don’t be afraid to shake it up.

Super Healthy Kids blog sandwich sticks

4. Put it on a stick.

Take a plain old boring sandwich, put it on stick and suddenly you have a party. The Super Healthy Kids blog shows how easy it is to make a sandwich on a stick for your kids lunch box. They might even eat the a tomato with this presentation.

5. Order at the lunch counter.

For siblings who like different foods, make a chart of favorite foods with the child’s name at the top and foods they like and will eat for lunch underneath. This will serve as a menu for your kids. Make sure there are vegetable and fruit choices, as well. On Sunday, ask your kids to put in their order for a week’s worth of lunches in advance. They will feel like they are ordering at a restaurant and you have the plan for the week which makes shopping and prepping easier. For inspiration to include more items, check out FamilyFreshCooking.com’s Project Lunchbox. Your child is bound to find something tasty and healthy from her list.

6. A rose by any other name might be worth eating.

To make those healthy greens more interesting for your boys, label your food with a gross name. Cooked spinach could be “Sea Monster Hair”. Snow peas are “Alien Fingers”. Broccoli are “Mini Trees from the Haunted Forest.” They’ll look forward to your creativity. My son used to love this and helped me come up with gross names.

7. Cookies Cutters are your friends.

Cutting up your kids food is a fun and easy way to add a little surprise to your child’s lunch box. I’ve used cookie cutters to cut out sandwich shapes, fruit, brownies, lunch meat, and cheese. You can surprise your kids or I like to use the cookie cutters with my daughter. I love to see her creativity, and if she helps create the food, she’s more likely to eat it. These two-toned sandwiches from Spoonful.com reminds us of the Kissing Hand, a great book for kids going into kindergarten.

8. Lunch box notes.

Don’t limit your lunch box creativity to just the food. Slip a little note into your child’s lunch box to let them know that you are thinking of them. You can simply say you love them, encourage them on an upcoming test, or tell them a joke. Here’s an article with a ton of ideas for lunch box love notes.

Yes, some of these ideas take a little time and preparation. But remember; planning it on Sunday night for the weekdays will save you precious time on weeknights from trying to think of new lunch ideas. Or, just throw in the fun randomly when you have time. Your kids will never know what they’ll find that way.

What do you do to get your kids to eat their lunch at school?

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Mom’s Back-to-School Checklist

Back to school time is here! If you are like me I’m still desperately busy trying to enjoy the last days of summer. However, there’s work to be done to get your kids ready to head back to school. No need to panic though. You can still have your summer fun and get organized at the same time. This checklist will help you stay in control and prepare for the new school season with ease. Whether your child’s school starts next week or next month, with this list you won’t miss a step.



First Steps

  • Make sure your child is properly registered for school.
  • Schedule any doctor or dental appointments if needed, to meet any immunization requirements before school starts. Get those medical forms signed by your doctor. If you don’t know what immunizations or forms are needed, call your school to ask.
  • Order any additional medications that need to be stored at school.
  • Make sure your kids have completed their summer reading lists or other homework assignments. If not, set up a schedule to get it done.
  • Sit down with your planner and write in the dates for all important back-to-school activities like orientations or school walk-throughs. Include after-school activities on the calendar, as well.
  • Go through your kids’ closet to see what fall clothes still fit, create your shopping list for what’s needed, and donate old clothes to make room for the new. Here are some tips on how to save money on school clothes.


3 Weeks Before School Starts

  • Go shopping! Get those backpacks, lunch boxes, water bottles, clothes, and school supplies. You can usually get your school supply list online from your school’s website. However, that may not include everything you need. Here’s a Back-to-School Shopping Checklist for busy Moms as well as tips on how to buy the right backpack or lunch box for your child.
  • Schedule a hair cut for your child so they look smashing for their annual first day of school photos.


2 Weeks Before School Starts

  • Create a landing spot in the house for your kids where they can keep their backpacks, lunch boxes, and other school gear or papers.
  • Start to get back into a daily routine for sleeping and eating. Here are some tips for how to get Back into a Back-to-School Routine.
  • Talk to your kids about the upcoming school year. See if they are nervous or excited about the new year. If your child is entering kindergarten, middle school or high school this year, they may be nervous. Here are some tips to ease fears when starting a new school.
  • Confirm your transportation plans. What time and where is the bus coming? Who is carpooling? Get the kids comfortable with their pick up and drop off locations.
  • If needed, confirm any after school care plans. Is the babysitter ready to go? How is your child getting from school to their after school care location?
  • Kickstart your kids’ brains. In a fun way, start reviewing some basic skills with your kids like adding or multiplying. Read together at night or play some board games that require math.
  • Plan for some last minute family fun before school starts like a weekend getaway, activities to celebrate the last day of summer break, or prepare for any fun, first day of school traditions.


1 or 2 Days Before School Starts

  • Attend your meet-the teacher orientation and walk around the school with your kids to make sure they feel comfortable.
  • With your kids, pick their first day of school outfit and pack their backpack so there are no panic attacks early in the morning.
  • Make sure your camera is ready to go to take those first day of school photos.
  • Plan for a healthy first day of school breakfast and prepare their lunch or snacks the night before. Here’s 5 Ways to Pack More Fun into Your Child’s Lunches.


What tips do you have to make the Back-to-School season go more smoothly?

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Get Ready for Back to School: Tips for Busy Moms

It’s Back-to-School Central at our house so I was so excited to get this guest post from Sue Becker, a professional organization and productivity consultant I admire. As the founder of From Piles to Smiles, Sue has some great advice for busy Moms trying to get their kids ready to go back to school. Read her tips and keep the Back-to-School madness at bay:

Back to School student
Homework, early morning madness, ignored alarm clocks – they all mean one thing: it’s time for going back to school. Parents of bored children have looked forward to this event all summer, yet can still be overwhelmed at the thought of getting back into a school-year routine. Whether you’re a student or the parent of a student, use the following tips to help make the transition from summer fun to school-ready less frenzied and more enjoyable.

Set up a location for incoming papers. Rather than having them get buried at the bottom of a backpack or spread randomly throughout your home, designate a specific place for your student to deposit school papers until you have time to go through them. Consider putting an inbox on a seldom-used section of your kitchen counter, or near the door through which you typically enter your home. Set up this paperwork depository now, before the paperwork onslaught begins.

Make time each day for school work. Academic homework isn’t the only assignment that will need to be completed each day during the school year– you’ll have to make time to go through that inbox of school papers. They key is to process each paper as you handle it – sign the permission slip, write the check for the field trip, review the school work and decide which papers you’ll keep, etc. Practice being decisive and deliberate with your mail so you’ll be ready to efficiently handle school papers. In addition, put reminders in your planner now to go through the paperwork each day. If you keep up with the inflow, you won’t miss any important deadlines.

Get into a school bedtime routine. Don’t wait for school to start before you begin a bedtime routine. Start now getting your kids (and yourself) to bed at whatever time will allow them (and you) to get adequate sleep. You all need these extra few weeks to get your bodies conditioned to a new sleep pattern. Also, your kids won’t necessarily view an earlier bedtime as a school-related punishment if you start the routine well before the school year has begun.

Get your calendar back in action. The carefree, less-structured days of summer will soon give way to jam-packed, action-filled school-year mayhem. If you’ve fallen out of the habit, get back into the routine of using your calendar and writing everything on it – your appointments, your kids’ activities, and to-dos that will help you move smoothly through each day. You’ll set a good example for your kids and you won’t have to rely on your memory to keep you on track.

Set up your family activity binder. Set up a binder with sheet protectors where you and your family can find information about all the activities going on in your lives. You can insert schedules for the kids’ sports and activities, maps to various sports venues, team rosters, the school directory, etc. Be sure that all activities are still noted on your calendar – this binder is simply a supporting reference tool.

Check before you shop. Review your stash of school supplies from last year and make note of what you already have so you don’t buy more supplies than you need. Clean out your clothes closets, figure out what does and doesn’t fit, and make a shopping list of what items you’ll need to purchase. Take outgrown clothes to a resale shop or donate them so you can make room for your new purchases.

Plan meals and groceries. Take some time to plan school-year lunches and dinners now. Make a list of two-week’s worth of meals and create a shopping list of groceries. Take advantage of the calm before the school-year storm to have everything planned ahead of time so you can easily pack school lunches and get dinner on the table. Better yet, get your kids to pack their own lunches and help with dinner preparation .Keep up your system throughout the year for more pleasant family time. Here’s a link to a prior article I’ve written on this subject.

I’d love to hear what you do to make going back to school easier on yourself and your family.

Sue Becker, owner of From Piles to Smiles®, is an organizing and productivity consultant who can help you or your student create a supportive study space, effectively use a planner, and create and implement time management techniques. You can reach her or sign up for her newsletter to get more organizational tips at www.PilesToSmiles.com

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Why Your Kids Should Go to Summer Camp

I found this really cool infographic from Adam McClane on the Power of Camp for your kids. It’s a very compelling argument for why summer camp is needed. Not only to get up off of the couch but also to have adventures, enjoy nature, and find the time to think. Love it!

Did you go to summer camp when you were a kid? What do you remember about camp? Best times, worst times, cute counselors, etc.?

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How to Choose the Right Summer Camp for Your Child

Summer Camp Nature Hike

I can’t believe that school is over in a few weeks! Are your kids going to summer camp this year? Summer camps are important for creating friendships, exposing your kids to new interests, keeping their minds and bodies active during the summer, potentially exploring nature, and serving as childcare for working parents. Even if budgets are tight, you can send your kids to a few day camps during the summer to keep them active.

There are so many amazing options for summer camp and summer activities that we never had. It makes me want to be a kid again. Space camp, art camp, lego robot building camp, Math camp, and even Harry Potter Wizard camps are all available to meet any interests. There are even some wonderful special needs camps, just search online or ask your pediatrician for recommendations. My daughter went to Type 1 diabetes camp one summer after she was diagnosed to meet other kids and learn about caring for her body. But how do you choose which camp is right for your child?

What was important to me in choosing a summer camp was:

Trust – Did I feel comfortable leaving my child with the counselors? Ask around your neighborhood to get recommendations. See if your kids’ teachers are going to be summer camp counselors anywhere. Or, ask to meet some of the counselors before you register.

Mingling – Are young and older kids lumped together? We had an issue one year where my younger son was hanging out with the older kids at camp in an unstructured play area. Even though there were counselors supervising, he was learning a lot of inappropriate behavior and language. We also had some issues with bullying from older kids. The counselors were great once I brought the issue to their attention but it created some unnecessary stress.

Fun – Are my kids going to enjoy this experience and were there enough interests for both my son and daughter to go to the same place? Even if your child is going to a summer camp to help them with reading or math, what fun activities are planned to keep the kids interested?

Size – Would the kids be broken into groups so it wasn’t overwhelming and they wouldn’t get lost in the crowd? Some kids do great in large crowds but some don’t. See how the kids are divided up during the activities, lunch and even free time.

Location & timing – With two working parents, is it easy for one of us to drop off and pick up the kids? Do they have extended care hours before and after camp, if you need it?

Familiarity – Ask your neighbors or your childs’ friends if they are going to summer camp. If you can coordinate it, sometimes it’s nice for kids to see a face they know on the first day of camp. If they know a fellow camper, a counselor, or even the building it can make it easier for them to jump in on the first day.


How do you choose the right summer camp for your child?


I hope this helps you choose the right summer camp for your kids. We all want to be Happy Campers! Check out my Summer Camp Checklist, with some ideas for everything you and your kids need before starting summer camp.


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Unique End-of-Year Teachers’ Gift Ideas

The school year is winding down and the last day of school is quickly approaching. I’m not ready! But, there is one big, last homework assignment for Moms and that’s the end-of-year teachers’ gifts. I try to get my kids’ teachers something either really unique or something they could really use, but sometimes it’s hard to come up with ideas.

I live in a neighborhood with a lot of teachers so I asked them what teacher’s gifts they appreciated most. You can read their answers in my post 10 Perfect Teacher’s Gift Ideas.

If you want want to do a little something extra and make a gift with your child for his or her teacher, check out these posts on Fun Homemade Teacher’s Gift Ideas and Easy and Inexpensive DIY Teacher’s Gift Ideas.

Here are two more unique end-of-year Teacher’s Gift ideas that I saw on Pinterest this week. You don’t have to be Martha Stewart to pull these off.


I like this Summer Relaxation Beach Tote gift idea from SkiptoMyLou.org. Mostly because I want to make one for me.

The Homespun with Love blog created a cute bucket full of school supplies for teacher to use next year. Click through to see how easy it was to make.

Do you give gifts to your child’s teacher at the end of the year? Some people do and some don’t. Giving gifts to teachers is even illegal in one state. Read my article Teacher’s Gifts: To Give or Not to Give over at Patch.com to learn where. There are some nice comments from teachers at the end of the article.

What do you normally get your kids’ teachers at the end of the school year? Please share your ideas. Teachers, feel free to weigh in on what you appreciate the most.

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A Chance to Win Free Business Cards


As a small business owner, I know that every penny counts. So I’m thrilled to be able to offer one lucky reader a chance to win 250 free business cards from Uprinting.com. Whether you want to promote your business, your blog or just produce some fun Mommy calling cards, this giveaway is a great opportunity to look professional and save some money.

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Today is the Day the Squirrels Get their Due

Well, this just takes all. I woke up this morning to read that today, January 21st is National Squirrel Appreciation Day. Who knew?!? Who knew it was their day, let alone that they feel under-appreciated. Knowing that any rodent can have its own day now, I can’t wait for Elephant Shrew Day. What is an elephant shrew, you ask? It’s my daughter’s favoritest new animal and she feels that they deserve a day too.

But I digress. Back to the squirrels. I want to know what prompted someone to call for a National Squirrel Appreciation Day. Were they not getting enough attention? They are in every commercial out there now. I think they even have Hollywood agents. You don’t see moles getting their own commercials. What’s wrong with moles?

Sure, squirrels are cute. Sure, they are entertaining when they are chasing each other around the yard. But, they also eat my Halloween pumpkins and they ate all of the candy out of our Easter eggs one year. The yard looked like a pastel-colored yard sale once they got through cracking the plastic eggs. The kids were crushed. What’s up with that, squirrels?

However, if you love squirrels, today is the day to show them some appreciation. Here are some tips and a fun squirrel video from the National Wildlife Federation on 7 Ways to Celebrate National Squirrel Day.

Enjoy your day, Squirrels!

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Inspiration for Kids’ Lunch Box Love Notes

Want to give your kids a “Chocolate Cake Moment” today? Send them to school or preschool with a lunch box love note. I love throwing a little note, joke, drawing, or something special into our kids’ lunch boxes to remind them that my husband and I are thinking of them. My 6th grade son still likes to find a surprise note. My daughter told me that even though some kids make fun when they see a lunch box note from Mom in a classmate’s lunch box, she says it makes kids smile inside and feel special. It’s such an easy way to add a smile to a kid’s day. (Try it on your husband too. He may love it!)

However, some days it’s just too hard to be creative or author the perfect note. If the coffee hasn’t kicked in it’s hard for me to even write legibly. So, I decided to ask for a little help and inspiration. Last year, we ran a contest asking people for lunch box love note ideas. There were some great ideas on how to send your kids a long distance smile. From words of encouragement to reminders to knock-knock jokes and even funny drawings, there are so many cute ways to say “I Love You.”

We compiled all of your ideas and divided them into categories as inspiration. The list was so long that I’m only going to list some of my favorites here by category but if you want more inspiration, you can see all of the ideas here. Happy note writing!

Declaration of Love: Let me count the ways

  • “For my honey … some extra cookies to share with your friends. Love you!”
  • “U R My Sunshine!”
  • “Mommy loves you to the moon and back!”

Notes of Encouragement

  • “You are my shining star, Brighter than any in the sky by far!”
  • “Hey Sweets- I know you will ace your test today! You make me proud everyday!”
  • “Good Luck on your test! I know you can do it!”
  • “Wow Them!”

Missing You

  • “No, I miss YOU more”!
  • “Thinking of you, anything good going on?”

Reminders: Don’t forget …

  • “Please be good…mommy loves you! p.s. remember to eat all your real food before you start on dessert.”
  • “Just remember, there’s a kiss in your hand if you need it.”
  • “Remember to listen, watch, learn and love…”

Funny Notes: Make ‘em laugh

  • “I would take a bite out of a sandwich or snack, then put in a napkin, and on the napkin write:
    “Oh! There was a mouse in your lunch! Hope you don’t miss that bite like the mouse misses you!”
  • “Knock Knock, Who’s There? Owl. Owl who? Owl be missing you.”
  • “My husband likes to write cute notes to our 6-year-old daughter that pertain to what is in her lunch. For example: if there is an apple, he would write ‘Have an apple of a day my sweetie!’ or if I pack a string cheese he would write ‘Cheese… have a happy day at school!’ … strawberries would get ‘You are so berry sweet!!!! We love you… mommy and daddy’ and so on.”

Visual: When no words are needed

  • I would draw a picture of a hand and a heart in the middle of it to represent the “kissing hand
  • Stickers or cut a fun picture out of a magazine are easy ways to make a note
  • My daughter loves to draw so I draw a few lines on a note and tell her to finish the picture and bring it back to me.

Teasers: Something to look forward to

  • 3 more hours until game night! Love you! XOXO
  • When your school day is done, Mommy will pick you up and we will have more fun!
  • We’re having your favorite – TACOS! – for dinner! Yippee!!


If you still want more visual help, download MakeandTake.com’s free lunch box note printables. Kristen Duke Photography has some fun printable jokes to add some giggles to lunch. Or my favorites are the ones Lori over at FreshPickedWhimsy.com created. They’re super cute!

So, keep it up Moms and give your child a secret “Chocolate Cake Moment” while at school. With all of these great ideas, there’s no excuse not to throw a love note in your kids lunch box tomorrow morning.

Need more inspiration to make your kids lunches fun? Check out these ideas:
5 Ways to Pack More Fun Into Your Kids Lunch Box
Kids Lunch Box Love Notes: Missing You & Reminder Notes
Kids Lunch Box Love Notes: Funny, Visual, or Rewarding Notes
Kids Lunch Box Love Notes: A Plethora of Ways to Say “I Love You!”

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Keeping After-School Activities Organized and Mom Sane

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SuperMom Strikes Again

Faster than a travel soccer team practice three nights a week, stronger than two-a-day football practices, able to leap piano lessons and marching band in a single bound, it’s SuperMom!

Do visions of running your children to all of their after school activities have you pulling at your superhero tights and breaking into a cold sweat? (It’s not the itching, but the chafing that bugs me.) Fear not! All it takes is some advanced planning and family guidelines to take the pressure off of you. Enlist your children and your spouse in this planning, and then the burden of organizing all of the after school activities won’t necessarily call for super hero strength–just some flexibility.

Write it down—all of it
Get in the habit now of writing everything down in one place. Keep a master family calendar to keep track of each family member’s activities. There are several Mom or Family Planning Calendar brands on the market, so see which one works best for you or create your own. While it is awesome for Mom and Dad to keep their schedules synched in Google Calendar or using Cozi.com, the kids may not be able to see it so easily and we want them to start taking responsibility for knowing when they have activities.

With a wall calendar, hang it low enough for the kids to reach to write down their own activities. They can keep track of special classes like art or music, activities or sports, or playmates and birthday parties. Have fun with the schedule. Let them add stickers or smiley faces or whatever they like to remind them of important days. Just get into the habit of everybody checking the calendar daily before they go to bed, so everyone knows what’s going on the next day.

Have weekly calendar sessions with the whole family every Sunday night to update the calendar. This helps you keep everyone on the same page and avoids potential scheduling conflicts before they occur. (This way no one in the family can claim … “But, no one told me.”)

Keep it together
Keep all of your kids activity stuff together in a duffle bag or backpack. Have a special duffle bag for soccer with pads, shoes, uniform and a water bottle. Keep all of this gear in the bag hanging in the coat room or garage. After you wash the uniform, throw it in the soccer duffle bag. Don’t take it upstairs and put it away in a dresser. That’s just an extra step. The ready-to-go bag will make life easier when you are late for practice and running out the door. You won’t need to go hunting for all of the gear you need. “Why are my soccer shoes in the pantry?” If you have two sports going on at the same time, get two separate duffle bags.

Same for piano lessons, keep all of the books, folders, etc. in a designated backpack. It’s always ready to go when you are and keeps the clutter in the rest of the house down to a minimum. Invest in hooks for extra backpacks. It’s worth it.

Say NO once in a while
Busy moms and kids get a lot done in part because they are so busy. But remember to schedule in some down time between activities. Don’t pack the schedule so full that all you are doing is running from one thing to the next. Where’s the joy in that?

Step back, and remember that it is OK to say No to some things. The world will still go on, and someone else can run the bake sale this year. It is an important time management lesson to teach your child that you are choosing to do only what is most important to you and your family.

We tell our kids that they can do 1 extra activity per “quarter”. While we insist on things like Spanish, swim lessons, or music at different times to make sure they are getting exposed to different talents, we let them choose something THEY want to do, as well. Whether they want to play soccer, basketball, gymnastics, art classes, Tae Kwon Do or nothing, they start to learn how to choose and set their own priorities, and then you aren’t in the car 24/7. If you are feeling burned out, take a few months off with no activities. The kids will still get into college. In fact, read this New York Times article about Family Happiness and the Overbooked Child, which stresses that children’s activities offer no guarantee of success later in life.

Think about how taking on another activity or group or commitment will affect the entire family, and say no to ones that you or your kids don’t love. Kids also need an appropriate amount of time to do homework. Make sure they get it. Children and adults all need down time to just hang out and relax. Don’t overbook so you can use that new found time to create more “Chocolate Cake Moments”!

Roll with the changes
These days, everyone seems to have a jam packed schedule. Know that sometimes it won’t always be perfect. You can’t be SuperMom (even though you may come very close). Try your best to be organized, but stay flexible. When the schedule gets messed up, have back up plans in place for quick, easy dinners or a carpool driver on speed dial. If you miss an appointment, don’t beat yourself up. If you signed up for an activity where the coach insists on holding practice during church or important family times, quit and choose another program. You and your family are all in this together, and you will get through it in flying colors. The goal is to remember that nothing is more important than having time to spend together as a family.

How do you keep the family schedule and your kids’ activities organized?

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5 Tips to Get Your Kids Out of Bed and Ready for School

Does going back to school mean plying your child out of bed with a crowbar? Does every morning bring a fight between them, you and the covers? Funny how on Saturdays and during the summer they can get up at the crack of dawn, but once school starts it’s game over. Try these tips to make rising and shining a little easier.

    1. Wake up, Little Susie
    Some kids need time to come awake while others snap to it. You may need to set the alarms early enough to accommodate some sitting-and-staring-into-space time. Another idea to get them out of bed is to set two alarms, one on the opposite side of the room. The fact of having to physically get up and turn it off means your child is that much closer to being awake. There are some fun Talking Kids Alarm Clocks that can ease your child awake with kiss noises or snap them awake with a dinosaur roar. See if setting an alarm to a radio station works better than just a buzzer. Or you can try tuning it to loud radio static to encourage them to get up and turn it off.

    2. Rise and Shine
    Try to wake them with their nose. Use favorite smells to lure them out of bed, such as cinnamon-raisin toast, or crispy bacon frying or coffee brewing for teens.

    While I’m not this dedicated, we found one suggestion that on cold winter mornings, you can throw their clothes into the dryer for a few minutes. Pulling on warm clothes may help inspire them to leave their warm bed. (Honestly, if you do that, you are my SuperMom hero.)

    3. Early to bed, early to rise
    Tell your child that you will keep pushing bedtime earlier and earlier until they are able to wake up earlier. The thought of having to go to bed at 7:30 p.m. may be just the thing to motivate them to wake up in the morning. Getting a good night’s sleep, as simple as it sounds, may solve the problem, too. We all know that we do best on a routine.

    4. Eliminate distractions
    Your kids need to wind down and relax so they can fall asleep and feel rested. This will help with getting them up in the morning. So, give your kids the opportunity to relax and unclutter their mind before bed. When they are young, read a goodnight story together. As they get older, have them read chapter books to you or read on their own. Don’t schedule activities too late in the evening. For tweens and teens, have them plug their cell phones into the charger in the kitchen before going to bed and leave it there! No texting until all hours late at night. Sleep deprivation is dangerous for teens according to this article by the Mayo Clinic.

    Same thing is true in the morning. Once they are up, no TV, no computers, no cell phones until they are dressed, have eaten breakfast, prepared their lunch, or packed up their backpack. Eliminating distractions before their chores are done can help keep the morning moving smoothly.

    5. Desperate times call for desperate measures
    If all else fails, march into your child’s room, bang on a pan with a wooden spoon, singing “The Wheels on the Bus” at the top of your lungs. (While this might be a little cruel, I tend to look at it as payback for all the times they woke me up in the middle of the night.)

Hopefully these tips will help get your kids up and out the door in time for the bus. Now go have a cup of coffee and a deep breath!

Grab one of our Talking Kids Alarm Clocks to make it easier to for your kids to wake up on their own and with a smile.

What tips do you have for getting your kids up and out of bed in the morning?

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Moms, Don’t Lose It. Label It!


I have to admit, I’m not a labeler. Every year around Back-to-School time I would read about how Moms should label their kids’ preschool and school items but I never got around to it. Maybe I would write their initials on a tag with a Sharpie pen, but that really wasn’t going to do much to get an item back if it was lost.

So, when Name Bubbles contacted me to try their back-to-school name labels, I jumped at the chance to see what I was missing or doing wrong all these years. If you have ever had to rummage through the school’s lost and found box, you’ll understand why I was very interested in changing my family’s organizational habits. Now that I’ve tried them, I have to admit I’m hooked!

Name Bubbles Labels come in a variety of sizes and styles that are – get this – waterproof, dishwasher, laundry, and microwave safe. That’s perfect for labeling all of the items your kids use when they leave the house. Cool! The labels are made of a vinyl material with a non-toxic, eco-solvent ink to provide fun color and durability. There are custom name label packs for School, Childcare, Sports, and Camp, depending on what you need. They even have labels to put in your kids shoes! If you have every been to a birthday party with 20 kids’ shoes lying by the front door and several of them the same style, you’ll be so thankful that you can find your kids shoes before their next birthday party rolls around.

In addition, once you are hooked on labeling they have packs for other aspects of your life like Elder Care, College, and Luggage. They even have a Party Pack where you can order personalized labels to give as party favors at your kids’ birthday party. The party guests go home with a set of labels personalized with their name. Cool! I’m always on the look out for unique kids’ birthday party favors and this is one of the most useful I’ve seen yet.

Since my son camps a lot with Boy Scouts, I’m digging the Camp Label pack since he had a fiasco last camp out with someone accidentally taking his new sleeping bag. We had written his name on the bag but it wasn’t prominent enough, I guess. These labels will help going forward. The large square bubble labels in the Camp Pack are perfect for big ticket items like a camera, iPod, or cell phone that you really want to come home from camping trips.

At summer camp, my kids lost their towel and swimsuit practically every day. I wish I had these labels two summers ago! A waterproof label on their swim gear would have made searching through the lost and found box a lot easier.






I remember when my kids were in day care and we were just labeling the bottles with masking tape and a pen. I wish I had the labels from Name Bubble’s Childcare Pack way back when. It would have made life easier, let along made the bottle look a little nicer too.

Applying the Name Bubble Labels is pretty easy, too. Stick the labels on and wait 24 hours before getting them wet. The company claims the adhesive will stay put in extreme conditions and so far I’ve seen that to be true. The packages are affordable – $20 to $43 dollars depending on which pack you are ordering. Now that I am hooked, I definitely see how the cost is small compared to how easy they are to apply and how nice the label looks.

Another great product that Name Bubbles offers is the Allergy, Medical or Special Needs Alert stickers that you can apply to your child’s lunch boxes, bottles, food containers, diaper bag, and even favorite toys. You can customize the labels to list your emergency contact information or indicate that your child is Autistic and doesn’t like to be touched.

Disclaimer: Name Bubbles did send me a free press kit with sample labels to review. All opinions expressed are mine, though. I’m stubborn that way.

What are some of your tips for labeling your kids’ school, camp and day care gear?

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9 Fun, First Day of School Traditions

The start of a new school year is always a big deal. I used to love getting a new outfit, crisp new school supplies, and even a new haircut some years. While my son is excited to go back to school and my daughter is not, I’m celebrating because the start of a new school year means new opportunities, new friends, and new milestones for my kids. Whether your kids look forward to going back to school or not, do take the time to celebrate and start some new family traditions to create some fun memories.


1. Throw a party. You’ll find some great inspiration for decorations or treats for a Back-to-School party from Dawn at the Not Just a Mommy blog. Her party ideas are AWESOME!

Or keep it simple with an impromptu, neighborhood firepit party either the weekend before or after school starts. Our neighborhood is pretty friendly so if you build a firepit, they will come to the party. If that won’t work, type up a quick flyer and have the kids hand it out to the neighbors or spread the word as you walk the dog around the block. Tell everyone to bring their own drinks and bring some munchies to share. The parents talk about who got which teacher, who’s going to be at the bus stop, and what to look forward to this school year. If your child is going into kindergarten, it’s a perfect time to pair him or her up with an older kid to help them on the bus. The kids can compare notes on which teacher they like or who they have a crush on so far this year!


Star Wars pancake breakfast
2. Breakfast for Champions. Start the day off with a celebration by going out as a family to one of your favorite breakfast places. Or get up a little early and make the kids their favorite breakfast foods.


Back to school treats
3. Bring Treats for classmates – Start the school year off with a gift to the rest of the class with these Back to School Treats from the Blackberry vine blog.


Countdown jar for school
4. Countdown the Days – The East Coast Mommy Blog created a super cute tradition of counting down the days to school or preschool with her kids using candy and a jar. Your kids can have one candy a day until school starts or you could put in a candy every day and then after their first day of school they get to eat them all as a special treat. Your choice!



5. Capture the Moment – Pick a location in your house and every year take a picture of your child with their backpack or holding a Back-to-School sign with their grade on it so you can compare how your kids have grown. Rebecca Cooper offers some great tips on taking First Day of School photos on her blog. I definitely need help with my photos!

kids artwork portrait
Building on the idea of capturing the moment, the Art Projects for Kids has a great idea of having the kids draw a self-portrait on the first day of school. Then you can see how their art skill and self-awareness grow over time.


6. Survey Says! – Here’s a fun idea from one of our readers, Debby B. –

We used to take surveys. I’d write down their answers for favorite subject, color, shape, number, book, band/song–whatever. It’s fun to see year to year what their favorites are.



7. Gifts from Fun Sources. – Over at Make and Takes, read their post on the First Day of School Fairy.


Then, at the Mother Huddle, read about the German tradition of giving kids “>Schultuete School Cones on their first day of school.



8. Boo Hoo Breakfast. This tradition from the Roots & Wings Blog is for Moms only, and it involves breakfasty treats. Yes! Grab your family and friends and organize a Boo Hoo breakfast where you meet after dropping the kids off on the first day of school to laugh, cry and have fun talking about the kids going off for another year of school. I’m in!


9. Snack & Chat. I like to make a special after school snack for the kids so we can munch and chat all about their first day. We usually make Chocolate Fondue as our first day of school treat. You can grab my recipe from my Beat the Back-to-School Blues post.

What traditions do you have to celebrate the first day of school?

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6 Ideas to Get Your Kids to Talk More About Their Day

Now that school has started, I’m sure you’ve started greeting the kids at the door with “How was school today?” Are you getting the famous one word reply– “Fine”? Or my favorite, “OK.” Ah, communication at it’s best.

Getting your kids to actively talk about their day can be a challenge but here are some tips that have worked for us on how to get your kids to talk more about their day.

Greet, don’t grill.
Kids can get defensive and feel intimidated when you ask them about school right as they get off the bus. Don’t grill them about their day as soon as they walk in the door. “What did you do today? What did you learn? What did you have for lunch?” Just take it easy and truly show them you are just happy to see them again. This worked wonders for my family since the kids didn’t drag their feet coming home to tell me bad news. They knew they could ease into it.

We found an article that Jim Fay wrote and he calls this technique the “30 minutes rule.” Don’t talk about school or your work for 30 minutes after greeting each other. You don’t want to hear bad news about your kid’s day and they don’t want you to take out any work aggression on them. Don’t let school or work ruin your relationship with your child. Make sure you are both happy to greet each other. You can read his other hints here.

Listen Up!
It’s great if your child begins the talking first. One day, don’t ask them about school at all and see what happens. Kids are usually less defensive and more willing to share their school experience when they start to talk first. So hold back the questions and just let them tell you. Or, see if they ask you about your day. (We can dream, can’t we?)
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How to Beat the Back-to-School Blues

My kids were positively gloom and doom this morning when they had to go back to school. (Why does school start so early? Why do I even have to go to school? Ninjas don’t need to learn math. Why don’t you ever buy me any decent pants?) Insert your kids’ favorite whining here.

Now I like a good wine, I mean whine, when it’s me doing the whining. I certainly don’t want to condone the kids’ whiny behavior, but I was thinking of doing something special for the kids this evening to “celebrate” or “ease the pain” of going back to school after they had so much fun and freedom this summer. My plan? Chocolate Fondue! What better way to create a Chocolate Cake Moment than with hot, gooey chocolate?

You can certainly surprise the kids with this treat after the first day of school or maybe on Friday after their first week of school to celebrate them getting back into the swing of homework.

Kirchner’s Chocolate Fondue

    1 lb. of your favorite milk chocolate bar (we like Ghirardellis)
    4 oz. dark chocolate bar
    3/4 cup heavy cream (you can use half and half for less calories)
    1 Tbsp. vanilla

Break the chocolate bars into pieces and place in your fondue, hot pot, or double boiler. Keep on a low setting. (If you don’t have any of those, just use a regular pot on very low setting and make sure you keep stirring.) Add cream and stir constantly until chocolate is melted and smooth. (If you are melting this on a stove top, watch the heat. Don’t walk away or the chocolate will boil and be ruined.) Stir in the vanilla right before serving. Then dip away!

Dipping Suggestions (In order of our kids preference):

  • Large marshmallows
  • Sliced bananas
  • Salted pretzel sticks
  • Cubed pound cake
  • Angel food cake
  • Stem strawberries
  • Hazelnut or almond biscotti (more for the adults)

Serves 6

Have fun! Do you do anything to celebrate the first day of school?

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Organizing your Kids’ School Papers

School has either started or is about to start and that means school papers are about to coming flooding into your house. Even if your school has gone “paperless” like ours, between my two kids, we still bring home about 10 papers a day that need to be signed, saved, recycled, or kept for an upcoming event. To avoid the piles of clutter in your kitchen, check out these tips on how to organize your kids’ school paperwork so that nothing gets lost and you keep the clutter under control.

Read the article I wrote, 5 Tips for Organizing School Paperwork over at Mamapedia.com. Readers added some great tips in the comment section as well.

For more Back-to-School Sanity Saving Tips for Moms, check out all of my Back-to-School parenting tips. From packing more fun into your kids lunch box, to volunteering at school with ease, to getting your kids to talk more about their day, I want to help make this Back-to-School season less stressful for you.

How do you keep all of your kids’ school paperwork organized?

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Back-to-School Treats for the Kids

My kids are not at all excited about going back to school. They love staying up later, playing with their friends all day, and enjoying some really cool camps this summer. So, I went on a hunt online to find some fun back-to-school treats to cheer them up a little about going back to school. (Or, make them as treats for you and your husband to celebrate that the kids are finally going back to school and we can get the family back into a routine.) Either way, have fun cooking together and enjoy!


I just discovered Jenni Price’s website that has the most amazing pancake designs! She’s an illustrator and enjoys creating art with pancake batter. Check out her Back-to-School Pancake Pop Treats. Go to her site to download the incredibly detailed instructions and check out all of her other Pancake designs. You’ll be running for the kitchen to start creating something.


Jill from the Meet the Dubiens Blog made the most adorable after school snack with an owl theme. I can’t wait to make this for my kids next week. Head over to her site for the instructions.
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5 Ways to Pack More Fun into Your Child’s Lunchbox


Does the idea of packing healthy school lunches for your kids make you break into a nervous sweat? After one week of school have you depleted your creative ideas for lunch? Do your kids come home telling you that they didn’t eat because they didn’t like anything in their lunch box? Don’t fear! Getting your child to eat his or her lunch just takes a little planning and creativity. Here are 5 ideas to make school lunches the highlight of your kids’ day.

1. Shake it up.
Prepare the same old food in a new way. Instead of a regular peanut butter and jelly on white bread (ho hum), make Pinwheel PB&Js by rolling up the PB&J in a flour tortilla and slicing it into pinwheels (fun!). Try a peanut butter and raisin or banana sandwich for kicks. Try dark chocolate peanut butter instead of regular. While some kids freak out when they see a new “food form,” as kids get older they will be willing to try more things, so don’t be afraid to shake it up. (And, if they are really hungry, they’ll at least try it.) Plus, if your kids are like mine, they actually try new stuff when they aren’t at home. I still remember my son coming home one day to tell me how awesome salami was because he had it at a friend’s house. Obviously, my many attempts to get him to try it were lame.

2. Get ‘em to pitch in.
Getting your child involved with the meal preparation is a great way to help ensure that they eat their lunch, not trade it away. It also makes them feel more grown-up. You could try filling one of each of three plastic baskets with fruits, vegetables and snacks. Then allow your child to pick one item from each basket for their lunch. Add a sandwich and a drink, and you’re done. They might actually eat all of their lunch if they got to choose what’s in it.

3. Chart it.
For siblings who like different foods, make a chart of favorite foods with the child’s name at the top and foods they like and will eat for lunch underneath. Then you can simply pick items from the list when you are still tired in the morning before your coffee kicks in. Keeping it simple and easy for Mom!

4. Theme of the week.
Surprise your kids by incorporating a new lunch theme every few weeks, such as serving all red foods. Pair a strawberry jelly sandwich with cherry tomatoes and low-fat ranch dressing with cherry Jell-O for dessert. Meals could be all round foods (a bagel with cream cheese sandwich, an orange, and carrot rounds) or a backwards lunch (a sandwich with meat and cheese on the outside and a note written in reverse telling your child to eat dessert first).

5. A rose by any other name might be worth eating.
To make those healthy greens more interesting for your boys, label your food with a gross name. Cooked spinach could be Sea Monster Hair. Snow peas are Alien Fingers. Broccoli are mini trees from the Haunted Forest. They’ll look forward to your creativity. (So would I. Let me know what you named everything in your kids lunch. I’ll share it in a future post.)

Yes, these ideas take a little time and prep to make. But remember; planning it on Sunday night for the weekdays will save you precious time on weeknights from trying to think of new lunch ideas. Or, just throw in the fun randomly when you have time. Your kids will never know what they’ll find that way.

In a future post, I’ll highlight some fun things you can do by making a kids bento box lunch. Have fun and here’s to healthy lunches for your kids this year!

What do you do to make your kids’ lunch less boring?

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3 More Ways to Get Into a Back-to-School Routine

Yesterday, we shared 3 ideas for getting the kids back into a back-to-school routine. Want more tips on how to get the family back into a school frame of mind?

Get a Family Calendar.
A Master Family Calendar is imperative for keeping track of the family’s commitments and should be easily accessible for everyone. Teach your kids how to look at the family calendar and increase their sense of responsibility by letting them know what they need to prepare for the next day. Keep the calendar in the kitchen or a common room. Here are some ideas to keep on track:

  • Once school starts, have them sit with you and write in which days they have gym, art or music. That way you know if you need to bring or wear sneakers on gym day.
  • Make it a habit to look at the calendar together after dinner so that everyone can prepare.
  • Check their backpack to find those papers with new important dates to mark on the calendar.

Dad will appreciate the family calendar when he comes home from work and can’t find anyone. He can check the calendar and see we’re all at soccer practice. MomAgenda has some great desktop and wall calendars to help you keep track of the family. You can download a free weekly family calendar from Mommytracked.com. For you and your spouse to stay coordinated, try the free Cosi online Family Calendar service or sync up your calendars using Google Calendars. Even if you use your Smartphone to keep your personal schedule, it’s nice to a have a written central calendar that the rest of the family can refer to, as well.

Give your self time.
Your kids can sense your moods. They are like bats that way. Keeping yourself upbeat and calm in the morning can work wonders on how your kid’s day goes. Whether it may be getting up extra early if you need to begin the day with a quiet morning, or just a cup of extra strong coffee is all you need; be sure to give your child your brightest smile in the morning- that is the best gift you can give to help them through the rest of the day. Then, when they get on the bus or your drop them off, have another cup of coffee. While it’s not fair that you are the one that needs to sacrifice those extra precious minutes of sleep, it’s better for all to not be freaked out in the morning.

Star Wars pancake breakfast

Breakfast, it does a body good.
Breakfast doesn’t need to be elaborate but it does set the energy level for the whole day. Keep it simple with cereal, yogurt, granola, fruit, frozen waffles (no-trans fat, please) and hard boiled or scrambled eggs, if they’ll eat it. We introduced our kids to a European-style bread, ham and cheese breakfast and they love it. It’s easy to make on a busy school morning. My kids also love VitaMuffins and our microwave scrambled egg cooker. It’s a fast and easy way to get protein into them. On Sunday, make pancakes or French toast and freeze it for the week. Don’t let your kids skip breakfast though. Have them eat a cereal bar or banana at the very least, to get the brain going.

The week before school starts, get up a little earlier and try out some new breakfast options to see which the kids like best. That way once school starts you have a breakfast plan.

To make it easier for school night meal planning, use our MomAgenda Weekly Meal pads and Grocery Shopping Pads. You can plan out breakfasts, sack lunch, and dinners ahead of time to make it easier to shop for groceries and eliminate the need to brainstorm last minute dinners.

Any other tips for us on getting the family into a back-to-school routine? Please share.

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Back to a Back-to-School Routine – Part 1
Back to School Traditions
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Back to a Back-to-School Routine

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Getting your kids to switch from the crazy, free days of summer into a Back-to-School routine again can be a little challenging. “I don’t want to go to bed!” “I’m not tired!” My husband and I can’t seem to get the kids in bed before 10 p.m. this summer but with the new school season creeping closer, we need to take charge and get the kids back on track. (And, reclaim our evening downtime.)

With just a little advanced planning, you can get everyone back into a School frame of mind. Here’s what works for us.

Get in the Groove Again.
A week or two before school starts, get the kids back into a routine. No more sleeping in front of the TV. No more waking up at noon or with younger kids, no more waking up at 6 a.m. for no reason. Reestablish a bed time, start reading a story again before bed, and wake the kids up earlier in the morning to get their body back into a “school sleeping cycle.”

State the Rules.
Sit down at the dinner table one night and lay down your expectations for the school year. Remind them of the family rules like:

  • No breakfast until they are fully dressed
  • Backpack ready the night before
  • No TV or Wii until homework is done
  • No friends over until homework is done

By stating these up front as a reminder, your kids should have the rules down pat by oh, say Middle School. However, you’ll feel better that you did your “Momly” duty.

melissa and doug wooden kids chore chart

As a visual reminder, make a chart that reminds the kids what they need to do each morning or before bed – brush teeth, get backpack ready, set out clothes for the next day, make bed. This takes away your need to nag, … or at least nag less. We sell a Magnetic Kids Chore Chart that we use daily to help with the reminders. (We also tie their allowance to the chart, so the kids actually use it.)

Address hidden emotional concerns.
Kids are usually worried about going back to school, even if they don’t express it. So ask them. Sit down at dinner and go around the table to ask your kids what they are most excited about and most worried about for the upcoming year. You’ll be surprised at what concerns them and you may be able to help them eliminate the concern before school even starts. But only if you know what’s bothering them. Most of your child’s concern will most likely come from not knowing what to expect (so ask an older neighbor kid), where their class room is (go see it when you Meet the Teacher), or how to get on and off the bus (ask an older neighbor to be their bus buddy). Give them the confidence to start school right.

Here are 3 More Ways to Get the Family Back Into a Back-to-School Routine.

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Back-to-School Traditions
How to Buy the Perfect Kids Backpack
6 Ways to Save Money on Back-to-School Clothes

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Ease Your Kids Fears Over Starting a New School

If your child is headed off to kindergarten, middle school or high school this year, they may be nervous about what to expect. These are big transitions! I know for me it happened so long ago (sigh!) that it’s easy to forget the anxiety and secret fears of going to a brand new school or starting a new phase in your school career.

Whether your child is excited and eager to go to the new school (for a few of you lucky parents) or anxious and unsure (for most of us), read my post at Patch.com “Tips to Ease Kids’ Fears When Starting A New School” with tips to smooth the transitions and start the year off right.

Do you have a child starting kindergarten, middle school or high school this year? Are they nervous or excited?

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7 Back-to-School Money Saving Tips

The Back-to-School shopping season has officially started. Agh! Stores have swapped their summer merchandise for Fall clothing and back-to-school essentials, so good luck finding a bathing suit now. Have you started shopping yet to send your kids back to school or off to preschool?

To make your life a little easier, here are some money saving and bargain shopping tips to make this Back-to-School season a little easier on the wallet.

1. Always have your school supplies list with you. You never know when you’ll run into a bargain somewhere. Start checking off the items as you buy them to avoid duplicates. Sometimes stores you don’t expect have some good school supply deals.

2. Only buy what you need. Your kids are constantly growing and while you think their clothes from last year might still fit, they might not. Starting now, have your kids do a fashion show for you to see what in their closet still fits and what can be given away. Now you can make a list of what clothes, shoes, backpacks, and other accessories you need so you don’t over buy.

3. Wait to buy school clothes until after Labor Day. You’ll see more coupons and sales running then. Also, it never ceases to amaze me that after I buy my son new jeans in August, he grows an inch in September. There’s nothing worse than having a bag full of new clothes that your kids suddenly can’t wear. Wait until late September to make sure any last minute growth spurts are out of the way.

4. Search online for coupons to your favorite stores. There are all kinds of coupon sites out there to help you find a code. Don’t forget to check the store’s site directly. Some store sites offer coupons to new customers for signing up for their e-newsletters or listing their own coupons and deals. Psst! Shameless Plug: If you sign up for ChocolateCakeClub.com’s newsletter, we’ll send you a 15% off coupon for your first order. Our sister site has everything you need for back-to-school or off-to-preschool like school and toddler backpacks, messenger bags, waste free lunch boxes, water bottles, alarm clocks, supply bags, kids art storage folders, toddler nap mats, and even school paper organizers for Mom.

5. Check second-hand clothes shops or garage sales for kids clothes. Many times, these clothes were never worn and still have the tag on them. Some churches and Moms groups have used clothing sales so keep your eye out.

6. Host a neighborhood kids clothes swap. If you live in a neighborhood with a lot of kids or if you have a lot of friends with kids all different ages, host a clothes swap. Have all the Moms over for some chocolate cake. Tell them to bring their kids’ gently used clothes and see if you can swap. Set up a Yahoo! Group and have your friends and neighbors list their sizes before the swap meet. Even if you don’t end up doing much swapping, you’ll have a fun time getting together.

7. Finally, remember to write your kid’s name on the tag of their coat/jacket, backpack, lunch bag, etc. Stuff always gets lost but you might have a better chance of reclaiming it from the school Lost and Found box if you label it. Then you won’t have to spend more money replacing items.

So relax, take a deep breath and bring on the Back-to-School Season! Read all of our Back-to-School Sanity Saving Tips for Mom for a stress-free season.

What other tips do you have for saving money during Back-to-School season? I’d love to hear them.

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How to Choose the Right Backpack for your Child

toddler backpack spunky and supply bag

It’s Back-to-School Season, when the kids are done jumping into pools and beginning to jump into books. That means one thing – Back-to-School Shopping!. If your kids need a new backpack or their very first backpack for school or preschool, we’ve made life easier for you with these tips on how to choose the perfect backpack for your kids.

Your child will go through three backpack-size phases in their school years – preschool, elementary school, and middle/high school. While you may have more than one backpack during those times, most backpacks will fall into one of these three backpack “sizes” so you’ll need to pick the right one for your child.




PRESCHOOL OR DAYCARE

    A preschool or toddler backpack should be small and simple, just big enough to carry those toddler essentials like a change of clothes, snack, BFF blankie, or a stuffed animal. Generally, a toddler backpack will fit a child ages 2 – 5 years old. So ask yourself, what do they need to bring every day and will this backpack hold it? Are you going to carry it or are they? If they are going to carry their own backpack to preschool then it needs to be smaller and very lightweight. You don’t want them looking like a deformed turtle as they walk down the driveway.

    Toddler Backpacks

    If you think you might use the bag while traveling, look for a Pull Along Backpack, one with a handle to make it easier for your child to pull instead of wear.

    Most toddler-friendly backpacks are about 10″ – 12″ high and 10″ – 12″ wide. However, some can get as large as 14″ tall, but I would recommend that size for 4 or 5 year old rather than a 2 year old.

    Safari Toddler Quilted Backpack
    Pay attention to how the backpack opens and closes, as well. The younger the toddler the harder it may be for them to work a zipper, so you might want one with just a flap like this Quilted Toddler Backpack, which is machine washable as well. Bonus! But if zippers are no problem and you want something a little more sturdy, these Four Peas Toddler Backpacks are ideal.


ELEMENTARY SCHOOL

    They say Niagara Falls is the 8th wonder of the world but I would argue that it’s my son’s backpack after a day at school. We’re talking a few books, folders, loose papers, a few Lego guys to play with on the bus, and of course pieces of priceless art like life cycles of a butterfly, macaroni necklaces and popsicle stick art. (I know these are going to be worth something on eBay one day.)

    So, your child’s school backpack needs to be big enough and durable enough to hold all that and a bag of chips. If your child takes lunch to school then you also need to fit a lunch bag and maybe a water bottle. Now, here’s the kicker. Does your child go directly to an afterschool activity or care location where they would need to add in sports gear, additional books, or toys? Most school-size backpacks are sufficient for an elementary school child’s needs but if you are using the backpack for extra activities or to travel with on the weekends, go for the largest size you can find.

    In general, look for a school-size backpack that is 14″ – 17″ tall to make sure it will hold books, notebooks and binders.



MIDDLE OR HIGH SCHOOL

For YOU, it’s all about durability because they carry some pretty heavy books. Look for durable material and a large size bag. For THEM, it’s going to be all about the ‘tude. This bag will hold more than just books, it will hold a statement. Don’t be surprised to find their bag covered in hanging doodads or covered with pins and patches. Your child will want to express him or herself so let them go for it.

There are a variety of styles for older kids; standard backpacks or messenger bags are popular, so have fun with your tween or teen picking out what they feel comfortable carrying- because they’re not just carrying a bag, but rather their heart on their sleeve, I mean back.

CLEANABILITY

    If you want the backpack to last a few years, look for tough material. Not only to take abuse but to stand up to a hazmat-type cleaning. Make sure it is machine washable or easily surface cleaned. With my kids, we need to empty the bag and wash it every 2 months. The bags get skanky with food, left over glue, and various other substances that I can’t even identify! Remember, you only want one living thing attached to your kid’s backpack – your kid.

LAST NOTES ABOUT DESIGN

    When your kids are younger, backpacks make a great gift. You or the gift giver can choose a cute, hip, or even plain design and your child will be thrilled. Once your kids gets ready for school, just try and get them to like the same design you do. I dare you! Avoid the arguments and let them pick.

    Also, when your kids are younger they are going to gravitate towards the character designed backpacks – Spiderman, Dora, SpongeBob, Princesses, etc. However, these “fad” backpacks will probably only last you one year because your child will move on from that character quickly. “Oh Mom, Dora is so yesterday.” So, if you are going to buy a character backpack, don’t obsess over the quality and durability factors. And don’t pay too much for it because most likely it will go in the donation pile and be going to school with some other child.

    Do you want to embroider the child’s name on the bag? If so, look for a design that has an open space on the front so you can add the name.

I hope these tips made it easier for you to choose the right backpack for your child. As a shameless plug, our sister site, the Chocolate Cake Club has a ton of Kids School Backpacks, Messenger Bags, and Toddler Backpacks if you are looking for ideas and inspiration.

If you still need help, shoot us an email at service@chocolatecakeclub.com and we’ll be happy to help steer you in the right direction.

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5 Items Your Child Needs to Start Preschool


Is your toddler starting preschool in the fall? This is such an exciting time for them! They’ll meet new friends, learn the alphabet, work on fun art projects, and get exposed to new books, toys, and rules of behavior. They will also get comfortable to being away from Mom and Dad, if they haven’t already. Get your child ready for this new, fun experience with these 5 essential items.

    1. Toddler-Sized Backpack

    You’ll need to carry some items to preschool every day so a backpack that is sized just right for your toddler is a must. Look for a backpack that is lightweight, not too big, easy to open and close, and machine washable. In general, the ideal size for a toddler is about 12 or 13 inches tall. You want it big enough to hold a blanket, a favorite toy, and maybe a change of clothes. Look for adjustable straps too so they can continue to use it as they grow. You should be able to get at least 2 years out of your backpack. If that’s the case, steer clear of cartoon characters on the backpack. Kids change their favorites so quickly.

    You’ll want to get your child’s name on the backpack somewhere so it doesn’t get mistakenly picked up by another child. You can get their name embroidered on the outside of the bag which kids love. Or if that makes you nervous that a stranger could see your child’s name, use their initials or just put a label inside the backpack. Read my post How to Buy the Perfect Kids Backpack for more considerations.


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Take the Family to Cirque Shanghai for some Extreme Fun!

My whole family was lucky enough to be invited to the press event and get free tickets for “Cirque Shanghai Extreme” at the Navy Pier Skyline Stage in Chicago last week. The show was “extremely” awesome. I knew we would enjoy the show but I was surprised at how much everyone in the family really enjoyed it. Even my sometimes jaded 11-year-old son thought it was totally cool. Read below for details to win 4 Free Tickets to Cirque Shanghai Extreme from OntheGoChicago.com or get a discount code for tickets.

The show is thrilling. From the opening act when the performers “zip line” onto the stage followed by Chinese dragon dancers coming down the aisles, your kids will be mesmerized by the sounds, colors, and cool feats of the performers. The acts feature juggling, acrobatics, dance, contortionists, and MOTORCYCLES.

My daughter’s favorite act was the Barrel Contortion Act. Three girl performers are dressed like candy and they squirm and contort their way into and out of these three tiny barrels with ease.

My son on the other hand was all about the Motorcycle cage at the end of the show. It’s AMAZING how they can get 4 motorcycles racing around the inside of a metal cage on stage.

The show is only 75 minutes long so don’t be afraid to take toddlers to the show. The little ones we saw in the audience didn’t move or fidget once through the show. You can take in the rest of Navy Pier’s attractions before or after the show, depending on your kids’ bedtime.

A note of caution – the Skyline Stage at Navy Pier is an open air theater. Even though it is hot out, if the wind picks up off the lake, your kids might get cold. My daughter was freezing by the end of the show and we didn’t have a jacket with us.

If you have a wide age range of kids in your family or guests in from out of town, this is the show for you. Toddlers, teens, and adults alike will be amazed.

My friend Cindy over at OntheGoChicago.com has 4 free tickets to Cirque Shanghai Extreme but you need to enter today!

Details:

    Ticket Info: Tickets for kids ages 3 – 12 years old are only $15 and you can Cirque Shanghai has offered our readers a special discount offer! Use code KIDS for $25 Adult Gold Circle tickets for Wed-Fri performances for July and August. Tickets now on sale through ticketmaster.com or by calling 800-745-3000

    Place: Navy Pier Open-Air Skyline Stage, 600 E. Grand Avenue, Chicago, IL

    Parking: Parking at Navy Pier is $20.

    Dates: Now through September 5th, 2011

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Staying in Touch with Your Kids While You Travel


Do you have to travel a lot for work? Have you taken a romantic vacation without the kids? In our house, we’ve done both. My husband and I do have to travel for work every now and then. We also just returned from an AWESOME trip to France where the kids stayed home. We were celebrating my parents’ 45th anniversary and our 15th! We miss the kids when we travel but we’ve started to do some funny things while we’re gone that the kids look forward to now.

I wrote a post today for Patch.com on Ideas to Stay Connected with the Kids While You Travel to share some tips with you on how to make travel away from home less stressful and actually fun.

In the article I talk about taking one of your kids toys with you on your trips and taking funny photos of their toys traveling. Here are some that we took in France. Our daughter gave us a ferret and our son gave us a Roman Action Figure.

Also, we’ve started a funny face contest when we Skype now. While we were in France we were able to video call home every day and talk to the kids. It’s so easy to stay connected and find out about their day when you can see their faces on the computer screen. Having video capability is awesome because we could show our kids the view out of our hotel room in Paris and walk around the rooms of the Chateau in Provence so the kids could see where we were staying. Technology is AMAZING when it seems like you are in the room together. Skype gets my vote for one of the coolest inventions of our century!

I hope these tips make your work travel a little less stressful and easier to bear for you both you and the kids.

Have you taken a vacation without your kids? How did you stay in touch?

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Keep Your Kids Amused So You Can Work From Home

Working from home can be tough. Every summer I find myself facing the same predicament: how can I keep the kids busy so I can get work done? I work from home full-time and while my job is very flexible, I do have project deadlines, meetings, and posts to write. Whether you work from home full time, were lucky enough to arrange to work from home more in the summer time, or just have a huge home project to complete, you’ll need to keep the kids occupied. However, with the economy still down, many families are opting to keep their kids home from summer camp to avoid the extra expense. With a few weeks of summer behind us now, I’ve learned a few tips on how to get work done, no matter how old your kids are. Read my post at Patch.com on Keeping Your Kids Amused So You Can Work From Home.

What do you do to keep your kids busy and happy while you work from home this summer?

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Raising Wholesome Girls In Today’s Culture

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There was a great article in the Huffington Post last week by Lori Day about Raising Wholesome Children in Today’s Culture, which shares 10 tips for parents to take control of what messages their kids receive today about sex, violence or tolerance.

She mentions books or resources that promote reading to children, getting kids reacquainted with the outdoors, and raising health-conscious daughters. I was thrilled to see that she mentioned the Go!Go! Sports Girl Dolls that we sell in her article. Designed by fellow Mom Jodi Norgaard, we love how these dolls encourage girls to be active and are a wholesome alternative to the “sexed-up” dolls you see in the stores now. I don’t know about you but I would much rather have my daughter grow up idolizing Mia Hamm than Britney Spears. These dolls have won several toy industry awards and Jodi notes: “I measure real girls and make the dolls’ proportions accurate.” Nice! To read more, check out the post I wrote about Girls, Get Your Sports On featuring Jodi Norgaard.

TREAT FOR YOU: To help you grab one of these dolls for your little girl or granddaughter, through June 30th, take 20% OFF any of the Go! Go! Sports Girl Dolls we sell at ChocolateCakeClub.com. We’ve got the Soccer, Gymnastics, Ballet, and Swimming dolls available. Use coupon code GOGO20.

Go Go Sports Girl Doll

Not only will you feel great that you are promoting a healthy lifestyle for your daughter, she’ll love taking her new doll friend with her to sports practice and lessons.

How do you encourage your daughters to be more active and care about their health and bodies?

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Ideas to Celebrate the Last Day of School

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My kids are bouncing off the walls. They can’t wait for the last day of school tomorrow. Even though I don’t get the summer off, I do look forward to our annual family tradition of celebrating the end of the school year. Since they are so excited, I figure why not join in on the enthusiasm and make it a family tradition to do something fun as a family to mark the beginning of summer break?

Parents, if you can, take the afternoon off of work or dedicate a day for pure fun. Here are some ideas to inspire your celebration:

1. Hit the pool! Let the splashing begin. Head on over to your local pool and start working on that gorgeous tan while splashing around with the kids.

2. Neighborhood Fire Pit, Anyone? Put a fire pit out on the driveway and invite the neighborhood families over to celebrate together. Share your summer vacation plans, discuss the highlights of the past school year, talk about starting a gourmet club or how mosquitoes are the plague of man’s existence. You know, whatever makes you happy.

3. Run Around. It’s summer, so go outside. Be active and enjoy the outdoors. Go to the local forest preserve and play games, hit your favorite theme park, go for a long bike ride in another part of town, or go horseback riding if it’s available near you.

4. Go see a movie during the day. If your outdoor activities get rained out or you just want to enjoy extreme air conditioning, take advantage of that early bird, weekday discount to see the latest family flick. It will be a rare pleasure for the kids to see a movie during the day, because SCHOOL IS OUT!

5. Cook your kid’s favorite meal. Ask your kids what they want as a celebratory meal and have fun making it together.

Here are some other great ideas from around the Mom blogs for celebrating the last day of school.

Easy, fun ideas from Cindy at SheSparkles.com

Check out this awesome idea from Secrets of a Super Mommy to create a last day of school art gallery of her kids artwork from the whole year. Cool!

eGuide Organize Kids Artwork
BTW, if you are overwhelmed with the pounds of artwork and school papers that are coming home on the last few days of school, download my free e-Guides on Organizing & Storing Your Kids Artwork and Organize the School Paperwork Chaos.

TipJunkie.com has a great round-up for end-of-school activities.

Do you celebrate the last day of school? How?

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So Many Ways to Say Thank You!

Thank you ideas

Tipjunkie.com recently ran a post with 14 Unique Ways to Say Thank You. At the end of the school year, there are quite a few people that need to be thanked by our family – bus driver, school nurse, neighbors who always help watch the kids when needed, etc. So, it’s nice to find some different ways to say thank you than a box of candy or just a card. Plus, by making something special, you’re really saying “Your help meant so much to me that I wanted to Thank You with something a little extra.”

I hope these ideas help inspire you. I’d love to get one of these from someone.

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10 Perfect Teacher’s Gift Ideas

School is almost out so the question on every Mom’s mind is “What do we get for the kids’ teachers?” Every year I try to be creative and come up with something unique but most years I end up giving them what they say they really need. I am fortunate enough to have 6 teachers living in my neighborhood so I asked them what they like to get at the end of the year from their students. Here were the top answers, hands down.

1. Book Gift Cards – many teachers have to buy their own books for the classroom so gift cards help to cover that expense for them.

2. Coffee Gift Cards – We’re in a room with 28 loud children every day, need we say more?

3. Target Gift Cards – Hey, many teachers are Moms, too. (This applies for movie ticket certificates, restaurant certificates, and anything that you would appreciate as a gift.)

4. Anything Homemade by the student, especially if they had a nice bond throughout the school year. Notes, photos collages, or a written story were appreciated.

Want some more ideas? Here are some additional gift ideas I’ve come up with and found on various Mom sites.

5. The Mother Huddle blog had some ideas that were nice and most importantly easy to do. I really liked the Joyful Hands soap idea.

6. The Skip to My Lou blog had some great simple ideas for Teacher Appreciation Week that would also work as nice year end gifts. I like the Gift Certificate for a Massage idea.

7. If you have an artist at home, frame one of their masterpieces. My daughter’s teacher is retiring at the end of year so she is going to draw a picture of the teacher’s classroom so she’ll remember it.

8. How about a plant? They last longer than flowers and can be used to lighten up the classroom next year.

9. A box of pretty Thank You Notes. The teachers may want to send a thank you to all of the students for their year end gifts so why not make it easier for them to do so. If you don’t want to make your own, Sincerely Yours by Tracy has some beautiful, unique Thank You Notes and Teacher Cards.

10. A movie night package. Grab a recently released DVD, popcorn and some candy so your teacher can have a fun night at home with her or his family.

Care to add to the list? We’d love to hear more ideas!

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Tags: Back to School Tips · Ideas on Gifts for Big Occasions · Mom's Corner · Parenting Tips

Homemade End-of-Year Teacher’s Gift Ideas

It’s so hard to believe but the end of the school year is just weeks away. My kids had some really good teachers this year so I started looking for some easy but creative gift ideas that we could make together to show our appreciation. Here were my favorite ideas:

Teacher Lunchbox


Teacher's Lunchbox

This Teacher’s Lunchbox for the AlltheSmallThings blog takes a little bit of time, but what an amazing gift.


Apple Caramel Cupcakes in a Jar


These Apple Caramel Cupcakes in a Jar from Cheryl at TidyMom.net are another way to unique package some food gifts. They look so tasty!


Apple Oreo Pops


Apple Oreo Pops

These super cute Apple Oreo Pops that I saw over on the SkiptoMyLou site are a fantastic idea.


Fairy Container Garden


Fairy Container Garden

Finally, this Fairy Container Garden from PinkandGreenMama blog is so unique and fun to both make and give. What a fun way to give a little bit of magic.

Which one is your favorite? Have fun making these gifts that are sure to make your kids’ teachers smile!

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Getting Mom & Kids Ready for Summer Camp

School is almost out and Summer Camp season is upon us. Are you ready? At our house, we are in full Summer Camp preparation mode. We’re signing up for day camps, checking to see what our neighborhood friends are doing during summer vacation, and lining up babysitters to cover for when I need to go to work meetings.

We’re also evaluating our Summer Camp Gear from last year to make sure we have everything ready to go on Day 1. Here’s the checklist I created for myself. I hope it helps you get organized, as well.

  • Send in all medical forms for camp
  • Order any medication refills, especially epi-pens, so the counselors can administer care to your child at camp
  • Check to see if bathing suits still fit
  • Check to see if pool towel has holes in it. If yes, get a new one
  • Purchase sun screen and bug spray (don’t use old one under the sink – it’s probably not effective anymore)
  • Make sure school backpack is holding up and can carry camp gear easily. If too small, buy a duffle bag.
  • Get new lunch box if old one is looking a little shabby or you want to upgrade to a new waste free lunch box system
  • Definitely get 2 stainless water bottles ready and waiting (2 because you are going to lose 1 within the first week or two of camp or you won’t get around to washing it one night)
  • Double check your kids’ sneakers. Many camps don’t let kids wear flip flops or sandals.
  • Write your child’s name on everything!
  • Stock up on trading cards or little games that the kids can take to camp to play with their new friends (My kids used to love trading Pokemon cards at camp, then it was little erasers. We’ll see what’s hot this year.)

If your kids are old enough to go to overnight camp, they might need the following:

  • Note cards to write a note home to Mom & Dad
  • Disposable camera to capture memories
  • Sleeping bag
  • Pillowcase
  • Toiletry bag
  • Toiletries
  • Snacks

What did I miss? What does your child need for Summer Camp? To quote the Boy Scouts, “Are you prepared?”

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5 FUN Ways to Help Your Family Go Green for Earth Day

Farmers Market

There are so many great posts out there about how your family can do some simple things to Go Green for Earth Day … and every day frankly. I like this one from Savvy Sassy Moms. However, I wanted to write a post about how you can have FUN Going Green.

1. Kill the Vampires. Play a game and have the kids go room to room looking for any appliances that are plugged in and running but aren’t being used. That includes unplugging your cell phone when it is fully charged. In my office for example, we had a scanner, three printers, and three computers plugged in. These appliances were still sucking electricity even though they were in sleep mode. Turn them off! Kill the vampires.

2. This Friday Night have a Family No Electricity Night. Light a fire in the fireplace, add some candles, and then play board games by candlelight. The kids will think it is so cool. It’s a great way to spend some quality time together talking and playing games without all of the distractions. In today’s uber, fast-paced world, unplugging seems like a great way to relax and bond while also conserving energy.

3. Bike Ride to Dinner. Plan on going out for dinner this weekend? Why not pick a restaurant that can be part of family bike ride. Save gas and burn off that dessert. Bonus!

4. Walk to your local Farmers Market. If you live in the Midwest, it seems like Farmers Market Season will never come. However, for many other parts of the country take the kids to the Farmers Market and support your local farmers. The benefits? Organic food, no chemical fertilizers to harm the environment or you, less gas used for distribution, and very little packaging to clutter up our landfills. Here are some ideas on Games and Activities to do with the kids at the Farmers Market.

5. Spend an evening at your Local Library. Libraries are the original reuse and recycle centers! Save the trees (truffula or others) – don’t buy new books when you can get them from the library. Everyone in my family loves to read so we enjoy going to the library and spending some time alone and together discovering favorite books or new authors. We can sit on the comfy chairs in the library and read to the kids. Read The Lorax. This way the lights are all off at our house, too.

If you turn your Go Green efforts into FAMILY FUN, they’ll probably get done more often and become a habit for your family. After you have done all of these activities, have your kids write and send a letter to The Lorax and let him know that your family cares and is doing its part. Here are some additional tips on what families can do to protect the environment.

“Unless someone like you CARES a whole awful lot, nothing is going to get better. It’s not.”


Any other ideas on how your family can have fun AND protect the environment?

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Celebrating Earth Day with the Kids

We’re celebrating Earth Day this week so we’ll be sharing ideas on how to get the kids involved in respecting and preserving our planet, as well as simple things we can do as families to protect our environment.

Here are some ideas on how to talk and act upon the meaning of Earth Day.

Play: First and foremost, go outside and just enjoy the day. I just discovered the Go Explore Nature blog, which is a new favorite, and I love their idea and checklist for a Spring Nature Scavenger Hunt.

Green Toys Recycling Truck

Another way to play and help is to purchase eco-friendly toys and support the manufacturers who are doing their part to save the environment. Some of our favorite eco-friendly toys, that we we love enough to sell at ChocolateCakeClub.com, are the Green Toys Tea Set, Green Toys Recycling Truck, and the Totem Boys and Girls Recycled Construction Sets.

We sell quite a few organic and eco-friendly toys that kids love and you’ll feel good about giving.

farmers market set

Plant: Head over to your local nursery and buy a perennial flower that you love. Plant it with your kids to help beautify your yard and the neighborhood. Read How to Teach Your Kids a Love of Gardening. Get your kids their very own Gardening Set so they get excited about spending time in the garden with Mom or Grandma. Teach your kids about locally grown produce with the Playful Chef’s Farmers Market Set. Here’s how to have fun with the kids on a Trip to the Farmers Market.
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Tags: Adventures · Celebrate Earth Day with Kids · Family Fun Ideas · Ideas for family projects · Parenting Tips · Spring Family Fun Activities

Tips for Staying in Touch with the Kids When You’re On the Road

Do you have to travel a lot for work? Even if you only make one trip a year, it’s hard to leave the kiddos at home. You miss them. They miss you. Even so, you can still make “going away” fun for everyone. Read the article I wrote for LivingMyMoment.com with ideas for staying in touch with the kids when you are traveling. Happy Travels!

What do you do to keep in touch with your kids when you travel?

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How to Teach Your Kids the Importance of Giving Back

It’s National Volunteer Week so I wanted to share some ideas on helping your kids develop an attitude for gratitude with ideas and resources on projects the family can do together to help others. Check out the article I wrote for Patch.com on How To Teach Your Kids the Importance of Giving Back. There are some good ideas and resources for helping protect our environment, perfect for Earth Day next week.

CoolMomPicks.com had a great post on Quick, easy ways to volunteer while the kids are young.

Also, for National Volunteer Week take the time to thank the people who volunteer in your community or in your organization. We were in the hospital for 2 days with my daughter and I just want to give a big THANK YOU to all of the wonderful and friendly people who volunteer in the pediatric wards. My family thanks you for your kindness and help!

How does your family volunteer? At what age can you get the kids involved?

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Girls, Get Your Sports On!

Dancer Go Go Sports Doll

Not every girl wants to be a princess. Thank goodness! The world would be pretty boring with that many princesses. So we love when we find a toy that appeals to girls with other interests. Check out these sports-themed dolls that help girls celebrate their athletic interests, encourage them to lead a healthy lifestyle, as well as make great companions to take to practice. We just started selling these Go! Go! Sports Girls Dolls at ChocolateCakeClub.com because we think the Dolls are so fun and we really like the Mompreneur behind the company, Jodi Norgaard.

Jodi Norgard

The Go! Go! Sports Dolls are designed to support and encourage girls to play sports and lead an active lifestyle. The idea is to teach girls it is cool to be strong and active—not just another pretty face. (As a woman in her 40′s who still can’t put on make-up properly, I love that message!) The dolls’ bodies are not overly mature so there is no confusing sexuality associated with the doll – you know, grow up fast and dress like a 20-year-old. The bodies are soft so they are easy to hug!

Soccer Doll
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Save 30% at all Gap Stores and Support JDRF

Now that the weather is getting warmer – need new clothes? Don’t miss this great deal to stock up on a new wardrobe and help find a cure for Juvenile Diabetes – here’s a coupon to save 30% on your entire purchase this weekend at all Gap, Old Navy and Banana Republic stores. Best part – 5% goes to Juvenile Diabetes Research Foundation (JDRF). My daughter thanks you for helping find a cure and you’ll love your new Spring clothes.

Here’s the link to grab the coupon – http://gap.p.delivery.net/m/p/gap/gcan/gpjump.asp?p=bp/jdrf.html

Happy Shopping!

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Exciting News – ChocolateCakeMoments.com Gets a Make-Over!

We have some exciting news today. Check out our new look. We have revamped the ChocolateCakeMoments.com site to be way more user-friendly. While we are still working out some of the bugs and adding things back to the site, we really wanted to show it off. What changed you ask?

    1. To make sure you don’t miss any of our simple and creative family fun ideas, we are launching a monthly e-newsletter highlighting some of the month’s best posts. Don’t miss out and sign up in the box on the right.

    2. We added a search function to the site to make it easier to find content on what matters to you. Looking for Spring Break Staycation ideas? Type in Staycation. Want tips for hosting a great Family Game Night? Go ahead and search.
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Treehouse Cardboard Art Kit Featured at NeatoStuff.com

Treehouse Cardboard Art Kit

Our Treehouse Cardboard Art Kit was featured over at NeatoStuff.com this week. Thanks for the mention! Head on over to NeatoStuff.com to see the other picks for cool stuff for kids and babies.

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Cee Lo Green & the Muppets Channel Elton John at the Grammys

Did anyone watch the Grammy’s last night? I usually don’t, but last night I had it on while I was folding laundry and I caught Cee Lo Green performing his song with the Muppets. While I loved the theatricality of the whole performance, (I’m a sucker for silliness, creativity, and muppets) it made me nostalgic for Elton John performing Crocodile Rock on the Muppet Show, my favorite kids show of all time.

Don’t these seem similar?

cee lo green grammys

elton john crocodile rock

Since you can’t let the kids watch the Cee Lo Green clip with the swearing, go grab a copy of the Muppet Show Season 2 on DVD and show your kids the Elton John version. (As much as I liked Cee Lo’s muppet drummer, Animal still holds my heart.)

Animaleatdrums

Who is your favorite Muppet?

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The Ultimate Valentine’s Day Gift for Your Child

mimicking monkey product shot

This Valentine’s Day why not tell your child you love them … over and over again? I love this adorable Valentine’s Day gift, the Mimicking Monkey Sleep Soother by Cloud b which helps your child fall asleep by playing soft music. But to put the “Ultimate” in Ultimate Kids Valentine’s Day Gift, you can record a voice message as well. So go ahead and sing or whisper “I Love You” and the monkey will repeat as many times as your child likes. Your child or grandchild will love listening to Mom’s, Dad’s, Grandma’s or Grandpa’s voice.

sleeping with monkey

Plus, the Mimicking Monkey is so FLUFFY and cute, I want one! The minute I saw this product, we had to sell it.

This is also a perfect gift to give your child to stay connected when you have to travel for work. Record a message saying “Good Night” or “I Love You” and your child will still fall asleep to the sound of your voice. It’s also a great way to stay connected to your grandchild if you live in another city or state. Need I say more?

This weekend only to help spread the love, save 20% OFF of the Mimicking Monkey Sleep Soother at www.ChocolateCakeClub.com. No coupon needed but hurry and order before midnight, Sunday, Feb. 13th!

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Snow Day Fun!

girls in the snow

I am enjoying another Snow Day with my kids today after Sno-Madeggon, the Mother-of-All-Snowstorms, rolled through the Midwest. The wind, the thundersnow, and the amount of flakes was incredible to experience. What’s great though is that once the storm ended yesterday, the sun came out and it was the MOST PERFECT SNOW DAY to head outside and have fun.

Cal in igloo

My kids have been having a blast making snow forts and jumping on the trampoline once we cleared off the snow.

If this is your second Snow Day or you’re worried about what to do with the kids when they are off for President’s Day, I wrote a few posts for other sites on Fun Snow Day Activities with the Kids for PTPA Media and my local Palatine Patch.com that will give you ideas.

Also, my friend Beth Engleman, Mommyonashoestring.com, shared this great video with me on her ideas for Snow Day crafts with the kids.

marshmallow and toothpick sculpture

The Mother Huddle had a great way to keep kids amused for an hour at least with Marshmallows and Toothpicks.

Finally, I’m going to be on NBC 5 Chicago News this Saturday during the 9 a.m. newscast with family fun ideas on how to beat the winter boredom blues. I’ll post a link to the segment as soon as I can.

Have fun in the snow!

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It’s National Chocolate Cake Day!

cake

It’s National Chocolate Cake Day! Yippe! Yahoo! Hurray! I’m off to Portillos to grab a slice of Gina’s Soon To Be Famous Chocolate Cake to celebrate. See you there!

If you don’t live near a Portillos try this recipe for Molten Chocolate Cake, that we found over at the Pioneer Woman’s tasty kitchen site.

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Tags: Cool Finds · Entertaining at Home

Family Fun Idea – Go See the Harlem Globetrotters!

KIDS  and harlem globetrotters

Looking for a place to go with the family that offers clean, family entertainment that actually makes you laugh? Go see the Harlem Globetrotters!

My family was lucky enough to get free tickets to see the Harlem Globetrotters when they came to Chicago a few weeks ago, courtesy of PTPA Media. (Thanks, PTPA.) My husband and I were looking forward to it since we loved the Globetrotters when we were kids. Hey, they were big stuff back then. They had their own Variety Show, they were on TV all the time, and they were on Scooby Doo, for Pete’s Sake. (That is one of my dreams – to be on an episode of Scooby Doo. That, and to be Grand Marshall of the Rose Bowl Parade.) But I digress!

To read my review of the Harlem Globetrotters and why I think you should take your family, head on over to the Parent Tested Parent Approved Blog. Spoiler Alert – I got a hug from Curly Neal! Woo Hoo!

If you buy tickets online from the Globetrotters website, USE THE CODE “PTPA” TO RECEIVE A DISCOUNT ON TICKETS!

curly neal.

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Coolest New Product to Soothe Babies & Toddlers to Sleep

Mimicking Monkey Sleep Soother with Child

We just got in the most adorable gift for babies and toddlers. The Mimicking Monkey Sleep Soother by Cloud b takes traditional sleep soothers to a whole new level. Not only does the soft, adorable monkey play soothing sounds to help your child sleep but you can record your voice on it! Go ahead and sing a lullabye or whisper a message to help your kids feel safe and secure so they can sleep. How cool is that!!! It’s perfect for parents traveling for work or long-distance grandparents to “talk” to the little ones while they are absent. I wish I had invented this!

Mimicking Monkey by Cloud b

As they get older, they’ll have fun “monkeying around” recording their own weird messages and sounds on the Monkey. Fun!

What message would you leave your child?

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Say No! to the Back-to-School Blues

My kids were positively gloom and doom this morning when they had to go back to school. (Why does school start so early? Why do I even have to go to school? Ninjas don’t need to learn math. Why don’t you ever buy me any decent pants?) Insert your kids’ favorite whining here.

Now I like a good wine, I mean whine, when it’s me doing the whining. I certainly don’t want to condone the kids’ whiny behavior, but I was thinking of doing something special for the kids this evening to “celebrate” or “ease the pain” of going back to school after the Holiday Break. My plan? Chocolate Fondue! What better way to create a Chocolate Cake Moment than with hot, gooey chocolate?

You can certainly surprise the kids with this treat after school today or maybe on Friday after school to celebrate them getting back into the swing of homework.

Kirchner’s Chocolate Fondue

    1 lb. of your favorite milk chocolate bar (we like Ghirardellis)
    4 oz. dark chocolate bar
    3/4 cup heavy cream (you can use half and half for less calories)
    1 Tbsp. vanilla

Break the chocolate bars into pieces and place in your fondue, hot pot, or double boiler. Keep on a low setting. (If you don’t have any of those, just use a regular pot on very low setting and make sure you keep stirring.) Add cream and stir constantly until chocolate is melted and smooth. (If you are melting this on a stove top, watch the heat. Don’t walk away or the chocolate will boil and be ruined.) Stir in the vanilla right before serving. Then dip away!

Dipping Suggestions (In order of our kids preference):

  • Large marshmallows
  • Sliced bananas
  • Salted pretzel sticks
  • Cubed pound cake
  • Angel food cake
  • Stem strawberries
  • Hazelnut or almond biscotti (more for the adults)

Serves 6

Have fun! What do you do to ease the pain of going back to school for your kids?

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Tags: Back to School Tips · Cooking with the Kids · Family Celebrations · Family Fun Ideas · Holiday Fun

How to Choose the Perfect Kids Tea Set

tea party princess

There is nothing more fun than a tea party! Dressing up, pouring “tea”, serving cookies, and inviting your favorite friends – real or imaginary – is one of childhood’s greatest pleasures. At least, I think so! Even as an adult one of my favorite things to do is have tea with my BFFs.

If you know a little girl who would love to host her own tea party, then she needs a tea set. There are so many options and sometimes it’s hard to choose the right tea set for a child.

Tea sets come in a variety of materials, sizes and shapes. Porcelain, ceramic, tin, and plastic are the most common. While the first two are breakable, they are also more “dainty” or feminine in design which appeals to a lot of little girls. They are also more like “grown-up” tea sets and little girls definitely want their pretend play to be as realistic as possible. Here are some considerations to hopefully make it easier for you to choose the perfect set.

bunny tea set

Toy vs. Heirloom
Here’s my take on this debate. I think buying a beautiful tea set that your daughter or granddaughter can keep as an heirloom to remind them of you is wonderful. However, if the child is young, don’t give it to them until they are older. Or, have Mom or Grandma keep the tea set and host special tea parties for the child when they are younger and then give them the set when they are older. It will be so much more special if they remember using it with you once they get it as their very own.

Giving a young girl a beautiful, expensive tea set that she can’t touch or play with is cruel. She either won’t be allowed to touch it, which then in their eyes they are denied something fun or they will play with it anyway and feel terrible if it does break. Make a tea set gift fun for them! It is the experience of having tea with you or their friends, that they will remember.

The Age Appropriate Myth

First, of all, how old is your tea party cutie? In general, the younger the child, the more durable the tea set should be. Younger kids may not be as dexterous and need a larger tea cup. Even though they have little fingers, it might be harder for them to grab tiny cups.

Most toys give an age appropriate guideline on the box. Keep in mind this is a guide. The manufacturer is afraid you are going to break it and accuse them of not warning you, so they err on the cautious side. You are going to have to gauge whether your daughter or granddaughter can handle a breakable tea set. My son is almost 11 years old but I cringe any time he goes near glass. After all, he is officially the sworn enemy to all snow globes. If he even looks at one, it breaks. My daughter on the other hand has had a ceramic and a porcelain tea set since she was 3 years old and hasn’t chipped or broken a cup yet. She treats her tea set like gold and is dexterous enough to handle it carefully.

So look at the age guidelines on the tea sets, which are usually set for a worst case scenario and make a judgment call on whether she can handle a more fragile set. What’s the worst case scenario? She breaks a cup and you need to buy a new one. I’d rather see my kids playing and enjoying their tea set than worrying about breaking it. If you find a tea set you love and are worried it might get broken, buy 2 sets. That way you always have a back-up and no one has to worry.

Size Does Matter

Tea sets come in different sizes. There are mini tea sets which really are more collectible items or doll-size so your dolls can pretend to have tea. Your child will not be able to drink out of these. We sell this Mini Crown Tea Set which is perfect for a doll tea party. If you are buying the tea set online, it should say the size in the product description. If not, don’t hesitate to email or call, to get a better sense of the size of the tea set.

Who’s invited to the party? Believe it or not, it’s hard to find kids’ porcelain tea sets that have 4 cups. Most only have 2. We only carry one porcelain set that has 4 cups. Our plastic and tin tea sets do include 4 cups so you might want to look at tea sets in other materials, if you need more than 2 cups.

chili's tea party

You can always buy mismatched porcelain tea cups at estate sales, flea markets, or second hand stores to add more cups to your set. I know I needed to invite ALL of my stuffed animals to the tea party or they would get upset.

Drinkability

Here’s the million dollar question. Is your child going to drink out of the tea set? When your child is younger, they have no problem pretending. They don’t need liquid in the cup to have a good time. When your child hits 5 years old or older, they might want to be a little more “grown-up” and serve the tea at their party, drinking water, ginger ale, root beer, or juice out of the tea cups. It’s as much fun to pour as it is to drink. If that is the case, you need to make sure that the tea set is food safe, FDA-approved, and water resistant. If the set is plastic, make sure it meets all BPA, phthalate, and lead safety standards. Basically, it needs to be non-toxic. While a tin tea set may be non-toxic, once you add liquid to it some tea sets start to leak or rust.

If she wants to drink out of the tea set, look for a cup size that is at least 2” in diameter. You won’t get a lot of liquid in these cups, about 2 ounces, but it’s enough. The porcelain tea sets we sell at Chocolate Cake Club, like our Daisy Tea Set, fit this bill.

Green Toys Eco-Friendly Tea Set

If you really want to put a “drink” in the cups, at least 4 ounces, then our Green Porcelain Tea Set or our Green Toys Eco-Friendly Tea Sets are a better bet.

I hope these considerations have helped you to choose the perfect kids tea set for your little girl’s first or next tea party. We’ll be adding a post on How to Host the Perfect Tea Party next week so come back for tips on how to make your kids’ tea parties even more fun and unique.

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Download the ChocolateCakeClub.com’s Holiday Gift Guide

cover of holiday gift guide

Still need some inspiration for Wow! gifts for your kids, grandkids or nieces and nephews? We created a PDF version of the ChocolateCakeClub.com’s 2010 Holiday Gift Guide to make it easier for you to read at your leisure. Download it, print it and even show it to your kids to see what gets them excited.

Click here to download – Chocolate Cake Club 2010 Holiday Gift Guide

If you have any questions, please send us an email at service@chocolatecakeclub.com or give us a shout at 847-963-1805. The Chocolate Cake Club is our sister company and when you shop there, it helps support our family fun ideas and blog content here. Thank you!

Happy Shopping!

Sue Kirchner
Chief Fun Officer
www.ChocolateCakeClub.com
www.ChocolateCakeMoments.com

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Top 10 Unique Christmas Gifts for Kids You Won’t Find at Target or Walmart

Buying the most impactful Holiday gift for your kids, grandkids, or nieces and nephews can be daunting. Do they have that toy already? What is age appropriate? Don’t let the stress of gift-buying ruin the “Most Wonderful Time of the Year” for you!

We want to help make your gift buying easier, so we created our ChocolateCakeClub.com 2010 Holiday Gift Guide with our picks for the most unique, highest-quality gifts for kids that you won’t find in Target or Walmart. We divided the Holiday Gift Guide by age and gender to make it easy for you to find the perfect Wow! gift.

Whether its kid’s cooking sets, family-fun games, arts and crafts kits, toys, or personalized gifts you’re looking for, our goal is to help you find really unique, cool kid’s gifts that will thrill the children, grandchildren, and nieces and nephews on your list.

This video highlights 10 of the Christmas Gift Ideas for Kids from our Holiday Gift Guide. All of these gift ideas are available at our sister site, www.ChocolateCakeClub.com. Your gift purchases help us to continue to bring you our great ideas for Family Fun on this blog site.

Here’s a list with links to the Top 10 Unique Christmas Gifts for Kids from the video:

    1. Playful Chef Kids Cooking Set (The cute apron that comes with the set can even be personalized!)
    2. SmartLab Custom Rides Design Studio
    3. Handlebar Horse Bike Accessory
    4. Kids Toiletry Bags (The Monkey & Butterfly are Best Sellers)
    5. Football Game and Action Figures Set
    6. Calafant Cardboard Castle Toy & Art Kit
    7. Monkey Stuffed Animal & Pull Along Backpack
    8. Timmy the Tractor Book & Stuffed Plush Toy
    9. Personalized Hooded Bath Towels (Check out the cute Grinch!)
    10. A Light in the Night Glow Friend and Book Set

Hopefully we’ve helped make finding the perfect gift a piece of cake. Happy Stress-free Shopping and I hope your Holidays are full of “Chocolate Cake Moments” with your family.

Thanks!
Sue Kirchner
Chief Fun Officer
www.ChocolateCakeClub.com
www.ChocolateCakeMoments.com

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R.I.P. Ron Santo

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We were so saddened to hear that Ron Santo passed away this morning. For those of you in Chicago, he was the perfect Cubs announcer. Most importantly to us, he was the perfect spokesperson for the Juvenile Diabetes Research Foundation (JDRF). He created a tremendous amount of awareness for this disease that has touched our household and we appreciate how active he was in the community here.

Speaking of JDRF, my daughter and I want to give a big thank you to everyone who purchased a kids gift from the ChocolateCakeClub.com in November!!!! November was National Diabetes Awareness Month and we announced at the beginning of the month that we would donate a portion of all November sales to the Juvenile Diabetes Research Foundation. We sent our check out today! Thank you all for helping us make this donation.

Even if you didn’t purchase from us, we’d love it if you helped support finding a cure for Type 1 juvenile diabetes and make a donation at the JDRF site.

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Incredible Cyber Monday Deals at ChocolateCakeClub.com

It’s Cyber Monday and we have some unprecedented deals for you! We’ve taken 25% off of some of our top selling gifts for babies, kids, and even Moms. Hop on over to ChocolateCakeClub.com to find some great gift ideas on sale or find inspiration for the perfect gift for your little loved one in our Holiday Gift Guide. We promise we’ll make you look like a Gift-Buying Superstar!


Stephen Joseph on Sale!


TODAY ONLY, save 25% OFF of all our best selling Stephen Joseph Quilted Backpacks, Toiletry Bags, Wallets, Lunch Bags and Toddler Nap Mats. We NEVER put these on sale so hurry and grab yours today. The super adorable toiletry bags are only $14.21!!!! Go ahead and personalize them all at these prices.


Huge Schleich Sale!


The ultimate Schleich gifts for your kids are on sale today only! Save 25% off of the
Schleich Knights Castle, Elf House, and Animal Nursery/ Vet Center. Schleich makes collector quality toys that kids find so irrisistible. My kids still play with their Schleich toys, 5 years later. Save $42 on the Knights Castle and Animal Center! Then grab some very cool, realistic action figures to make this their coolest Holiday ever. They won’t be able to stop thanking you!


Coolest Art Kits


For your older kids who are too cool for craft kits, we’ve got the perfect gifts on sale. Our
Custom Rides Design Studio is a great gift for boys who want to design their own cars and motorcycles. Everything is included to customize the ride of their dreams. For your little fashionista, don’t miss 25% off our House of Fashion Design Studio. She’ll have a blast creating a wardrobe fit for Project Runway.


The Gift of Organization


Take 25% OFF of our popular
Mom’s Plan-it Family Wall and Engagement Calendars. Give yourself or someone you love the gift of organization this year. Both calendars help keep your family organized with spaces for track up to 5 people in your family and stickers to easily mark common appointments and kids activities.


Cat in the Hat is Back


One of our top Holiday gifts for baby, this
Cat in the Hat Stacker Toy wants to make mischief with your little one this Holiday Season. It’s super cute and helps encourage motor skills. Bonus! With it’s bright, red and white colors, it’s a perfect fit for Christmas.Get our your book and enjoy some Dr. Seuss inspired fun.

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How the Elf on the Shelf Elves Get Ready for Christmas

Watch this super cute video with your kids to show them how the Elf on the Shelf elves get ready for the Christmas season.

Want more information on the Elf on the Shelf Christmas Family Holiday Tradition? Read my post on What is the Elf on the Shelf Tradition and When to Start Elf on the Shelf.

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Top Holiday Gifts for Girls

We are wrapping up our posts on top Holiday gift ideas for kids from the ChocolateCakeClub.com 2010 Holiday Gift Guide. Today, you’ll see our favorite unique gifts for girls 7 years old and up. Click on the link to our Holiday Gift Guide to see all of our top picks for kids divided by age and gender to make shopping a little easier.

Playful Chef Kids Cooking Kits

The Playful Chef Kids Cooking Kits will help you tap into your kids’ eagerness to help in the kitchen. These kids cooking kits provide the nutritional know-how, kid-sized cooking tools, and fun recipes you’ll need to get your little one cooking! We can’t think of a better Chocolate Cake Moment than to have fun in the kitchen making Chocolate Mountain Lava Cakes (recipe included in kit.)

FF79   $39.95

 

House of Fashion Design Studio

Does your little girl dream of appearing on Project Runway. Get her fashion design career off to a head start with this House of Fashion Design Studio. Create entire collections using a custom light tablet and cling-type wardrobe pieces. Add color, pattern, texture and embellishment for a look all your own. Let your creative senses run wild with this ultimate arts & craft kit.

TY152   $42.95

 

Spa Pedicure and Slipper Set
It’s Girl Time!!! This new Spa Pedicure and Slipper Decorating Kit is so much fun for your pampered girly-girl. She can pamper her feet with the pedicure set then while her toes are drying, decorate the slippers that will showcase the artfully beautiful toes. This is a great activity for a sleepover or a lazy Christmas morning! See our other Craft Kits here.

AS127  $21.95

 

All Natural Spa Kit

Believe it or not, this is a science kit! Your girls can pamper themselves while they learn the science behind a dozen different spa product recipes. The kit will teach girls how to create their very own unique beauty products and spa treatments out of household natural materials and custom-tooled components. Unleash some serious fun while creating Glitter Gel, Berry Lip Balm, or an Avocado Face Mask. Great for a slumber party!

TY118   $19.95

 

My First Sewing Kit

Encourage her creative side and teach her to sew – a lifelong skill. Everything she needs to start sewing is all in this My First Sewing Kit. The kit includes cool pre-cut patterns for quick and easy projects! Included are 8 colors of embroidery floss, shapes to make felt animals and a notebook cover, stuffing, fabric, ric rac, needles, scissors, measuring tape, straight pins, thimble, pin cushion, buttons and a pom-pom strip all in the cute and colorful carrying case.

AS126    $24.95

 

Cap It Off Jewelry Kit

Here’s a new twist to making jewelry. The Cap It Off Jewelry Craft Kit is a fun new way to make bracelets, necklaces, and earrings. Decorate the bottle caps with with stickers, beads, or satin any way you want. Create your unique set of jewelry for a friend or just for yourself.

AS136     $17.95

 

Spunky Stripe Messenger Bag

The Four Peas Spunky Stripe Messenger Bag is THE hip accessory. Flaunt a fun, girly attitude with this generously sized messenger bag that will help your kids tote their school stuff or important travel items. Your kid will love the bag for its style, Moms will love it for the sturdy construction.

OG673    $31.95

Truth or Dare Slumber Party Game

The age old game of truth or dare is ready for a new generation. The Truth or Dare Box of Questions is a great way to get your slumber party started! Spin the miniature spinner to reveal what your question is going to be: Truth, Dare, or Double Dare. There are 83 cards to pick from to ensure a whole lot of laughs and revealing of secrets!

FF165    $19.95

   


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Top Holiday Gifts for Boys

We are wrapping up our posts on top Holiday gift ideas for kids from the ChocolateCakeClub.com 2010 Holiday Gift Guide. Today, you’ll see our favorite unique gifts for boys 7 years old and up. Click on the link to our Holiday Gift Guide to see all of our top picks for kids divided by age and gender to make shopping a little easier.

Star Wars Jedi Projector

Join Captain Rex as he introduces your son to the world of Star Wars Clone Wars vehicles! The Star Wars Jedi Projector projects 24 Clone Wars vehicles images on the wall or ceiling. Your child will learn these fictional vehicles are similar to our own with the synchronized audio tour CD narrated by Captain Rex. Out of this world fun!

TY108   $39.95

 

Totem Boys Building Kit
Totem Boys is a new toy/ building activity kit that is half puzzle and half model. Imprinted on each of the 120 recycled laminiated cardboard cards are totally cool signs, symbols, textures and images that when put together look awesome. For kids with real imagination, the possibilities for building cool, 3-D objects is endless. Or, the kit comes with instructions to build a spaceship, airplane, building, or sailing ship. This activity is not only fun but eco-friendly.

FF135  $36.00

 

Marble Mania Galaxy Techno Gears

Marble Mania Galaxy is like no other marble run you’ve seen before. Create multiple space-themed marble run designs using over 425 pieces. Interlocking plates, gears, 3-D connectors, shafts, channels, funnel and pendulum make up this totally cool marble run set. Blinking lights, glow in the dark features, and sound effects just make it even better. An automatic marble launcher shoots the marble onto twists and turns that you create. Construct, play, and build again to see which designs work the best and the most fun. Your child will have hours of fun creating the perfect run.

TY155   $72.95

 

Camouflage Power Popper Gun
With the Camo Power Popper, your child can blast his friends with soft, foam balls. Slide the handle back and forth to shoot. The faster you slide the handle, the faster and further the balls launch. Safe, fun, and perfect for indoors or out. Don’t forget to buy more ammunition. They tend to get lost.

TY107     $34.95

 


Be Amazing Big Bag of Science


I know we all want our kids to be smart so parents love the idea of science kits as “toys.” Your kids may not jump up and down when they see this however, once the bag is open, they go nuts for the fun experiments they can do. There are over 70 unique hands-on activities to experiment with. You will be able to make water disappear, have liquid flow uphill, grow fake snow instantly, create a 30′ soda geyser, and so much more we can’t list them all.

TY159     $39.95

 

Pool Sharks Game

Your kids will shoot like a shark in this fast-paced game of underwater billiards. But watch out for the slippery Eight Ball – sink it too soon and you’ve sunk the game! Shoot the most balls into the fish pockets and you rule the pool. This miniaturized game of pool will indeed be fun for the whole family, but will also help increase hand-eye coordination and learn action-reaction skills.

FF148    $26.95

Custom Rides Design Studio

Your child will have a blast designing cars and motorcycles with this Custom Rides Design Studio. Put the old noggin’ to work and create a totally unique car or motorcyle on paper using the light up tablet, how to book, and colored pencils and markers. Ignite the imagination and hit the road! This is the ultimate “cool” art kit for boys.

TY153    $42.95

   


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Top Holiday Gifts for 5 & 6 Year Old Girls

Continuing with the ChocolateCakeClub.com’s 2010 Holiday Gift Guide, here are our picks for the best Holiday gifts for girls ages 5 to 6 years old. They are bound to say Wow!

Schleich Animal Rescue Center

This Animal Nursery is the perfect play accessory for all you animal lovers. The versatile toy has divided rooms, movable shutters and doors, and realistic details for you to turn this structure into anything you imagine like an animal hospital, animal shelter and rescue center, or animal training center. The possibilities are endless for a creative imagination. Don’t forget get to grab some of the Schleich animal figures for the ultimate gift for your little one.

TY161   $169.95

 

Schleich Summergreen Elf/ Fairy House

It’s time to enter the magical world of fairies and elves with this beautiful, collector-quality fairy house. It even includes a little swing for the fairies. Your magical little girl will spend hours pretending with this beautiful house. Don’t forget to grab some Fairy, Elf and Unicorn action figures to make this the ultimate Holiday gift.

TY162   $79.95

 

Playful Chef Kids Cooking Kits

The Playful Chef Kids Cooking Kits will help you tap into your kids’ eagerness to help in the kitchen. These kids cooking kits provide the nutritional know-how, kid-sized cooking tools, and fun recipes you’ll need to get your little one cooking! We can’t think of a better Chocolate Cake Moment than to have fun in the kitchen making Chocolate Mountain Lava Cakes (recipe included in kit.)

FF79   $39.95

 

Crafty Christmas Set
Get ready to sew, glue, decorate, and create 18 easy Christmas projects found in this one Crafty Christmas Kit. Have fun with your little girl making cards, felt ornaments, christmas tags, picture frames, and much more. Everything she needs is stored in a miniature Christmas suitcase, which you can use over and over again.

AS137  28.95

 

Magical Unicorn Hoodel Bath/ Beach Towel

You can’t buy her the unicorn she’s been wanting, but you can make getting warm and dry a bit more magical. This fantasy-filled towel is a substantial 100% cotton terry embellished with an embroidered face, a cuddly polar fleece mane, and a sturdy felt horn. It’s perfect for after bath or at the pool. Designed and sewn in the USA. Can be personalized. See all of our Kids Hooded Bath Towel designs.

GHA356   $38.00

 

My Scrapbook Kit

Encourage your little girl to capture all of her favorite memories and BFF moments in one great book with the My Scrapbook Kit! She’ll impress friends and family by jazzing up each photo with the cool accessories. This is a great activity to do with Mom and Grandma or with her best friends during a slumber party. See our other Craft Kits here.

AS123    $22.00

 

Totem Girls Recycled Construction Toy

Hey, girls love to build too! Totem Nature is a toy/ building activity kit that is half puzzle and half model kit but with plenty of girl appeal. What you get is a bunch of unique die-cut panels made from recycled laminated cardboard. Imprinted on each of the 120 cards are totally cool signs, symbols, textures and images that look awesome when put together to build anything you can imagine.

FF168     $36.00

 

Picnic Basket Set

This charming Kids Picnic Basket Set by Alex contains everything you need for a perfect picnic. This 18-piece enamelware set contains a wicker basket, 4 plates, 4 cups, 4 spoons, 4 forks and tablecloth. Your kids will love having a picnic in the backyard or the park with their friends – real or imaginary.

GF298    $29.95

Flapdoodle Game

FlapDoodle is a new game of totally silly nonsensical fun for kids and families, perfect for Friday Night Game Night. You’ll race through the FlapDoodle factory, where you’ll have to use your creativity and imagination to answer crazy questions and do silly stunts. For example, you might have to take off your socks and shoes and have your two big toes talk to each other about potato chips. Crazy characters like Super Ninja Monkey will help you cruise around the board.

FF111    $22.95

 

   


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This Thursday, Make a Messterpiece

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If you live in the Chicagoland area, make a mess with your kids this Thursday! And, save $15, for being a ChocolateCakeMoments.com reader.

If you haven’t been to the new Make a Messterpiece kids creative studio yet, head on over to their fun location in the Glen, this Thursday, November 18th. Just tell the lovely people at the counter that ChocolateCakeMoments.com told you to say “Customer Appreciation” to get free admission for your child ($10) and 1 free activity ($5). Parents are always free.

Your kids will have fun partaking in any one of the creative activities like Creative Kitchen, Bubbleology, Splattacular Tables or Drum Roll. You can enjoy these activities with your kids or leave them in the hands of the expert staff while you get some downtime in their Club M Lounge. Club M features home-like furniture, free Wi-Fi, books, magazines,and resource boards. You can purchase refreshments and watch your kids make a mess with glee on a closed circuit TV.

Check out their website for the address and hours of operation. What are you waiting for? Head on over and make a mess.

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Top Holiday Gifts for 5 & 6 Year Old Boys

Continuing with the ChocolateCakeClub.com’s 2010 Holiday Gift Guide, here are our picks for the best Holiday gifts for boys ages 5 to 6 years old.

Schleich Knights Castle

This collector’s quality Knight’s Castle is the perfect battleground for heroic toys to duel it out and conquer the land. Create a moat, pull up the draw bridge, protect the king from disaster! The attention to detail on this castle is amazing. Don’t forget to grab some knights to complete this incredible gift. Your child will play with this toy for years.

TY160   $169.95

 

Totem Boys Building Kit
Totem Boys is a new toy/ building activity kit that is half puzzle and half model. Imprinted on each of the 120 recycled laminiated cardboard cards are totally cool signs, symbols, textures and images that when put together look awesome. For kids with real imagination, the possibilities for building cool, 3-D objects is endless. Or, the kit comes with instructions to build a spaceship, airplane, building, or sailing ship. This activity is not only fun but eco-friendly.

FF135  $36.00

 

Hooded Bath/ Beach Towels

Holy Bath Adventure! Turn your next bath into an adventure with these totally cool Black Mask and Robot Hooded Bath Towels. Your kids will beg you to bathe just so they can wear these fun and imaginative towels. Can be personalized!

GHA235   $38.00

 

Flapdoodle Game

FlapDoodle is a new game of totally silly nonsensical fun for kids and families, perfect for Friday Night Game Night. You’ll race through the FlapDoodle factory, where you’ll have to use your creativity and imagination to answer crazy questions and do silly stunts. For example, you might have to take off your socks and shoes and have your two big toes talk to each other about potato chips. Crazy characters like Super Ninja Monkey will help you cruise around the board.

FF111    $22.95

 

Green Camouflage Build a Fort Kit
Tired of trying to build a fort and the blanket never stays put? No good hiding places outside to set up camp? No worries. This Green Camouflage Fort Kit has everything you need – fabric, ropes, clips and suction cups – to build your fort, inside or out. It even includes 2 glow-in-the dark wands for extra fun.

TY158     $32.95

 

Football Guys Game and Action Figures

Are you ready for some football? Sports and action figures have been a part of a kid’s life since the invention of toys. Now both are combined in this Football Guys Game Set. Set includes some suggested game ideas or use your imagination to reenact your favorite game day plays. Sports action figures are a refreshing alternative to army guys. Also available in a Hockey set.

TY135    $24.99

Playful Chef Kids Cooking Kits

The Playful Chef Kids Cooking Kits will help you tap into your kids’ eagerness to help in the kitchen. These kids cooking kits provide the nutritional know-how, kid-sized cooking tools, and fun recipes you’ll need to get your little one cooking! We can’t think of a better Chocolate Cake Moment than to have fun in the kitchen making Chocolate Mountain Lava Cakes (recipe included in kit.)

FF79   $39.95

 

Fold ‘N Fly Paper Airplane Kit

Introduce your child to the exciting world of paper airplane creation with this easy kit. You can make up to 18 planes on different printed papers. Have flying contests with your friends or with Dad. The airplane kit contains everything you need to make a fleet of paper airplanes!

AS138   $9.99

 

   


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Top Holiday Gifts for Girls 3 – 4 Years Old

Here are more of our top gift picks for kids this Holiday season. Read on for the coolest, most unique Holiday gifts for 3 – 4 year old girls. Check out the entire 2010 Holiday Gift Guide from ChocolateCakeClub.com.

All-in-One Retro Kids Wooden Kitchen

Every child needs a play kitchen and this retro-design wooden kitchen is so fun! Includes a refrigerator, write on-wipe-off marker board, a sink, microwave, oven with pull-out rack, dishwasher, open and close storage, wall phone, clock with moveable hands and more. Order early to make sure it arrives on time.

FN100   $199.99 each

 

Eco-Friendly Tea Set

The environmentally conscious toymakers at Green Toys have crafted this Eco-Friendly Kids Tea Set out of 100% recycled milk jugs! The tea cups are nicely sized so that your child can actually drink something out of it. The tea set is completely non-toxic so you don’t have to worry if they want to sip some “tea” as they play. Finally, a pretty tea set that you can let your youngsters play with and not worry about them breaking it. It’s good, clean fun.

GF400  $24.95

 

Princess Hooded Bath/Beach Towel

Your little princess will be singing and dancing to the bathtub to get clean with this super cute Princess Hooded Bath Towel. This super-soft Kids Hooded Bath Towel is made from top quality, super absorbent, 100% cotton in pink with yellow crown on hood. Sewn in the USA. Can be personalized with her Highness’ name. See all of our Kids Hooded Bath Towel designs.

GHA353   $38.00

 

Decorate Your Own Princess Castle

Your little princess will love decorating her very own recyclable, cardboard palace with markers or pencils, or better yet add fabric pieces, gems, glitter, or any other materials that will make your castle truly unique. Once your castle is decorated, let your toys move in for hours of imaginative play. Castle is easy to construct, no glue or scissors needed.

AS148    $24.95

 

Monkey Hide and Seek Safari Game

The award-winning Monkey Hide & Seek Safari Game is one of our favorite games. Hide the Monkey somewhere in the house. Your child then uses the Seeker Wand to find the Monkey, watching as the lights on the wand indicate hotter or colder. The Seeker will sound off when the Monkey is near for a banana-load of fun.

FF117   $34.95

 

Playful Chef Kids Cooking Set

Looking to have some fun with your kids and teach them the joy of cooking? The Playful Chef Kids Cooking Kits will help you tap into your kids’ egerness to help in the kitchen. These kids cooking kits for ages 3-5 years old provide the nutritional know-how, kid-sized cooking tools, and fun recipes you’ll need to get your little one cooking! We can’t think of a better Chocolate Cake Moment than to have fun in the kitchen making Chocolate Mountain Lava Cakes (recipe included in kit.)

FF115    $42.95

Cottage House Play Tent

What child could resist playing games with six adorable little puppies? The Puppy Pursuit Games are designed to get your kids up and moving. Enjoy fun with the family and promote gross motor skills, balance, hand-eye coordination, memory, auditory skills and color recognition all at the same time. Each huggable, plush puppy has a personalized collar with the dog’s name. How cute!

TY126    $79.95

Handlebar Horse Bike Accessory

What little girl wouldn’t love to transform her bike into a beautiful white horse? With the Handlebar Horse Plush Horse Head & Tail you can do just that! Horse head and tail easily slip onto any bike. Press the horses ears to hear “real” galloping horse sounds. Bike riding will be so much fun!

FF149    $21.95

   


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Best Holiday Gifts for Boys 3 – 4 Years Old

Continuing with our picks for the top gifts for kids this Holiday season, here are the coolest, most unique Holiday gifts for 3 – 4 year old boys. Check out the entire 2010 Holiday Gift Guide from ChocolateCakeClub.com.

Dragon Lair Playhouse Tent

Your little knight will enjoy hours of imaginative playtime in his very own playtent. Grab your dragon fighting sword and some back-up to defend the castle. These sturdy, high-quality tents are perfect for backyard or basement fun time. He’ll be the envy of the neighborhood.

TY134   $79.99

 

Monkey Hide and Seek Safari Game

The award-winning Monkey Hide & Seek Safari Game is one of our favorite games. Hide the Monkey somewhere in the house. Your child then uses the Seeker Wand to find the Monkey, watching as the lights on the wand indicate hotter or colder. The Seeker will sound off when the Monkey is near for a banana-load of fun.

FF117   $34.95

 

Monster Hooded Towel
Say goodbye to bath time complaints!! Your kids will beg you to bathe just so they can get out and wear these fun and imaginative Monster hooded towels. These not-too-scary Monster Hooded Bath Towels are made from top quality, super absorbent, 100% cotton in purple and green. These 54″x28″ (plus hood) towels are big enough for kids from 2 to 8 years old and sturdy enough to last until they grow out of them. Can be personalized!

GHA234  $38.00

 

Farm Cardboard Art Kit

Here is a great play accessory for your farm friends. The recyclable cardboard farm by Calafant is so fun to put together and decorate. Follow the easy instructions to construct your farm without using any glue or scissors using the slot together attachments. The rest is creativity and imagination – paint, color, and decorate your farm however you choose. Then get your farm animals and play. See all of our Calafant art kits.

AS147   $24.95

 

Eco-Friendly Toy Trucks

This is THE perfect toy. Family Fun Magazine picked this toy Recycling Truck as one of their 2009 Toy of the Year Winners. Green Toys has crafted this Eco-Friendly Kids Recycling Truck out of 100% recycled milk jugs! Kids can cut the images of bottles, cans, and paper off of the recycled cardboard box to sort and load into the truck’s slots. It’s good, clean fun and may even give you a chance to explain the importance of recycling to your young one in a fun way. Don’t forget the new Firetruck, Dump Truck or the Tool Belt, also made of old milk cartons.

TY102   $24.95

 

Playful Chef Kids Cooking Set
Looking to have some fun with your kids and teach them the joy of cooking? The Playful Chef Kids Cooking Kits will help you tap into your kids’ eagerness to help in the kitchen. These kids cooking kits for ages 3-5 years old provide the nutritional know-how, kid-sized cooking tools, and fun recipes you’ll need to get your little one cooking! We can’t think of a better Chocolate Cake Moment than to have fun in the kitchen making Chocolate Mountain Lava Cakes (recipe included in kit.)

FF115     $42.95

 

Timmy the Tractor Book & Plush Toy
Meet Timmy the Tractor! Cuddle up with Timmy as you read about his day on the farm. In the book “His Hay Day” by Angie Wyatt, Timmy introduces you to all the different tractors used on the farm to harvest hay. Have fun learning what the job of each tractor is and what it takes to get the hay ready for all the farm animals to eat. p>

GF492  $24.95

 

Monkey Pull-Along Backpack
The Plush Monkey Stuffed Animal and Roller Backpack is two great items in one. A furry roller backpack is perfectly sized to carry small toys and goodies through the airport or to Grandma’s. The funny stuffed animal monkey on the front comes off to play and keep your child amused while traveling. There is even a tiny zipper compartment on the back of the animal to store secret treasures. Personalize the backpack for more gift fun.

OG582    $28.95

Little Hands Deluxe Card Kit
Card games are perfect for family fun game night. Although sometimes the hard part is holding all those cards in little hands. The Deluxe Card Holder Game Set by Gamewright comes with 2 little hands card holders to make it easier for even the youngest card shark in the family to hold on to all the cards.

FF185    $12.99

   


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Best Holiday Gift Ideas for Boys 1 -2 Years Old

If you are looking for a truly unique gift for that special 1 – 2 year old boy in your life, check out our top picks from the ChocolateCakeClub.com 2010 Holiday Gift Guide. We searched high and low this year for high quality, unique gifts with a lot of Wow! factor. Make a little boy’s Holiday extra special with these gifts.

YBike Toddler Balancing Bike
This multiple award winning toddler balance bike is built to help promote motor skill development, yet look cool while doing it. Designed in South Africa, the ingenious YBIKE makes learning to ride a bike effortless for children as young as 2 years. Available in a variety of colors.

TY143   $79.99

 

Eco-Friendly Toy Trucks

The Green Toys toddler play trucks are THE best toy. Not only are these eco-friendly toy trucks made out of 100% recycled milk jugs, but they have won numerous toy awards. Available in Firetruck, Dump Truck and Recycling Truck designs.

TY138   $24.99

 

Construction Zone Play Tent

This Construction Zone Tent by Pacific Play Tents is spacious enough for all the neighborhood friends to “build” a little fun! The outdoor constuction site scene on the tent exterior is complete with construction signs and machinery. Bring your tools, trucks, imagination, and get to work!

TY129    $74.00

 

Sports Toddler Nap Mat

This Sports-Themed Toddler Nap Mat is perfect for taking to daycare, on overnight trips to Grandma’s house, or even keep in the car for impromptu naps. Each nap mat is extremely soft and comfortable, the head can be used as a pillow, and it includes an attached blanket. The toddler nap mat easily rolls up and comes with shoulder straps that are adjustable on the back for a comfortable fit. Personalize it with your child’s name! Also available in monkey or doggie designs.

OG681     $49.95

 

Blue Monkey Toddler Backpack

Help your kids assert their independence by letting them carry their most valued possessions THEMSELVES with our best selling Toddler Quilted Backpacks. These machine washable backpacks are great for taking toys to restaurants or blankies to Grandma and Grandpa’s house. Backpacks are available in over 20 different designs, you’re sure to find one that’s perfect for your little one. Don’t forget to personalize the backpack with your child’s name.

BK221    $24.95

A Light in the Night Glow Friend and Book Set
We have discovered this adorable Kids Night Light set called Light in the Night Glow Friend Book Set. If your child is scared, just squeeze the Glow Friend’s tummy and he’ll light up to prove there is nothing scary in the room. Included with this Glow Friend is a fun, illustrated book for families to read before bed calming to calm the nerves of any little one.

GHA370  $34.95

 

Play Mat and Toy Tote
This perfect little vinyl play mat provides hours of imaginative fun with toy trucks, guys and trains. Best yet, it converts into a tote for storing those toys when not in use.

TY125  $15.95

 

Huggable Plush Elf on the Shelf
Santa’s helper is now available for hugs and snuggles! This Elf on the Shelf 19″ Plush Elf is so soft and adorable. Kids can curl up with a blanket and their Elf for a night of holiday movies, bring him along for Christmas caroling, or just prop him up for all to enjoy. This lovable elf is the perfect holiday gift that gets everyone in the holiday spirit. If you don’t have an Elf on the Shelf Book & Elf set yet, grab it now to start a wonderful family holiday tradition.

FF174  $13.95

 

   


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Best Christmas Gifts for Babies

It’s baby’s first Christmas! To make life a little easier for all of you busy gift buyers out there, I’ve put together a list of some great gift ideas to help you commemorate the event as well as fun toys to keep baby smiling well into the new year. All of these items are available at our eboutique, www.ChocolateCakeClub.com.

Gentle Giraffe Sleep Soother

The Gentle Giraffe Children’s Sleep Soother by Cloud b is the perfect bedtime buddy! The plush giraffe is an interactive plush toy that plays fun sounds when your children want to play, and plays soothing sounds when they are ready to sleep. The Gentle Giraffe is also essential for traveling or sleeping in an unfamiliar environment, like visiting Grandma and Grandpa’s house for the first time.

GHA402   $24.95

 

Dr. Seuss Cat in the Hat Stacker Toy
Here is a classic baby toy with a Dr. Suess twist. The bright red and white Cat in the Hat Stacker Toy is not only adorable, but fun! This toy is perfect for teaching hand-eye coordination or brightening up any baby room. One Fish, Two Fish Fishbowl Toy also available.
For Age: 9 months and up

TY150  $29.99

 

Comfy & Stylin’ Baby Clothes

Hand Picked Pumpkin baby clothes are at the top of our list for Baby’s First Holiday Gifts. These stylish and comfy baby hoodies and matching pants for girls and boys are a must-have to keep baby warm. Often seen on celebrity babies, these clothes are designed and made in the USA by a fellow Mom. You’ll love the stylish details and baby will love the comfort. Don’t forget the matching Stroller Blankets and Burp Cloth Sets for an enviable gift. 9 months – 18 months.

BC102 Boys & BC101 Girls   $78.00

 

Baby Dish Sets

We have some adorable baby dishes that would brighten up any meal. Safe, sturdy dish sets include dish, silverware, sippy cups, and placemat. They come in a variety of adorable designs. Our favorites? The retro-designed Secret Garden and Retro Robot.

GHA375 Secret Garden & EF124 Retro Robot    $32.95 each

 

The Grinch Hooded Baby Bath Towel

Your little Holiday baby will look so adorable drying off with this super cute Grinch Hooded Baby Bath Towel. You’ll love how it keeps baby warm and comfortable after a bath. Can be personalized with baby’s name. The Grinch’s dog Max is also available. See all of our Baby & Kids Hooded Bath Towels.

GHA372    $29.95

 

Santa Baby Bib & Bootie Set

Celebrate Baby’s 1st Christmas with this adorable Santa Baby Bib & Bootie Set. Your baby will be the hightlight of the family celebrations this season wearing the Santa face bib with the words “Baby’s 1st Christmas”, Santa hat, and cuddly red booties. Who can resist a snuggly little santa?

GF468     $24.95

Green Toys First Building Blocks

Here is the perfect basic starter block set for your baby and for the eco-friendly parent. Large, light-weight, bold colored blocks make it easy for baby to grab and stack. A variety of shapes make it fun to build towers, houses, or any combination of blocks they can imagine.

TY137     $24.95

   


Read our entire 2010 Holiday Gift Guide, with gift suggestions divided by age to make shopping a little easier.

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The Benefits of Family Recreation

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I met another Mom a week or so ago who is following her passion and living out loud. Allow me to introduce Lori Radun of Momnificent.com, who is our FIRST EVER guest blogger. We found over coffee that we have several similarities, most importantly that we are both passionate about the importance of family time. Here is her very convincing take on why it’s so important:

The Benefits of Family Recreation

With more and more structured activities taking up our children’s time, this leaves little time for family recreation. Linda has two girls; one is eight years old and the other is ten. Each girl can be involved in up to three different extracurricular activities during the school year. Whether it is music lessons, gymnastics or swimming, there is hardly time to do anything together as a family. Sure, mom and dad juggle the responsibilities of getting each child to their respective activities and they stay to watch the practices or meets, but they are not truly interacting with their girls. Competitive activities such as these have replaced family recreation.

Family recreation would be defined as a pleasurable or relaxing activity done together as a family. Examples would be having a picnic together at a local park, going on a hike together in the woods, or exploring a fun museum together on a Saturday afternoon. You don’t have to leave the house to enjoy family recreation. You can play board games together, kick the soccer ball around in the backyard, or blow bubbles on the front porch. These activities in a child’s life, I would venture to say, are far more important than any structured extracurricular activity, primarily because they are spent with us, but for many other reasons as well.

Family recreation teaches life skills. Children learn a number of life skills from hanging together as a family. They learn how to solve problems and cooperate with one another. Any time you have two or more people together, each with their own personalities and ideas, compromise must be practiced. We have to learn to take turns and consider the needs of other people. Children learn to cope with their frustration when they don’t get their way or they are learning something new. And family recreation allows us to teach our children about having a positive attitude. When we play a game together as a family, we don’t allow our children to be poor sports. We use the opportunity to teach them how to lose gracefully and congratulate the winners. We show them that playing a game is not always about winning and losing, but more about having fun.

Family recreation builds positive character. When we spend time together as a family, children learn a number of positive character traits. They learn to respect everyone in the family. If you’re playing a game together, they are learning to be honest. Cheating is not allowed. Children have the opportunity to develop their creativity especially during imaginative play. And they learn to be flexible because everyone is different. When Donna decided to start a family night in her family, she gave each member of the family an opportunity to pick a fun family activity. Mom, Dad and the two children took turns choosing something fun to do. When it wasn’t your turn, you were not allowed to complain about the activity because they were trying to teach fairness.

Family recreation promotes physical, emotional, mental and social development. We all need recreation in our lives. Active activities exercise our bodies. Games that require us to think or activities that encourage learning promote healthy mental development. Spending time together as a family and interacting in relationship with one another develops our children socially. Emotionally, we receive love, companionship and the release of stressful feelings when we engage in recreational activities.

Family recreation strengthens family bonds. Spending time together builds intimacy in our lives. For children to feel loved, we need to spend quality time with them. This helps them feel valued and worthy of attention. The more time we spend together, the more we get to know one another. This helps us feel closer as a family. When we play together, we laugh and enjoy life together. These emotional feelings strengthen our family bonds.

Family recreation relieves stress. We all know adults need to release stress, but so do children. Believe it or not, children are stressed by school work, peer relationships and other normal childhood stressors. Playing and engaging in relaxing activities is a great way to blow off steam. Run around and play hide and seek, plunge into cool water at your local pool, or play a silly game of charades. Laugh and have fun.

Family recreation builds family memories. What are some of the best memories you have from your childhood? When I divorced my older son’s father, my son lost some of his favorite memories with his dad. He and his dad used to play basketball on a little basketball hoop in the house. They would run around in a little small area of his bedroom, acting crazy and shooting baskets. My ex-husband instilled some great memories with his son by engaging in family recreation with him. Fun times always stick in a person’s mind so enjoy life with your children.

Lori Radun is life coach, inspirational speaker and author of The Momnificent! Life – Healthy and Balanced Living for Busy Moms. Her website, www.momnificent.com is a place where moms go for unconditional support and expert advice on making positive, healthy choices on modern motherhood challenges.

Thanks Lori!

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I Walked on My Grave

It was a dark and spooky night in the middle of a cornfield in Missouri ….

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Actually it was sunny and lovely on a recent trip to Iowa to visit family. We made a short trip to Missouri for a family reunion and one the way back, we decided to visit the Zion Cemetery where the original Kirchner family who came over from Germany was buried. After several wrong turns and stops to ask for directions, we found the cemetery in the middle of nowhere in the cornfields.

Lo and behold, what do we see but a tombstone for Charles and Susie Kirchner. FREAKY!!!!!!! We were trying not to smile because you know, no one smiled in the 1800s. They were always so serious in photos. While I would rather be caught dead than called Susie, it’s still a pretty spooky encounter, don’t you think?

Don’t we look cute as ghosts?

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It’s Mom Time: 21 Habits of Happy Moms

I just read this great article over at HybridMom.com on 21 Habits of Happy Moms. We all want more happiness in our life, right? Well, check out this list of 21 things we should be doing to be happier. While I have to say that I don’t do all of them, I was surprised to see that I do quite a few on the list.

My number one tip for Moms out there is to plan your “Mom Moments.” I sound anal when I say this (and trust me, I am not the poster child for the organized Mom) but I write my Mom time activities down in my daily planner so that I don’t schedule anything over them and they’re treated as an important engagement. I write down when I am going to work out and I even write in my lunch time where I get to read a juicy novel while eating. That way I have no excuses for why I didn’t take some time for myself to create happy moments.

To me, happiness comes in moments, which is why I called this site Chocolate Cake Moments. Happiness just can’t be a permanent state. Life throws us too many curve balls. So planning these Mom time activities and even your family fun activities will help to create more happy Chocolate Cake Moments – where we are smiling, relaxed, and enjoying life – giving us an overall sense of happiness.

What do you think? Does happiness come in moments or can you be happy all of the time? What do you do to feel happy?

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Tags: Cool Finds · Help Mom Stay Organized · Parenting Tips

Owls are Hot! Hoo, Hoo Knew?

Owls are THE hot animal this year in kids products. With the release of the Legend of the Guardians: Owls of Ga’Hoole movie, your kids may have owl fever this year. At the Chocolate Cake Club, we’ve got some adorable Owl-themed kids products that make great Halloween, Holiday or movie-themed gifts.

To make this an even smarter gift for you, take 15% off of any of these Owl themed gifts. Use coupon code OWL15 on check-out. Offer ends Sunday, October 24th.

Owl Toddler Backpack

One Smart Backpack
First up, our brand NEW Owl Quilted Toddler Backpack perfect for carrying toys to Grandma’s house. The backpack is super cute, it’s machine washable, and you can personalize it for an extra special touch.

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Saving Money is Wise!

Your little girl will love saving and storing her money in this super cute, pink and brown Owl Kids Wallet!

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Dish It Up!
Make mealtime a whole lot more fun with this beautiful Owl Melamine Dish Set. The set includes an extra large placemat, suction cup divided plate, silverware, and a double handled sippy cup. The best news for Mom is that the set meets all U.S. and European safety standards and is dishwasher safe. Bon Owlpetite!

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Wake Up, Night Owl
They say it’s hard to “Soar with the Eagles when you Hoot with the Owls.” Now that school has started, are you having problems getting your night owl out of bed? Well, THIS owl is here to help. Your daughter will take charge and get ready for school by herself with this retro-design Owl Talking Kids Alarm Clock. Every year these alarm clocks are best sellers for us. Whether your child uses it to wake up, learn to tell time, or just accessorize her room, she’ll love this owl! For more, read our article on Tips for Getting Your Kids Out of Bed and Ready for School.

Owl Pendant Necklace for Kids
Pretty Birdie!
We love this Morning Owl Pendant Necklace for your animal-loving fashionista. This necklace is the perfect accessory for school, gift for a BFF, or birthday party favor. This latest trend in jewelry is so fun because the pendant is actually an old Scrabble game tile! It also features a swarovski crystal and silver ball chain.

Treasure the Memories!
Our Owl & Pussycat Toothfairy Box is cute, durable and perfectly sized for holding teeth or use it as a small ring or earring box.

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She named it Tracy

My daughter got her first insulin pump today. She was so incredibly excited. It’s pink. She named it Tracy.

Why?

She explained, “It’s going to follow me around for the rest of my life. You know, like a little sister. We’ll go everywhere together, so it needs a name.”

Sniff.

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Tags: Entertaining a Sick Child

We Are Named One of the Leading Moms in Business

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Yippee! I was so excited to find out today that I was named a Leading Mom in Business, for the second year in a row. ChocolateCakeClub.com and ChocolateCakeMoments.com ranked #28 in this year’s StartupNation.com’s Leading Moms in Business contest. That was a huge jump from last year’s ranking so I want to thank everyone who voted for us and especially those of you who voted daily. I greatly appreciate your time and support.

You can see the list of all 200 winners here.

Whoo Hoo! I’m off to tell more people and celebrate this Chocolate Cake Moment.

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Tags: Contests · Cool Finds · Moms Living Out Loud

Help! How to Keep All of that School Paperwork Organized

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Check out the article I wrote at HybridMom.com on 5 Tips for Organizing School Paperwork.

A big welcome to any new readers from HybridMom.com! I love meeting new people and helping families inject more fun into their daily lives with simple, creative and memorable ideas.

While you are at HybridMom.com, check out their list of the Top 20 Fall Family Activity Blogs. Check out one in your city so you don’t miss out on any chances for “Chocolate Cake Moments” with your family. (I hadn’t even heard of the site they listed for Chicago. I learn something new every day.)

Which family activity blogs do you use to find fun ideas for your family? Let’s make our own list here.

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ChocolateCakeClub.com Featured in New eBook for Mom Entrepreneurs

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Hurray! I was thrilled to find out that I have been featured in Start Your Own Mom Business!, a new eBook by StartupNation. It was definitely a “Chocolate Cake Moment” for me, where I couldn’t stop smiling and felt the need to celebrate with some Sea Salt Caramels (my new favorite sweet).

I received an advance copy for participating and I think it’s a great resource for moms interested in starting and running a successful business. I would have loved to have access to information like this when I was starting up 5 years ago. I could have avoided oh so many mistakes. While we all learn from mistakes, you can only lose so much time or money before the mistakes start to destroy your business or your passion for being an entrepreneur. This book will definitely help Moms who are noodling starting their own business to make some decisions on whether to go for it.

In addition to success tips specific to mom business owners like managing work-life balance, building a support group, or the perils of working from home, the eBook includes advice and insights from me and 19 other winners of StartupNation’s annual Leading Moms in Business Competition, an annual ranking of the top 200 moms in business in America. In my profile (on page 44 in case you buy the book and want to jump right to my section), I give advice on not being afraid to ask for help and how important it is to validate your business idea before jumping into it wholeheartedly. It doesn’t cost a lot of money to do!

The eBook is available for purchase and download from the StartupNation website here. I don’t get any compensation for promoting the book, other than a nice feeling of validation for my business and ideas. I just think it is a good resource that Moms considering pursuing an entrepreneurial dream should know about.

The first section of Start Your Own Mom Business! focuses on the main keys to success for the mom entrepreneur, highlighting the critical areas of time management, delegation, outsourcing and work-life balance.

The second section of the eBook profiles 20 Leading Moms in Business winners, providing the reader with insights into business management strategies, life management skills and success secrets. There is a profile of each company so Moms can learn more and evaluate the many different kinds of business models.

I’m thrilled to be included in the book and I want to thank everyone who voted for ChocolateCakeClub.com and ChocolateCakeMoments.com last year and then again this year in StartUpNation.com’s Leading Moms in Business Contest. There are some awesome Mom Entrepreneurs in the contest that heck, I would love to learn more from.

The eBook is available for purchase and download from the StartupNation website here.

If any of you are Mom Entrepreneurs already or thinking about taking the plunge, what books or resources are invaluable to you?

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Lunch Box Love Notes

How many ways can we tell our kids we love them? Obviously, quite a lot. Here is our last post sharing all of the great kids lunch box note ideas that our readers sent in. This last category simply says “I Love You”, in many ways. From special terms of endearment to extra cookies thrown into the lunch box for friends, these ideas will make your child feel loved. With all of these great ideas, there’s no excuse not to throw a love note in your kids lunch box tomorrow morning.

My daughter told me today that even though kids make fun when they see a lunch box note from Mom in a classmate’s lunch box, she says it makes us kids smile inside and feel special. So, keep it up Moms and give your child a secret “Chocolate Cake Moment” while at school.

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    “Have fun with your friends today. I love you, Peanut!”

    “Enjoy your day! Laugh, Have Fun and Smile! Hugs and Kisses…”

    “Hey my babycake, have a fun day at school! I cut the yucky stuff off your jelly sandwich for you. I will see you when you get home! ”

    “I love your MORE than peanut butter sandwiches.”

    “Son, when you think of me, I’m already thinking of you so our hearts are meeting. *HUGS* I love you always.”

    “I love you sweet girl and can’t wait to see you soon. Have a fun day.”

    “Thinking of your smile”

    “Have a Great Day, Cupcake!”

    “I love you! Can’t wait to watch your football game tomorrow! ”

    “I love you big, big, big!”

    “I Love You have fun, I am always thinking of you, yr mom”.

    “You are a blessing, and I love you!”

    “I’m thinking of you and praying for you today!”

    “Remember that God made you special and wonderful!”

    “I am thinking about you with a smile on my heart!”

    “For my honey … some extra cookies to share with your friends. Love you!”

    “Mommy & Daddy Love You!”

    “You’re the Best Around…(we sing this song)”

    “Mommy loves you to the moon and back!”

    “Have a super fun day!!”

    “Have fun on your first day of pre-school little monkey and make lots of new friends! Nanny loves you!”

    “I love you to the galaxy and miss you lots! Enjoy your day.”

    “Thanks for being such an awesome kid! I love you and hope you’re having a great day!”

    “U R My Sunshine!”

I hope you liked these 4 posts on Kids Lunch Box Love Notes Ideas and you’re now inspired to share a smile with your child tomorrow.

Here are the other posts with Lunch Box Note Inspiration, so you don’t miss a single idea:
Notes of Encouragement
Missing You and Reminder Notes
Funny, Visual and Teaser Notes

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Funny, Visual and Rewarding Kids Lunch Box Note Ideas

This is our third post sharing Kids Lunch Box Notes from our readers. I love the ideas in this post because we are featuring Funny, Visual, and Teaser note ideas. As always, please share your ideas at the end of the post.

Funny Notes: Make ‘em Laugh

  • I would send her a knock knock joke as that is one of her favorite things now. Ours are silly and don’t rhyme or make any sense except to her and me!

    “Knock Knock
    Who’s there
    Hugs and Kisses
    Hugs and KIsses who
    Hugs and Kisses from me to you..”

  • I would take a bite out of a sandwich or snack, then put in a napkin, and on the napkin write:
    “Oh! There was a mouse in your lunch! Hope you don’t miss that bite like the mouse misses you!”
  • My husband likes to write cute notes to our 6 year old daughter that pertain to what is in her lunch. For example: if there is an apple, he would write “Have an apple of a day my sweetie!” or if I pack a string cheese he would write ” Cheese… have a happy day at school!” … strawberries would get ” You are so berry sweet!!!! we love you… mommy and daddy” and so on.
  • “I’m gonna get your buttonnoodles!”
  • “Boo” – for halloween, special holiday messages too…
  • “See you soon, baboon!”
  • I love you little
    I love you big
    I love you like a little pig

Visual: When no words are needed

  • I would draw a picture of a hand and a heart in the middle of it to represent the “kissing hand.”
  • My daughter loves dogs so I’ve been drawing little puppies and saying the simply “Have a great day, I love you!”
  • Stickers or cut a fun picture out of a magazine
  • I usually would draw a picture (he can’t read yet) something to do with a holiday or the season.

Teasers: Something to Look Forward To

  • Happy Friday! Think about what game you’d like to play for Family game night tonight!
  • Movie night tonight?
  • Have fun with daddy at the gym after school.”
  • “3 more hours until game night!” Love you! XOXO
  • I hope school is going okay. I am making your favorite for dinner tonight, can’t wait till Sat. and watch you guys rock in football! Love you!
  • “We’re having your favorite – TACOS! – for dinner! Yippee!!
  • When your school day is done, Mommy will pick you up and we will have more fun!

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More Ideas for Kids Lunch Box Notes

As we mentioned in our post Inspiration for Kids Lunch Box Notes, our readers sent in their ideas for little love notes to throw in your kids lunch box to share a smile. We divided all of the ideas into categories. Here are some more ideas in the Missing You and Reminder Categories.

Missing You

    “I’m thinking of you. Put your hand to your cheek so you can get my kiss.” (We read “The Kissing Hand” which helped with saying goodbye).

    “Hey Buddy- love you and miss you, see you when you get home.”

    “No, I miss YOU more”!

    “I miss you, but will see you soon!! Have a great rest of your day!!”

    “I am going to miss you so much today and can’t wait to see you at 3. If there’s someone new at your lunch table, ask him his name and come home and tell me about him!”

    “Thinking of you, anything good going on?”

    “I hope you are having a great day! I love you so much and am so excited to see you soon!”

    “Can’t wait to see you after school!”

    “Mommy & sister miss you.”

Reminders

    “3 bites of everything – Mommy loves you.”

    “Eat all of your lunch.”

    “We love you! Remember not to kick the balls inside!”

    “Take care of your brother.”

    “please be good…mommy loves you! p.s. remember to eat all your real food before you start on dessert.”

    “4 year olds don’t cry, smile.”
    “Use your inside voice. Be nice. Enjoy your day!”

    “Remember to listen, watch, learn and love…”

    “Hey Buddy- hope school is going good, remember no sugary treats ok. Love you and see you when you get home.”

    “Just remember, there’s a kiss in your hand if you need it.”

Feel free to share more ideas in the comments below!

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Inspiration for Kids Lunch Box Love Notes

We recently ran our Mother Lode Back-to-School Giveaway and to enter, our fabulous readers shared their ideas for Lunch Box Love Notes for kids. Thank you! We love throwing a little note, joke, drawing, or something special into our kids’ lunch boxes to remind them that we are thinking of them. We even gave out FREE lunch box notes with every lunch box we sold at ChocolateCakeClub.com this Back-to-School Season. It’s such an easy way to add a smile to a kid’s day. (Try it on your husband too. He may love it!) However, some days it’s just too hard to be creative or author the perfect note. So, we compiled all of your ideas and divided them into categories as inspiration. The list was so long we are going to divide it into a few posts, so check back the next few days to see them all. Happy note writing!

Notes of Encouragement

    Test Days – “Good Luck on your test! I know you can do it!”

    For the First Day – “Have a great year in First Grade Mommy is so proud of you!”

    “Have a wonderful first day of 4th grade! Can’t wait to hear all about it!”

    “Hey Sweets- I know you will ace your test today! You make me proud everyday!”

    “Sweet Girl- Have a wonderful day today! I love you!”

    “Be a leader today. Be the first to forgive and cover it in love. And do your very best in all that you do.”

    “Have tons of giggly fun all day long!”

    “Wow Them!”

    “You are my girl!”

    “You’re going to do GREAT on that math quiz today! “

    “Thanks for always trying your best! Have fun learning today.”

    “Be a leader, be kind to your friends and open your heart and self up to new people. I love you, have a great day!! “

    “Hope you are having a great day.”

    “Good Luck on your test today. Now, relax and do your best! I’m sure you’ll do great!”

    “Work hard and have fun! We love you!”

    “Be the best you can be today! “

    “I am so proud of you!!”

    “You are my shining star, Brighter than any in the sky by far!”

    “Have fun in ART class today! “

    “Your best is enough.”

    “Field Trip Day !! Having a good time? I will be there when the bus pulls in. Love you so much…”

    “Keep smiling!”

    “Great job on the picture you drew.”

    “Hey Sweets- YOU ARE AWESOME kid, you make me proud everyday!!!!”
    (My son is in love with the word AWESOME)

    “Be good.”

    “Have fun with your friends.”

    “Have a great day sweetie! I love you and know you’re doing great!”

    “Have fun at show and tell.”

    “Good luck today on your test! Try not to daydream-just kidding.”

Need more inspiration? Check out these ideas:
Kids Lunch Box Love Notes: Missing You & Reminder Notes
Kids Lunch Box Love Notes: Funny, Visual, or Rewarding Notes
Kids Lunch Box Love Notes: A Plethora of Ways to Say “I Love You!”

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Kids School Lunches: Pack In Some Fun

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Does the idea of packing healthy school lunches for your kids make you break into a nervous sweat? Have 5 days of school gone by and you have depleted your creative ideas for lunch? Do your kids come home telling you that they didn’t eat because they didn’t like anything in their lunch box. Don’t fear. Getting your child to eat his or her lunch just takes a little planning and creativity.

Shake it up.
One easy way to shake it up is to vary the food that you normally use. Instead of a regular peanut butter and jelly on white bread (ho hum), make Pinwheel PB&Js by rolling up the PB&J in a flour tortilla and slicing it into pinwheels (fun!). Try a peanut butter and raisin or banana sandwich. My daughter loves Dark Chocolate Peanut Butter sandwiches. While some kids freak out when they see a new “food form,” as kids get older they will be willing to try more things, so don’t be afraid to shake it up. (And, if they are really hungry, they’ll at least try it.) Plus, if your kids are like mine, they actually try new stuff when they aren’t at home. I still remember my son coming home one day to tell me how awesome salami was because he had it at a friend’s house. Obviously, my many attempts to get him to try it were lame.

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Sally Kuzemchak, a registered dietician with Parents.com, provides several ideas for healthy lunch combinations. One is for Pretzel Kabobs, with ham, turkey and cheese rolled up and skewered with a pretzel stick. You could serve these with ½ cup mandarin oranges, ½ cup shelled edamame or sugar snap peas and 1 container of sugar-free chocolate pudding. You can find her 20 great lunchbox ideas in her article on Healthy School Lunches and Snacks at www.parents.com.

FamilyFun.com has some very creative, school lunch sandwich ideas to keep you inspired.

When lunch needs something special.
If your child has food allergies, don’t despair. Check out Cherrybrook Kitchen Mixes for tasty treats that are peanut-, dairy-, egg- and nut-free. My daughter has Type 1 diabetes so we are always looking for ideas to make a healthy, lower carb lunch. This site has some healthy ideas for any kids.

Get ‘em to pitch in.
Getting your child involved with the meal preparation is a great way to help ensure that they eat their lunch, not trade it away. It also makes them feel more grown-up. You could try filling one of each of three plastic baskets with fruits, vegetables and snacks. Then allow your child to pick one item from each basket for their lunch. Add a sandwich and a drink, and you’re done. They might actually eat all of their lunch if they got to choose what’s in it.

Chart it.
For siblings who like different foods, make a chart of favorite foods with the child’s name at the top and foods they like and will eat for lunch underneath. Then you can simply pick items from the list when you are still tired in the morning before your coffee kicks in. Keep it simple and easy for Mom! I love it.

Theme of the week.
Another tip is to incorporate a theme every few weeks, such as serving all red foods. Pair a strawberry jelly sandwich with cherry tomatoes and low-fat ranch dressing with cherry Jell-O for dessert. Meals could be all round foods (a bagel with cream cheese sandwich, an orange, and carrot rounds) or a backwards lunch (a sandwich with meat and cheese on the outside and a note written in reverse telling the child to eat dessert first). We just found a fabulous book called Yum-Yum Bento Box by Crystal Watanabe and Maki Ogawa. The bento box lunches they create are so adorable your kids will love it.

bento box lunch book

Click here to find more creative ideas for cute Bento Lunches for kids.

A rose by any other name might be worth eating.
To make those healthy greens more interesting for your boys, label your food with a gross name. Cooked spinach could be Sea Monster Hair. Snow peas are Alien Fingers. Broccoli are mini trees from the Haunted Forest. They’ll look forward to your creativity. (So will I. Let me know what you named everything.)

Yes, these ideas take a little time and prep to make. But remember; planning it on Sunday night for the weekdays will save you precious time on weeknights from trying to think of new lunch ideas. Or, just throw in the fun randomly when you have time. Your kids will never know what they’ll find that way.

Have fun and here’s to healthy lunches for your kids this year.

Looking for some fun kids lunch boxes to tote their healthy and fun creations to school. We’ve got plenty of cool designs and eco-friendly, waste-free kids lunch boxes to choose from at ChocolateCakeClub.com.

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How to Volunteer at School with Ease

School has started for a lot of us, so let the volunteering begin! We all want to help out and get involved in our kids school, right? It’s a great way to meet your kids’ friends so you can put faces to their stories. It’s also a nice way to meet other parents in your area. And until your kids hit their teen years, they are thrilled to have you share their world at school. Sometimes though it’s just not possible to do all that is required. Or we feel such guilt to contribute but it adds stress to our lives and we end up resenting it. If that is how you feel. Stop!

Everyone is at a different point in their life. If you have the time to volunteer and enjoy it, do so. If it makes you resentful or stressed out, don’t. There are different ways to give back and each school year you can do it differently. Some years, I had plenty of time so I could chaperone field trips, help set up the book fair, and bake for the Holiday Bake Sale. Some years work is all consuming and I have no time, so I send in supplies and only volunteer for activities in my child’s class, not for the whole school.

I’ve been asked to sit on the PTA Board in the past, but with running my own business, I don’t have a lot of extra time. I’ve said that if you need an extra set of hands at an event, call me. I can totally give you a few hours of my time, and I’m a great worker bee. But I can’t commit to running or organizing committees.

However, if you do have some time, you may want to organize the Book Fair this year because you have some great ideas on how to make it better. Cool! However you enjoy getting involved in your child’s school is perfectly fine and should be appreciated by the school and your child. Give yourself a break – there’s no guilt needed here.

Making it easier!
If you are a classroom leader or chair for a school activity or even a Boy or Girls Scouts leader, you may want a little help organizing and leading your fellow volunteers. We just learned about a free, easy-to-use online tool that takes the hassle out of coordinating volunteers. Better yet, it encourages volunteers to interact with each other. As the leader, you don’t need to do everything.

What’s the secret? Check out VolunteerSpot.com if you coordinate volunteers or belong to a group that needs some help coordinating their volunteer efforts. With just a few simple clicks, the site helps you organize a group to sign up for any activity — from reading to your child’s class to staffing the Holiday Breakfast to organizing the Fall Fundraiser. Organizers can invite parents to volunteer with an easy e-mail sign-up invitation, and parents can volunteer for tasks with a simple click on an online calendar. No registration required. Automated e-mails remind folks of their commitments. Whew! You don’t have to create those mass “reply all” e-mails, late-night phone calls, dreaded clipboard sign-up sheets or confusion over exactly who will be doing what. Great leaders use great tools!

Feel free to pass this resource along to your child’s teacher, in case they need help recruiting parent helpers in the classroom. (Or keep it to yourself so you look like the only Mom at school who’s got it together. Your choice. We won’t tell.)

Best yet, VolunterrSpot.com has some great free ebooks on Fun School Carnival Ideas, Bake Sale Tips, Kid-Friendly Fundraising and Gift Ideas for Teachers. Download their new, FREE e-book – The Room Mom’s Survival Guide. I just downloaded it to check it out and it’s full of great information.

Have fun getting involved with your child’s school this year. Decide how much you want to give and then enjoy!

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Keeping After School Activities Organized

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SuperMom Strikes Again

Faster than a travel soccer team practice three nights a week, stronger than two-a-day football practices, able to leap piano lessons and marching band in a single bound, it’s SuperMom!

Do visions of running your children to all of their after school activities have you pulling at your superhero tights and breaking into a cold sweat? (It’s not the itching, but the chafing.) Fear not! All it takes is some advanced planning and family guidelines to take the pressure off of you. Enlist your children and your spouse in this planning, and then the burden of organizing all of the after school activities won’t necessarily call for super hero strength–just some flexibility.

Mom's Plan-it Family Wall Calendar
Write it down—all of it
Get in the habit now of writing everything down in one place. Keep a master family wall calendar like the Mom’s Plan-it Family Wall Calendar to keep track of up to five family members. The calendar is color-coded, magnetic and keeps it all together.

If you or your kids want to, hang the calendar low enough for them to reach to write down their own activities. They can keep track of special classes like art or music, activities or sports, or playmates and birthday parties. Have fun with the schedule. Let them add stickers or smiley faces or whatever they like to remind them of important days. Just get into the habit of everybody checking the calendar daily before they go to bed, so everyone knows what’s going on the next day.

Have weekly calendar sessions with the whole family every Sunday night to update the calendar. This helps you keep everyone on the same page and avoids potential scheduling conflicts before they occur. (This way no one in the family can claim … “But, no one told me.”)

Keep it together
Keep all of your kids activity stuff together in a duffle bag or backpack. Have a special duffle bag for soccer with pads, shoes, uniform and a water bottle. Keep all of this gear in the bag hanging in the coat room or garage. After your wash the uniform, throw it in the soccer duffle bag. Don’t take it upstairs and put it away in a dresser. That’s just an extra step. The ready-to-go bag will make life easier when you are late for practice and running out the door. You won’t need to go hunting for all of the gear you need. “Why are my soccer shoes in the pantry?” If you have two sports going on at the same time, get two separate duffle bags.

Same for piano lessons, keep all of the books, folders, etc. in a designated backpack. It’s always ready to go when you are and keeps the clutter in the rest of the house down to a minimum. Invest in hooks for extra backpacks. It’s worth it.

Say No once in a while
Busy moms and kids get a lot done in part because they are so busy. But remember to schedule in some down time between activities. Don’t pack the schedule so full that all you are doing is running from one thing to the next. Where’s the joy in that?

Step back, and remember that it is OK to say No to some things. The world will still go on, and someone else can run the bake sale this year. It is an important time management lesson to teach your child that you are choosing to do only what is most important to you and your family.

We tell our kids that they can do 1 extra activity per “quarter”. While we insist on things like Spanish, swim lessons, or music at different times to make sure they are getting exposed to different talents, we let them choose something THEY want to do. Whether they want to play soccer, basketball, gymnastics, art classes, Tae Kwon Do or nothing, they start to learn how to choose and set their own priorities, and then you aren’t in the car 24/7. If you are feeling burned out, take a few months off with no activities. The kids will still get into college.

Think about how taking on another activity or group or commitment will affect the entire family, and say no to ones that you or your kids don’t love. Kids also need an appropriate amount of time to do homework. Make sure they get it. Children and adults all need down time to just hang out and relax. Don’t overbook so you can use that new found time to create more Chocolate Cake Moments!

Roll with the changes
These days, everyone seems to have a jam packed schedule. Know that sometimes it won’t always be perfect. You can’t be SuperMom (even though you may come very close). Try your best to be organized, but stay flexible. When the schedule gets messed up, have back up plans in place for quick, easy dinners or a carpool driver on speed dial. If you miss an appointment, don’t beat yourself up. If you signed up for an activity where the coach insists on holding practice during church or important family times, quit and choose another program. You and your family are all in this together, and you will get through it in flying colors. The goal is to remember that nothing is more important than having time to spend together as a family.

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6 Ideas To Get Your Kids To Talk More About Their Day

Now that school has started, how can you talk to your kids about school without getting the famous one word reply– “Fine”? Or my favorite, “OK.” No that’s some communicating!

Getting your kids to actively talk about their day can be a challenge but here are some tips that have worked for us or we’ve read about on how to get your kids to talk about their day.

Greet, don’t grill.
Kids can get defensive and feel intimidated when you ask them about school right as they get off the bus. Don’t grill them about their day as soon as they walk in the door. “What did you do today? What did you learn? What did you have for lunch?” Just take it easy and truly show them you are just happy to see them again. This worked wonders for my family since the kids didn’t drag their feet coming home to tell me bad news. They knew they could ease into it.

We found an article that Jim Fay wrote and he calls this technique the “30 minutes rule.” Don’t talk about school or your work for 30 minutes after greeting each other. You don’t want to hear bad news about your kid’s day and they don’t want you to take out any work aggression on them. Don’t let school or work ruin your relationship with your child. Make sure you are both happy to greet each other. You can read his other hints here.

Listen Up!
It’s great if your child begins the talking first. One day, don’t ask them about school at all and see what happens. Kids are usually less defensive and more willing to share their school experience when they start to talk first. So hold back the questions and just let them tell you. Or, see if they ask you about your day. (We can dream, can’t we?)

Sharing.
Once you start talking, be very open with them. Tell them about a mistake you made that day that you wish you could take back. Seeing your wiliness to share about your day can help them talk about their school day. Share with them what you like to do, how you spent your day while they were away, what happened at your work, if you met up with a friend, or if you saw something interesting. Let your kids get to know you as a person.

It’s All in How You Ask.
Asking them “How was school today” most often or not leads to the word ‘okay’, ‘fine’ in a tone that declares an end to the conversation. We use more open ended questions like: What sport did you play today in gym? What game did you play in recess? Who did you play with at recess? Why do you like that friend? Did you like the lunch I packed you? Who did you sit with at lunch today? What was the coolest thing that happened to you today? What do you wish that you could do over?

Take advantage of the clues in their backpack to start the conversation. Ask them about the homework, graded papers, notes from teachers, and artwork your kids bring home daily. Talk to them about the notes their teacher wrote on their papers, and praise them for the good grades they’ve earned. (We all need a little more praise and positive feedback every day, don’t we?) Show interest in their artwork and ask them to explain their master piece to you- even if it is just green beans glued to white paper.

A place where everyone gathers.
Make dinner a safe and comforting place for your family to share their goods and bads, happiness and disappointments, past and up-coming events. There is no better time or place to talk about your day then when you are all gathered together eating dinner. If your family’s schedule is just too hectic so that you can’t eat dinner together, then make breakfast together a ritual. Get up a little earlier but get everyone around the table talking. If you make these family conversations part of the daily routine, when they reach to their teen years, it’ll be easier for them to share.

The best time is … anytime.
Try talking about your child’s day at different times. After you have relaxed and read a story together might be a good time to talk. Or at breakfast before the day starts might be the best time. Try talking about their day at different times to see when they are most relaxed and open to sharing.

We hope these tips help you any your children to have more meaningful conversations about school.

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Win during the Back-to-School Blog Bash

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Our friends Holly at the Work at Home Woman and Abbey at Living My Moment are hosting a Back-to-School Blog Bash next week. There will be wonderful giveaways (we’re giving away a Four Peas School Backpack valued at $35) and every participating blog will be posting some fun Back-to-School tips and musings.

Four Peas Spunky Stripe School Backpack

If you have a blog and want to participate in the tour, head on over to either site to sign up. It’s a nice way to get some additional traffic to your site. Then, come back here on Monday, September 6th to read our Back-to-School Sanity Saving posts and then take the blog tour around the web. You may discover a new blogger you absolutely love.

Have a fun Labor Day with your Family!

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Homework? No Whining Allowed!

And so it begins. It won’t take long once school starts. It could be a few days or a week, but you know it is lurking around the corner—homework. The teachers will waste no time sending it home. And if your child is like mine, he or she will start whining as soon as they receive it. To win the whining wars, set some ground rules ahead of time, experts say. Follow these easy tips to bring peace and order to your home. (We’re trying them all out in our house.)

Susie Julian of Libertyville (Ill.), an experienced elementary teacher, said developing a routine to get homework done is the key. “Set the expectation with your child that they do their homework first,” Julian said. “Make it as much of a routine as possible. Then there’s no whining. It’s just what we do everyday. It’s like brushing your teeth.” My kids totally understand that the order is Get Off Bus, Greet Mom, Give Hugs, Have Snack, Do Homework, and then they are free to play.

Set a specific place to do homework.
If possible, set aside a desk or card table just for homework. If you are tight on space, designate a spot in their room or at one end of the kitchen table. Have pens and pencils available, and a calculator and a ruler for older kids.

Eliminate distractions.
Give your kids sperate spaces. That means no TV and no cell phones for the duration of their homework. Older kids probably will fight you on this point, but again, just make it part of the routine. They will get much more out of their U.S. History analysis of the causes of WWII if Jenny isn’t texting every five minutes about the new boy in class. My kids have to be separated so they don’t end up bugging each other.

Start early.
Start the homework sooner rather than later at night, when the whining may go up exponentially. “Make it as much of a routine as possible,” said Julian. “Having the same time, same routine seems to help with the whining. Set the expectation that you do homework first, then you can go relax or be with friends.” No matter how much they beg, don’t budge on this! I learned the hard way.

Whining with a reason.
There is whining, where the child just is not in the mood to do homework, and then there is true whining, that could signal a bigger problem. Julian says parents need to pay close attention, however, if the whining persists. “If you have a lot of whining, perhaps there is a real reason for it,” Julian said. “Is there too much homework? Is it too difficult? Maybe there is a legitimate reason for it.” If so, you or your child should contact the teacher right away.

Julian recommended that depending on the age of the child, have the child talk to the teacher on their own to encourage responsibility. The child can ask the teacher to explain a certain section or simply say the homework didn’t make sense. If the child is too young, or too reserved, then you can send an e-mail or call the teacher on their behalf.

“As a teacher, I need to know if something didn’t connect with the students,” Julian said.

Help, but don’t rescue.
Parents should support their children with homework struggles without rescuing them or doing the work for them. Some nights it’s hard when you need to go make dinner or do a million other chores but stop, take a deep breath and help them. Don’t do it for them. You already went to school.

For additional homework help, check first with the teacher or the school. Many offer homework help lines where you can simply call in for assistance. They are often staffed by teachers or volunteers who can help a student with a confusing subject. Your teacher could send some “cheat sheets” home for you as well to help your child.

There are also online sites to give assistance. Try www.school.discoveryeducation.com, a resource provided by Discovery Education to help students in all grades with all subjects, or www.homeworkhelp.com, where online tutors help students understand the homework concepts.

While the whining may not stop completely, it should be more manageable. Good luck!

What works best for your kids to stay on track and get their homework done with a minimum amount of whining?

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Want to Win Some Awesome Kids Music?

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Want to win some of the best (OK, we think the best) kids music for your family? Tired of the Wiggles and ready to upgrade to more “sophisticated” kids music? Have a kids birthday party coming up and need some background music or fun music to play Freeze Dance?

Then, head on over to Parentsconnect.com and join in on their Mega Music Party. Here’s a sneak peak at all of the great music-themed prizes they are giving away today. We donated some of our favorite kids music CDs – Pegleg Tango by Captain Bogg & Salty (incredibly fun Pirate Music, perfect for a Pirate Birthday Party), Beethoven’s Wig (classical music with funny lyrics kids love), and finally our personal fave – Ralph’s World. We saw him this weekend at our local StreetFest which was a blast.

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Click here to enter to win the music we donated.

The ParentsConnect.com Mega Music Party is going until on until 11:59 p.m. EST tonight. Don’t forget to enter!

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Tips for Getting Your Kids Out of Bed and Ready for School

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Check out the article that I wrote for HybridMom.com on How to Wake Your Kids Up for School. Funny how the kids can snap awake at 6 a.m. during summer break but you need to physically drag them from the bed once school starts. Read about the tips and ideas we use in our house to rouse the sleepyheads.

Getting Your Kids Out of Bed in the Morning and Ready for School

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Day #24 30 Day Summer Fun Challenge: Play School

While your school age children may HATE this idea, your toddlers and especially your kids entering kindergarten will enjoy having some summer fun by pretending to go to school. If your child is really nervous about starting kindergarten then showing them what to expect can not only be fun, but help ease their fears. (This is also fun to do when your younger child is devastated that their older brother or sister gets to go to school and they don’t.)

Here are some ways to pretend school is in session:

  • Make up a silly name for your school to get everyone in the giggly mood.
  • Invite other kids in your neighborhood to be students or set up your child’s stuffed animals at little “desks” in the room.
  • If you have a desk at home, pull it out into the middle of the family room. Set up a white board, chalk board, or tape a large piece of white paper to the wall so you can “teach” in front of them.
  • Give your child a notebook or some pieces of lined paper to write, draw or pretend math.
  • Give them some scissors to practice cutting shapes you’ve drawn on a piece of paper.
  • You can print some worksheets from a variety of online sites to use.
  • Set your alarm clock to go off loudly, to announce that school is in session.
  • Use pretend money to practice counting and recognizing coins and dollars.
  • Read some fun story books about school.
  • Go outside and study bugs for science. Have them draw the bug in their notebook.
  • You can even pretend to go on a Field Trip – loading the kids in a wagon and taking them to a local library to enjoy new books or visit a train station to talk about transportation. (Pick any nearby destination that your kids would enjoy and look at it from an educational angle.)
  • Have a fire drill. Set your alarm clock to go off again and “evacuate” the building safely.

Here are some fun, school-related activity kits and educational games that will have your kids smiling, while they are learning.

Ready, Set, School Activity Set
Ready, Set, School Activity Set

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What Time is It? Game

Spanish Bingo for Kids
Spanish Bingo for Kids

Spanish Flash Cards for Kids
Spanish Flash Cards

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Write Me a Story Pads

American Presidents Placemat
American Presidents Placemat

Have fun playing and learning.

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Tips for Smoothly Transitioning Your Child to High School

Going from Middle School to High School is a huge emotional step for kids (and for parents–get those Kleenex out again!) Most teens are apprehensive about going, but too cool to let you know. They may be worried about forming friendships, fitting in, getting good grades, getting lost, dealing with peer pressure and dating, just to name a few. Here are a few ideas to help them feel more comfortable about high school.

Re-establish routines.
Right now, before school begins, start turning your night owl child into one who goes to bed a little earlier and gets up before noon. This will help them avoid going into shock on the first day. If your kids are texting late at night while they are supposed to be sleeping, have them leave their cell phones in the kitchen, plugged into a charger, before they go to bed.

Be involved.
Even though they hope you don’t know, teens need their parents now more than ever. Find out how to best contact the school and the individual teachers to get help, if needed. Many schools now use technology like PowerSchool to provide parents with daily or weekly updates on their student’s progress with homework and tests. Get on these systems right away so that you can head off any problems before they become larger issues. Let your kids know you are talking with their teachers so it doesn’t feel like you are going behind their back and spying on them. Make sure they know it is because you want to stay involved.

Stay close but not too close.
Ask your teen about their day, but don’t interrogate them. If they tell you a problem, don’t automatically try to solve it for them. Expect that especially during the first few weeks of school, they may come home and need time to just “chill out.” Try to chat with them in the car on the way to activities or at dinner instead of grilling them as they come in the door.

Teach Them to Handle Independence.
Your kids may have a lot more independence in High School than in Middle School. However, that doesn’t mean you stop parenting. Talk with your kids frequently about meeting deadlines, avoid procrastinating (do as Mom says, not as she does), and prioritizing their work and fun. These are life skills they will need for the rest of their lives. Encourage them to try new activities and join clubs but learn when enough is enough.

Any other advice you’d like to share?

We hope this series of tips help you and your kids get through the crazy transition of starting a new school and meeting new milestones.

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Tips for Smoothly Transitioning Your Child to Middle School

When your child has conquered Elementary School and is going on to Middle School, it is a significant adjustment. Kids may worry about fitting in, making friends and huge loads of homework. Let alone trying to get from class to class on time. Reassure them that it will all become second nature quickly and that you will be there to help.

Conquering the Combination Lock.
Many students are terrified that they won’t be able to get their locker open in the few minutes they have in the crowded hallway between classes. (What’s that combo? Agh! I’m going to be late!)Practice with your own lock in advance, or see if you can visit the school to practice using their real locker. Write the combination down in a planner. For kids who have a phone, program the locker combination into their phone – chances are, that’s the last thing they’ll lose.

Making friends.
Middle school can be a tricky time to make friends. It can especially be difficult for girls who frequently make and break friendships. Be sensitive to this. If your child is having some challenges with other girlfriends, maybe check out Queen Bees and Wannabes: Helping Your Daughter Survive Cliques, Gossip, Boyfriends, and Other Realities of Adolescence by Rosalind Wiseman.

Ask your child if they know anyone from their last school going there. Remind them that they made friends in elementary school that they didn’t know before. As with adults, tell them that joining clubs and after-school activities is the fastest way to make new friends, especially ones who share the same interests.

Eating lunch.
Lunchtime can be a social landmine. Kids are known for grouping together into the stereotypical groups—the jocks, the popular kids, the nerds, the trouble makers, kids who love vegetables. (We’ve all seen Breakfast Club and Better Off Dead.) Help your child plan ahead. Encourage them to find a friend who will save them a seat to avoid the awkward search. Or encourage your child to sit at a different table everyday to try to meet the most people and find the friends that make them feel comfortable.

Find a “mentor.”
Check your neighborhood for a kid who may be a year or two ahead. Ask them if they would talk to your child about middle school – how it works, which clubs to join, what to avoid, etc. At the very least, this will be a friendly face on the first day of school.

What other tips do you have for parents’ whose kids are entering Middle School?

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Tips for Smoothly Transitioning Your Child to Kindergarten

If your child is headed to kindergarten, middle school or high school this year, they may be nervous about what to expect. These are big transitions and your child is either excited and eager to go to the new school (for a few lucky parents) or anxious and unsure (for most). Here are some tips to smooth the transitions and start the year off right.

To help both you and your child feel secure and excited about going to kindergarten for the first time, you need to plan ahead. Some young children jump right in, acting as if they had been there all of their lives, but others are shy and scared. Try these ideas to make going to school as easy as possible.

Don’t Miss Orientations.
No matter what grade your kids are entering this year, be sure to attend Back-to-School Nights and Meet the Teacher(s) events before school starts. It makes a huge difference to see a friendly face on the first day of school.

Be relaxed but excited.
Kids can sense any anxiety you may be feeling, so be sure to talk positively about school. Don’t ask them if they are nervous if they haven’t even considered that they need to be nervous yet. (Boy, do my kids run with the power of suggestion, so head it off at the pass.) Talk positively with your child about the fun they can expect in kindergarten, like learning new songs and playing games and recess, but don’t focus on it too much or don’t try to oversell the “play” part. School can be fun but it is for learning.

Practice makes perfect.
Kids will feel more secure if they know what to expect so practice walking to school or the bus stop. Or drive to the school and say, “This is where Mom will park or where the bus will drop you off and that is the door you will go into. Then this is where you will be picked up each day.” Bring your camera and some Kleenex for that first bus ride and ask another child to help them on the bus. Share tissues with the other moms because trust me, there will be tears. But be sure to send off your child with happy – not hysterical—tears. Or hysterical relief – that’s not a good signal to send either.

Let them have a say.
Be sure to get their school supplies early and let the kids pick out a special folder or a cool backpack to express themselves. Let them draw a picture of the family or a beloved pet to hang in their cubby, if allowed. Let your child pick out the special “first day” outfit the night before (or if they are wardrobe challenged, let them choose a part of it, such as a favorite shirt or funky socks.) To remember this fond moment, take a picture of them on their first day. There’s no better place to start making new friends than at the bus stop. Ask another child to help them on the bus or encourage your kids to introduce themselves to the other kids waiting.

Ready, Set, School Activity Kit
Pretend.
Kids love to play school. Help them see what kinds of activities they might encounter in school with this Ready, Set, School Activity Kit from Alex Toys that we sell over at the Chocolate Cake Club.

Read books about kindergarten.
Reading together with your child is always one of the best ways to help them prepare for kindergarten. For kids who are anxious and don’t know what to expect in this big transition period, books like “Let Get Ready for Kindergarten” by Stacey Kannenberg covers the alphabet, letters, rhyming, numbers, and shapes to help ease them into the school year. We like funnier books to ease our fears, so we enjoyed “Jake Starts School,” by Michael Wright.

We’ll be covering tips for Middle School and High School next.

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Awesome Kids Cooking Classes!

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We were visiting my parents in Austin, TX last week and we stopped in to visit a wonderful kids cooking shop called Batter Up Kids Cooking Shop. I am passionate about how cooking with your kids is not only essential for teaching them a life skill but it is one of the best ways I know to share a “Chocolate Cake Moment” together, bonding as a family.

The owner of the shop is Barbara Beery, successful author of several of our favorite kids cooking books like the Spa Princess Cookbook, Pink Princess Tea Parties cookbook, and Fairies Cookbook.
Spa Princess Kids Cookbook

Barbara and her daughter were so gracious when my daughter, Mom and I cruised into the shop. (Three generations of food lovers, oh boy!) You can certainly buy kids cooking kits in the store and they host kids cooking parties and classes, but more importantly you can just walk in and make something. The recipes change every week. My daughter was thrilled. She got to choose to make either a Flowerpot Ice Cream or Groovy Grasshopper Vegetable Dip. (I loved that Barbara had a healthy alternative, even if my daughter didn’t choose it.)

christy cook apron

Before she got down to business making her ice cream treat, my daughter got to decorate a cooking apron with markers and stickers. Barbara mentioned that several kids save their aprons and bring them back to the store to add new decorations as they continue to take classes.

ice cream flower pot

Check out some of Barbara’s fun recipes at her blog site.

If you are in the Austin area and looking for something fun to do with your kids or grandkids, the Batter Up Kids Cooking Shop is a delightful way to have some fun.

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Celebrate the Last Day of Summer Freedom

kids and summer bugs

Mom, you may be jumping for joy that the kids are finally going back to school, but the kids might be a little bummed their summer freedom is over. Just because school is starting, it doesn’t mean you can’t have one last day in the sun. Help your kids to see the last day of summer as something to look forward to by creating a tradition where you do something fun as a family to celebrate. Mom and Dad, see if you can take the day off of work so you can do something fun together. Here are some ideas on how to celebrate:

Hit the pool one last time.Your kids have probably been swimming all summer but that’s no reason not to go again. Enjoy the sun and get that last tan of the season.

Have a block party. Invite the neighborhood kids and parents over. Share your summer vacation highlights as well as talk about who has which teacher, new outfits, bus schedules, etc. The kindergarten kids can ask the older kids for help with getting on the bus.

Run Around. It’s still summer, so go outside. Be active and enjoy the outdoors on this last day. Your kids are going to be sitting in a class room for the next 9 months so release as much energy as you can. Go to the local forest preserve and play games, hit the theme park one last time, go for a long bike ride in another part of town, or go horseback riding if it’s available near you.

Go see a movie during the day. If your outdoor activities get rained out or you just want to relax, this will be the last time to take advantage of that early bird, weekday discounts to see the latest family flick. It will be a rare pleasure for the kids to see a movie during the day, just because you can.

Cook your kid’s favorite meal. Ask your kids what they want as a celebratory meal and have fun making it together. Make cookies in the shape of a school bus or apple that they get to take to school on the first day. Make homemade trail mix or snack mix that they can take the first week of school. Simple, but fun.

A blog we love to read is Gourmet Mom-on-the-Go and she has a totally cool idea for a Celebration Sandwich for her kids. Check out this fun recipe!

Does your family do anything to celebrate the last day of summer before school starts?

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Parents Connect Back-to-School Bash

Monkey Talking Kids Alarm Clock

ParentsConnect.com is hosting a Back-to-School Bash today and giving away prizes all day. We donated one of our popular Monkey Talking Alarm Clocks so head on over to enter to win the clock or any of the other great Back-to-School products they are giving away. Contest ends tonight at 11:45 PM EST.

Looking for some Back-to-School sanity during this chaotic time of year? Read all of our posts on Saving Money, Having Fun, and Staying Organized during Back-to-School Season.

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Back to a Back-to-School Routine – Part 2

Want more tips on how to get the family back into a school frame of mind?

Mom's Plan-it Family Wall Calendar

Get a Family Calendar.
The Master Family Schedule should be easily accessible for everyone. Teach your kids how to look at the family calendar and increase their sense of responsibility by letting them know what they need to prepare for the next day. Keep the calendar in the kitchen or a common room. Here are some ideas to keep on track:

  • Once school starts, have them sit with you and write in which days they have gym, art or music.
  • Make it a habit to look at the calendar together after dinner so that everyone can prepare.
  • Check their backpack to find those papers with new important dates to mark on the calendar.

Even Dad will appreciate the family calendar when he comes home and can’t find anyone. He can check the calendar and see we’re all at soccer practice.

moms plan it engagement inside

Shameless Plug: To get you started, we love the Mom’s Plan-it Family Wall Calendar and Engagement Calendar, which is why we sell them at www.ChocolateCakeClub.com. However, you can make your own or choose from a variety of other brands.

Give your self time.
Your kids can sense your moods. They are like bats that way. Keeping yourself upbeat and calm in the morning can work wonders on how your kid’s day goes. Whether it may be getting up extra early if you need to begin the day with a quiet morning, or just a cup of extra strong coffee is all you need; be sure to give your child your brightest smile in the morning- that is the best gift you can give to help them through the rest of the day. Then, when they get on the bus or your drop them off, have another cup of coffee. While it’s not fair that you are the one that needs to sacrifice those extra precious minutes of sleep, it’s better for all to not be freaked out in the morning.

Star Wars pancake breakfast

Breakfast, it does a body good.
Breakfast doesn’t need to be elaborate but it does set the energy level for the whole day. Keep it simple with cereal, yogurt, granola, fruit, frozen waffles (no-trans fat, please) and hard boiled or scrambled eggs, if they’ll eat it. We introduced our kids to a European-style bread, ham and cheese breakfast and they love it. It’s easy to make on a busy school morning. On Sunday, make pancakes or French toast and freeze it for the week. Don’t let your kids skip breakfast though. Have them eat a cereal bar or banana at the very least, to get the brain going.

Any other tips for us? Please share.

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Back to a Back-to-School Routine – Part 1

cal and christy 2009 school year

Getting your kids to switch from the crazy, free days of summer into a Back-to-School routine again can be a little challenging. (Oh, my gosh, we start next week! How did that happen!?!) But with just a little advanced planning, you can get everyone back into a School frame of mind.

Get in the Groove Again.
A week or two before school starts, get the kids back into a routine. No more sleeping in front of the TV. No more waking up at noon or with younger kids, no more waking up at 6 a.m. for no reason. Reestablish a bed time, start reading a story again before bed, and wake the kids up earlier in the morning to get their body back into a “school sleeping cycle.”

State the Rules.
Sit down at the dinner table one night and lay down your expectations for the school year. Remind them of the family rules like:

  • No breakfast until they are fully dressed
  • Backpack ready the night before
  • No TV or Wii until homework is done
  • No friends over until homework is done

By stating these up front as a reminder, your kids should have the rules down pat by oh, say Middle School. However, you’ll feel better that you did your “Momly” duty.

melissa and doug wooden kids chore chart

As a visual reminder, make a chart that reminds the kids what they need to do each morning or before bed – brush teeth, get backpack ready, set out clothes for the next day, make bed. This takes away your need to nag, … or at least nag less. We sell a Magnetic Kids Chore Chart that we use daily to help with the reminders. (We also tie their allowance to it so the kids actually use it.)

Address hidden emotional concerns.
Kids are usually worried about going back to school, even if they don’t express it. So ask them. Sit down at dinner and go around the table to ask your kids what they are most excited about and most worried about for the upcoming year. You’ll be surprised at what concerns them and you may be able to help them eliminate the concern before school even starts. But only if you know what’s bothering them. Most of your child’s concern will most likely come from not knowing what to expect (so ask an older neighbor kid), where their class room is (go see it when you Meet the Teacher), or how to get on and off the bus (ask an older neighbor to be their bus buddy). Give them the confidence to start school right.

Check back tomorrow for more tips on getting Back to a Back-to-School Routine.

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Back to School Traditions

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The First Day of School is creeping up on us (we start next Wednesday) and I think we are organized and ready this year. Although my kids face the new school year with dread and gloom, I like to celebrate the start of a new school year. Sure, I’m dancing in the hallways because I get the house back to myself and can work noise-free once they’re back in the classroom. But I’m also celebrating because the start of a new school year means new opportunities, new friends, and new milestones for my kids. Whatever your reason, do take the time to celebrate and start some new family traditions.

I’ve read some fun posts on various blog sites about Back-to-School Traditions and thought I would share.

First Day of School Traditions:

I always take pictures of my kids on the first day of school in their new outfits and backpacks. We take the photo in the same spot so that we can see how much they grow each year. I put notes in their lunch box or backpack to let them know that I’m thinking of them. I always meet them at the bus stop on the first day so I can hear about their day. Then we usually have something fun for dinner like homemade pizza or their favorite meal.

The last day of summer break is also a great day for celebrations. Read our post on How to Celebrate the Last Day of Summer Break by doing something fun with the kids.

What are your Back to School Traditions?

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Tips for Playful Parenting or Engaging in Supreme Silliness

silly smiles

We came across a wonderful blog post at Simple Mom on 4 Ways to Practice Playful Parenting and thought we would share.

What is Playful Parenting? It’s what our family has been doing for awhile but I just came across the term in a book by Lawrence Cohen. According to his site,

Playful Parenting is joining children in their world of play, focusing on connection and confidence, giggling and roughhousing, and following your child’s lead.

I like to call it Engaging in Supreme Silliness. (or acting like a Goofball. Take your pick.)

Here are 3 more ideas we would add to Megan’s list.

    1. Dance Like You Mean It – In the post, Megan talks bout Shaking It Out to change a child’s mood. In our house, we use music and dancing to not only get our smiles on, but as great exercise. There’s nothing like a strong bass beat and seeing each other groove to make for a happy family moment. Whether your dancing to Ralph’s World or AC/DC, get up and move.

    2. Dress Up. There’s nothing like wearing someone else’s clothes to produce a fit of the giggles. If everyone’s bored and cranky, head on up to the closet and put on an outrageous outfit. Where Daddy’s tie with a tee shirt and try to get on your toddler’s hat. Let your kids put on one of your outfits and they’ll be thrilled.

    3. Declare it Opposite Day. Make your day even more fun by turning your day upside down. Have breakfast food at dinner time. Eat in the bedroom instead of the kitchen. Take a bath in the morning or at night, opposite of when you usually do things. Read a “Good Morning Story” instead of a “Bedtime Story.”

What do you do with your kids to act silly and playfully parent?

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6 Ways to Save Money on Back-to-School Clothes

Back to School Outfits

When back to school season comes around, so does all the stress. There are about a million things to worry about. Who is their new teacher? What time is the bus coming? Why do my kids look like it’s the end of the world? Will my son eat something other than a salami sandwich this year?

Most importantly what new clothes do they need? Most likely your kids will either whine about being dragged out to shop, or eagerly fight through the crowds– pushing almost everything into the cart.

Take a deep breath and remember that there are ways to keep your money, time and sanity in check when shopping for school clothes.

1) Your kids are constantly growing and while you think their clothes from last year might still fit, they might not. In early August, have your kids do a fashion show for you to see what in their closet still fits and what can be given away. (Tip: Let your little girl wear make-up while she is doing it and she’ll be at it for hours.) Boys might need a little more bribery for this and you might need to spread “the fitting” out over several nights. However, now you can make your list of what clothes, shoes, backpacks, and other accessories you need so you don’t over buy.

2) While shopping for Back-to-School clothes, take advantage of the summer sales and stock up on some basics for next summer, especially for bathing suits or shorts. Retail sales for summer clothes usually starts at the end of July so look for cute summer clothes that are a size or two larger for your child to fit into a year from now.

3) Only buy one or two new school outfits now. It was always a tradition in our house that you wore a new outfit on the first day of school. Mom took photos as we were heading for the bus and wanted us to look our best. New clothes to me signified a brand new year full of possibilities. However, don’t buy clothes for the whole year in July or August. Every year it amazes me that right after I buy jeans for my son in August, he grows an inch. There’s nothing worse than having a bag full of new clothes that your kids suddenly can’t wear. Tip: Make sure you keep the receipts, so you can exchange what doesn’t fit. I’ve learned to shop for his jeans in late September or October. There are usually better sales and hopefully he’ll have done his sprouting for the year.

4) Also, remember to write your kid’s name on the tag of their coat/jacket, backpack, lunch bag, etc. Stuff always gets lost but you might have a better chance of reclaiming it from the school Lost and Found box if you label it. Then you won’t have to spend more money replacing items.

5) If you live in a neighborhood with a lot of kids or a lot of friends with kids all different ages, host a clothes swap. Have all the Moms over for some chocolate cake. Tell them to bring their kids gently used clothes and see if you can swap. Even if there’s no one the right size to switch with, you had some fun with the neighbors. Set up a Yahoo Group and have your friends and neighbors list their sizes before the swap meet.

6) Considering how active kids are, they’ll most likely need new shoes. Their feet can swell up to half a size more during the day, so trying on shoes during the evening or early morning can save you another trip back to the store.

So relax, take a deep breath and bring on the Back-to-School Season!

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Back-to-School Bargain Shopping Tips

Back to School Savings

There have been quite a few good posts lately in various blogs about how to save money during the Back-to-School shopping frenzy. I thought I would throw my two cents in. (Even though that isn’t fiscally responsible of me.) I was interviewed in a Chicago Sun Times article last year talking about Back-to-School Bargains and while the article is no longer available online, here are some of the highlights.

  • Always have your school supplies list with you. You never know when you’ll run into a bargain somewhere.
  • Wait to buy school clothes until after Labor Day. You’ll see more coupons and sales running then.
  • Search online for coupons to your favorite stores. There are all kinds of coupon sites out there to help you find a code.
  • Check second-hand clothes shops or garage sales for kids clothes. Many times, these clothes were never worn and still have the tag on them.
  • Have a neighborhood kids clothes swap.

If you have any additional tips on how to save money for Back-to-School, please share. Want to save 20% on back-to-school gear at www.ChocolateCakeClub.com? Use coupon code BTSBLOG before August 15, 2010. Happy Shopping!

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How to Buy the Perfect Kids Backpack

toddler backpack spunky and supply bag

It’s getting to be that time of year, when our kids are done jumping into pools and beginning to jump into books. That means one thing – school supplies and backpacks. There are some questions that you need to ask yourself and your child before picking that backpack for school or even preschool.

Your child will go through three backpack size phases in their school years – preschool, elementary school, and middle/high school. While you may have more than one backpack during those times, the sizes will grow as your child grows. (I know, that’s obvious.)

Four Peas Rocker Backpack
Preschool or Daycare: A preschool or toddler backpack should be small and simple, just big enough to carry those toddler essentials like a change of clothes, snack, BFF blankie, or a stuffed animal. Generally, a toddler backpack will fit a child ages 2 – 5 years old. So ask yourself, what do they need to bring every day and will this backpack hold it? Are you going to carry it or are they? If they are going to carry their own backpack to preschool then it needs to be smaller and very lightweight. You don’t want them looking like a deformed turtle as they walk down the driveway. Or, if you think you might use the bag while traveling, look for a Pull Along Backpack, one with a handle to make it easier for your child to pull.

frog stuffed backpack

How big do you need it?
Sports Quilted Toddler Backpack
The younger the toddler the harder it may be for them to work a zipper so you might want one with just a flap like this Quilted Toddler Backpack, which is machine washable as well. Bonus! But if zippers are no problem and you want something a little more sturdy, these Four Peas Toddler Backpacks are ideal.

Four Peas School Backpacks
Elementary School: They say Niagara Falls is the 8th wonder of the world but I would argue that it’s my son’s backpack after a day at school. We’re talking a few books, folders, loose papers, a few Lego guys to play with on the bus, and of course pieces of priceless art like life cycles of a butterfly, macaroni necklaces and popsicle stick art. (I know these are going to be worth something on eBay one day.)

So, your child’s backpack needs to hold all that and a bag of chips. If your child takes lunch to school then you also need to fit a lunch bag and maybe a water bottle. Now, here’s the kicker. Does your child go directly to an afterschool activity or care location where they would need to add in sports gear, additional books, or toys? Most school size backpacks are sufficient for an elementary school child’s needs but if you are using the backpack for extra activities or to travel with on the weekends, go for the largest size you can find.

Do you want to embroider their name on the bag? If so, look for a design that has an open space on the front so you can add the name.

Middle or High School: For you, it’s all about durability because they carry some pretty heavy books. Look for durable material and a large size bag. For them, it’s all about the ‘tude. This bag will hold more than just books, it will hold a statement. Don’t be surprised to find their bag covered in hanging doodads or covered with pins and patches. Your child will want to express him or herself so let them go for it.

Four Peas Skater Messenger Bag
There are a variety of styles for older kids; standard backpacks or messenger bags are popular, so have fun with your tween or teen picking out what they feel comfortable carrying- because now they’re not just carrying a bag, but their heart on their sleeve, I mean back.

Cleanability
If you want the backpack to last a few years, look for tough material. Not only to take abuse but to stand up to a hazmat-type cleaning. Make sure it is machine washable or easily surface cleaned. With my kids, we need to empty the bag and wash it every 2 months. They get skanky with food, left over glue, and various other substances that I can’t even identify! Remember, you only want one living thing attached to your kids backpack – your kid.

Last Notes about Design
When your kids are younger, backpacks make a great gift. You or the gift giver can choose a cute, hip, or even plain design and your child will be thrilled. Once your kids gets ready for school, just try and get them to like the same design you do. I dare you! Avoid the arguments and let them pick.

Also, when your kids are younger they are going to gravitate towards the character designed backpacks – Spiderman, Dora, SpongeBob, Princesses, etc. However, these “fad” backpacks will probably only last you one year because your child will move on from that character quickly. “Oh Mom, Dora is so yesterday.” So, if you are going to buy a character backpack, don’t obsess over the quality and durability factors. And don’t pay too much for it because most likely it will go in the donation pile and be going to school with some other child.

Hope these tips helped you. The Chocolate Cake Club has a ton of Kids School Backpacks, Messenger Bags, and Toddler Backpacks if you are looking for ideas and inspiration.

PSST! This weekend only, we are offering 20% off almost all of our popular Back-to-School products like our school and toddler backpacks, messenger bags, lunch boxes, water bottles, alarm clocks, school paper organizers, and even toddler nap mats. Hurry, quantities are limited and sale ends Sunday, August 1st.

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Work From Home Woman’s Interview with Sue Kirchner

Sue Kirchner, President www.ChocolateCakeClub.com

Thank you to Holly Hanna at The Work From Home Woman site for interviewing me and featuring the Chocolate Cake Club on her site. Holly has some wonderful information on running a business from home.

You can read the interview with me here.

Chocolate Cake Club Back to School Giveaway
Here’s another reason to go check out her site – we are sponsoring a Back to School Giveaway where you can win some of the Chocolate Cake Club’s great Back to School Gear. You can enter here but hurry, the contest ends tomorrow at noon. Stay tuned for our 3rd annual Motherlode Back to School Contest which we are going to launch on Thursday. Check back on Thursday for details on how to enter.

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How to Buy the Perfect Kids Lunch Box

What’s your child’s favorite time at school? For my kids, it’s lunch. But sending your kids to school or day care with a packed lunch can be a hassle. You need to make sure you buy a lunch box or bag that your child loves carrying to show off his or her personal style, but is completely functional for Mom.

Four Peas Skater Lunch Bag
There are all kinds of different sizes, shapes, materials, and designs for lunch bags. Some zipper, some fold over the top. Designs can be funky or just plain functional. But which to choose? Hint: It’s all about Size!

Here are 3 things to think about when picking your child’s lunch bag – size, ease of cleaning, and safety.

groovy peace lunch bag

Size Does Matter

Snack vs. Lunch. My son usually eats a hot lunch from school. However, he does take a snack everyday and sometimes he wants a snack that needs to be kept cold, like a yogurt drink, vegetable dip, or certain fruits that taste better cold. So, if you are only packing a snack, then get the smallest bag you can find.

slam dunk lunch bag

What’s in the Bag?
Figure out what your child will be taking for lunch every day. Pack a typical lunch in your head and guesstimate the space you need. Do they need a drink or will they buy milk at school? If they are bringing a drink, are they bringing a water bottle? If so, will it fit inside the lunch bag to stay cool? How about a juice pack? How will you keep everything cold? Think about what you want to throw in the bag and then you can determine the right size. You don’t want a lunch bag so big that your child needs wheels to drag it to school. But at the same time, you want your child’s lunch all together in one bag and not with separate pieces floating around the backpack getting smashed.

colorama lunch box

Keeping it Cool!
Does your child want to keep lunch items cold or hot? Then the lunch bag needs to be insulated and it needs a cold source. Some lunch bags come with a chill pack, but most don’t. If not, you can buy one separately but make sure it fits in the lunch bag. Some chill packs are huge. It only needs to keep the lunch cold for a few hours so don’t overdo it.

If you don’t want to buy a separate chill pack, here are some tips for keeping lunch cool. Throw some ice cubes in a plastic baggie. Ask your child to empty the melted water and bring the bag back so you can reuse it the next day. (My kids drink it.) Or, if you have a smaller lunch bag and don’t have the room for extras, save space by freezing the water bottle or juice pack then use it as the chill pack to keep the food cold. If your child isn’t concerned about temperature, then ignore all of this.

If your child likes hot soup then make sure you get a thermos. If you want it to fit in the lunch bag, take the thermos with you when you shop for the lunch bag or measure it.

yubo lunch box open
Waste Free Lunches?
We all want to do our part for protecting the environment and waste free lunches are a great way to conserve. Many schools are encouraging kids to bring waste free lunches. Our kids earn points every time they bring a waste free lunch.
I don’t want to keep adding to the landfill problem with plastic baggies so we try to use our clean butter tubs, and other small plastic containers that we can wash and reuse. However, plastic containers take up space in a lunch bag so make sure you have a large enough bag to hold them all. There are some great waste free lunch containers out there like this one from Kids Konserve.

yubo group shot

At Chocolate Cake Club, we really like and therefore sell the Yubo Lunch Box System. It comes with a sandwich container, two side dish containers, and an ice pack. It’s all easy to throw in the dishwasher and reuse. However, the lunch box is designed to hold only the set pieces, so if you think you are going to be adding in a lot of other items, you might want a bigger lunch box.

Robot lunch box

Safety
We all care about our kids’ health and safety. If you are buying a plastic or vinyl lunch bag, just make sure it is lead, phthalate, and PVC free. If your child wants to keep food hot or cold, it needs to be insulated. But definitely make sure to ask if the bag meets all child safety requirements, if it is not labeled as such. Most bags are these days, but just double check the label. We highly suggest aluminum or stainless steel water bottles as an alternative to plastic.

lunch bag designs
Design
OK, now you can think about design. There are so many cool designs on the market from cute to hip to uber trendy. Beyond the graphics, see which type of bag is easiest for your child to open. For a smaller child, a “fold over the top” Velcro closure may be easier than a zipper. Just like with backpacks, kids will express themselves with their lunch bag. Once your safety and size concerns have been met, Mom, let your child choose the design they love.

folkcolor busquets lunch bag

Check out all of the sizes, shapes, and designs of lunch boxes and bags we carry at Chocolate Cake Club. Don’t forget the matching Aluminum or Stainless Steel Water Bottles for your kids.

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Day #7 30 Day Summer Fun Challenge: Crazy for Construction Sites

Sorry! We skipped a day. Too much going on. You know the drill. We are back on track though with our 30 Day Summer Fun Challenge, where we’re giving you 30 days of simple, creative & most importantly memorable ideas to make this the most fun summer EVER for your family.

What is it with boys and construction equipment? They just love to watch the big machines destroy and build. When my son was 2 he was enthralled by construction equipment and would point it out through the car window. By the time he was 3, he knew the name of all the major equipment and would correct me when I mistakenly called a “front loader” a “backhoe.” (Smart Aleck!)

Well, since I live in Chicago and we have two seasons here – Winter and Construction – I thought I would share one of the fun things we used to do with my son to give him a fix for the Big Machines.

We used to drive around our neighborhood and find a construction site or if we were lucky enough to be able to walk over to one, we’d strap my son in the stroller and head over for some “better-than-reality-TV” entertainment.

Staying out of the danger zone, of course, we would look for a spot to park the car and watch or stroll around and look on in amazement through the safety fence. Cheap. Loud. Fun. The kind of entertainment every young boy craves. Take some photos and show your toddler on the computer screen later to relive the exciting memory. Have fun!

If your child is crazy for construction, check out some of the fun Construction-themed products we sell to help them express their inner demolition expert. These are perfect gifts for toddler boys. Today only, take 25% OFF of these top-selling gifts.

Constructive Eating Silverware
Constructive Eating Plate & Silverware Don’t forget the girls – the fun kids plastic silverware is available in pink too.

construction placemat
Construction Kids Plastic Placemat

construction backpack
Construction Kids Quilted Backpack

Green Toys Recycled Dump Truck Toy
Green Toys Recycled Dump Truck Toy Psst! It’s made entirely from recycled plastic milk jugs. How cool!

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Day #6 30 Day Summer Fun Challenge: Rainy Day Arts & Crafts

frog craft

Welcome to Day #6 of our 30 Day Summer Fun Challenge, where we’re giving you 30 days of simple, creative & most importantly memorable ideas to make this the most fun summer EVER for your family.

We’ve got storms here in the Chicagoland area today so I thought I’d share a Rainy Day fun idea. You can’t go wrong with Arts & Crafts when you are stuck indoors during summer break. However, there are a lot of craft kits out there so you need to keep some things in mind.

1. Are you going to do the craft with them or do you need the kit to keep the kiddos busy while you do other things? If so, make sure it is age appropriate so they don’t need Mom to do it all for them. Also, make sure they won’t finish it in 5 minutes and ask “Now, what?”

my giant busy box

2. Is everything included in the kit? If you have a ton of art supplies in your house already, you don’t need a kit that includes another glue stick or more magic markers. Maybe your best bet includes getting a craft book from the library or book store and using the supplies you already have. If you are at Grandma’s house or don’t have that many supplies, then make sure your kit has everything included. (You don’t want to start a craft only to find out that you need to go to the store to get Googly eyes. “Mom, how can we create under these conditions?”)

My Art Case Art Supply Kit

3. Do you want to reuse the kit or craft ‘n go? My daughter, the artist, goes through so many craft kits that I now look for ones that I can dispose of when we are done. We already have some great art kits that include all kinds of materials that we use constantly. So, I don’t want a new kit with 1,000 paint brushes. No more crayons in my house! I look for kits that we or she can put together with no extra pieces left over when we are done. Klutz makes some great craft ‘n go kits.

4. What do your kids like to do? There are so many cool themed art kits to appeal to all sorts of interests and artistic techniques. Check out all of the fun arts & craft kits we sell. There is everything from painting to jewelry making to shrinky dinks to sewing and more.

giant art jar

We’ve tried a lot of the craft kits out there with our kids and some keep them engaged, and some don’t. However, the three kits we keep using again and again that have provided our kids with hours of crafting fun, include the Alex Toys Giant Art Supply Jar, the My Very Busy Box, and the My Art Case Art Supply Kit, which is why we sell them.

I would recommend the My Very Busy Box for younger kids (as young as 2 years old) because there are instructions on how to make certain craft ideas. The Giant Art Supply Jar is perfect for older kids who want to create their own ideas and just need the supplies to make it happen. Don’t forget to grab an Art Project Splat Mat or an old tablecloth to protect your kitchen table or put on the floor under the crafting area.

Today only, take 25% off of the Giant Art Supply Jar, the My Very Busy Box, and the My Art Case Art Supply Kit. Take 25% off of our Art Project Splat Mats as well. We have some beautiful ones in Pink Lace & Green Gingham and Blue Stars. You can see all of our cool arts & craft kits here.

Send us a photo of your rainy day craft or tell us about your favorite arts & craft kit. Happy Crafting!

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Tags: Entertaining a Sick Child · Family Fun Ideas · Summer Family Activities

6 Last Minute Father’s Day Ideas

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It happens. We love our husbands and Dads to death and want to show them appreciation and give them a fun day to remember on Father’s Day. But some years you wake up on a Saturday morning in a cold sweat and say, “What? It’s tomorrow!?! How did that happen?”

It’s not that we don’t love you, sweeties. We want only the best for these men of ours. But life interferes. Kids need attention. (Yes, I am going to cop out and blame it on the kids.)

So, ladies, here are some last minute Father’s Day ideas that will make it look like you have been planning a special day for months.

1. Breakfast in Bed. The classic. Why not make his favorite dish and have the kids help you present it to him in bed? Or relaxing out on the patio? Breakfast Burritos are a huge hit in our house and easy to make. Scramble eggs, saute some onions and red peppers. Warm some tortillas and your favorite salsa. Add a side of grated cheddar and sour cream. Viola!

2. Bake his favorite cookies. My hubby loves Peanut Butter Kiss Cookies so the kids and I make them for him on special occasions – his birthday, Christmas, and now Father’s Day. (Make sure the kids don’t eat too many kisses so you run out of them by the time the last batch is ready.)

3. An afternoon of golf. If your whole family plays golf, set up a tee time and spend the day outside. If not, call one of his best buddies and set up a play date for Dad.

4. Act like a tourist. Some of our best Father’s Days have been where we just headed into downtown Chicago and hit some of the big tourist attractions. It’s something we rarely do as a family and it makes us feel like we “traveled” somewhere for the day.

5. Pampering. Every Dad likes quiet and relaxation, right? Well, why not give him a massage. He’ll get an hour of peace and quiet and come home relaxed and jelly like. (Ready to start work again on Monday. Right!)

6. Cook together. Do you both like to cook? Why not take the day to make one of those all day recipes that you have been dying to try. Make homemade pasta. Make paella. Slow cook ribs or a BBQ brisket. You’ll have a relaxing day spending time together in the kitchen and then eating a fabulous, rarely cooked meal.

Read our post on Father’s Day Activities from last year.

Give that important man in your life some Chocolate Cake Moments. He deserves them. Happy Fathers Day, everyone!

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Tags: Family Celebrations · Help Mom Stay Organized · Holiday Fun

Day #2 30 Day Summer Fun Challenge: Summer Hit List

Chocolate Cake Club Family Fun Calendar

Chocolate Cake Club Family Fun Calendar

Welcome to Day #2 of our 30 Day Summer Fun Challenge, where we’re giving you 30 days of simple, creative & most importantly memorable ideas to make this the most fun summer ever for your family.

Have you ever wondered where the summer has gone? Been disappointed that you didn’t get to the Zoo, or get tickets to a popular kids concert, or get the bikes out enough to justify the space they take up in the garage? Well, last summer we started a Family Summer Hit List and it made planning and scheduling our family fun a whole lot easier. We were tired of “missing” some of the fun things we wanted to do every summer because we didn’t act fast enough, so we decided to take charge and make it a family project.

Pick a night and when you sit down for dinner, go around the table and ask everyone in the family what they would like to do for fun that summer. Have someone write down all of the ideas. Then vote on the Top 10 ideas that your family is going to do together. (If this gets too heated or causes hurt feelings amongst younger siblings, put all of the ideas into a hat and pull the first 10. While someone might still be miffed that their idea didn’t make it, at least it’s fair!)

Now, grab the family calendar and plan which days you’ll schedule each activity. If any work needs to be done ahead of time like buying tickets, making reservations, or inviting friends over, assign the responsibilities to family members so everyone is working together to have fun. You’ll get more buy-in from the kids, Mom won’t be the only one planning everything, and you won’t miss any important activities.

Your kids and grandkids grow up so fast. Don’t miss these precious summer days and nights to have fun together. (That was my mushy Moment.)

Here’s our family’s Summer Hit List around the Chicagoland area:

  • Train ride downtown, eat at French Market
  • Six Flags Day with fellow Juvenile Diabetes Research Foundation Families
  • Concert at Ravinia, our outdoor concert venue
  • Long bike ride along Lake Michigan – RJ Grunts for dinner
  • Cubs Game
  • Splash time at North Ave. Beach
  • BBQ party with friends
  • Hang out with neighbors at local pool
  • Backyard camp-out
  • Drive-in tailgate party with friends
  • Trips to Austin, TX and Iowa to visit the Grandparents and cousins

TREAT: To make your planning a little easier, for every order placed today at the Chocolate Cake Club between 8 a.m. CST and midnight, we’ll throw in a FREE Mom’s Plan-it or momAgenda Family Planning Calendar. While supplies last, so get your order in now!

What’s on your Hit List for the Summer?

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How to Keep Your Kids Occupied This Summer While You Work From Home

Well, the kids are out of school for one full day and they are already bored. It’s hard to get work done during the summer when the kids feel the need to be entertained. However, it is possible with some scheduling and communication. I wrote a post last year on How to Keep Your Kids Active During the Summer While You Work from Home and since I just pulled it out and brushed it off as a reference for myself, I thought I would share with you as well.

In addition, I was a guest on Mom Talk Radio today with Maria Bailey talking about how to keep your kids occupied while you work from home this summer. The program will air live on Sunday at 8 p.m. EST. Click here to listen in. I’ll set up a link to the recording next week once it is posted.

I hope these ideas help you keep your projects moving forward, your sanity in check, and the kids happily entertained. Good Luck!

Have any other tips on how to manage work and kids during the summer? Please share and win a momAgenda All-in-One Organizer!
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The best comment (voted by little old me) will win an All-in-One Folio from momAgenda to make your life a little easier this summer. I have some extras and I would rather you have them than me. I’ll pick a winner on Monday, June 14th. Sorry, US Residents only.

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Celebrate the Last Day of School

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Our kids have their last day of school tomorrow. They are done on a Tuesday at 11:00 a.m. Huh? (The fact that they have to go to school for 2 hours one day is completely redonkulous, but that’s a rant on how the school system dislikes working parents and the environment, which is best saved for another day.)

Let’s talk about celebrating the last day of school with your kids. They are elated right? So why not join in on the enthusiam, parents, and do something fun to mark the beginning of summer break? Take the afternoon off of work or dedicate a day for pure fun. Here’s some ideas:

1. Hit the pool! Let the splashing begin. Head on over to your local pool and start working on that gorgeous tan while splashing around with the kids.

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2. Neighborhood Fire Pit, Anyone? At least in our neighborhood, if you put a fire pit out, they will come. Invite the neighborhood families over to celebrate together. Share your summer vacation plans, discuss the highlights of the past school year, talk about starting a gournet club or how mosquitos are the plague of man’s existence. You know, whatever makes you happy.

3. Run Around. It’s summer, so go outside. Be active and enjoy the outdoors. Go to the local forest preserve and play games, hit your favorite theme park, go for a long bike ride in another part of town, or go horseback riding if it’s available near you.

4. Go see a movie during the day. If your outdoor activities get rained out or you just want to relax, take advantage of that early bird, weekday discounts to see the latest family flick. It will be a rare pleasure for the kids to see a movie during the day, just because you can.

5. Cook your kid’s favorite meal. Ask your kids what they want as a celebratory meal and have fun making it together.

What are you going to do to celebrate the last day of school?

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Tags: Back to School Tips · Family Fun Ideas · Holiday Traditions

Saturday Smile: Just Hanging Out

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Live Video Twitter Party with Tyler Florence

I’m excited to be participating in the first-ever video live Twitter event on Monday, June 7th with Food Network Star Tyler Florence. TwitterMoms and Wishbone are hosting this fun event, which should be a blast. Yeah!

He’ll be demonstrating Summer Salads (Yum!) so you can grab some recipes and techniques. You can watch live streaming video of Tyler and the TwitterMoms kitchens and tweet with us here: http://wishbone.twittermoms.com. There will be TwitterMoms kitchens set up in various cities all joining in the fun by video and I will be attending the Chicago kitchen, graciously hosted by Beth Aldrich from RealMomsLovetoEat. Tweet with us and you could win prizes.

Details: Monday, June 7th 1:00 p.m. – 2:30 p.m. CST (11 am – 12:30pm PST)

Click here to RSVP and participate!

Hey, did you know that Tyler Florence recently released a line of baby food called Sprout and now he plans to serve Sprout in his three NorCal restaurants? How cool is that? Way to cater to families, Tyler!

I’m looking forward to seeing how this whole live event works on Twitter. I’d love to do a similar virtual event in the future with some Family Fun topics.

You can follow me @SueKirchner on Monday. Hope to tweet with you then!

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10 Perfect Teacher’s Gift Ideas


For most families we know, school ends either this week or next so the question on every Mom’s mind is “What do we get for the kids’ teachers?” Every year I try to be creative and come up with something unique but most years I end up giving them what they say they really need. I am fortunate enough to have 6 teachers living in my neighborhood so I asked them what they like to get at the end of the year from their students. Here were the top answers, hands down.




1. Book Gift Cards – many teachers have to buy their own books for the classroom so gift cards help to cover that expense for them.

2. Coffee Gift Cards – We’re in a room with 28 loud children every day, need we say more?

3. Target Gift Cards – Hey, many teachers are Moms, too. (This applies for movie ticket certificates, restaurant certificates, and anything that you would appreciate as a gift.)

4. Anything Homemade by the student, especially if they had a nice bond throughout the school year. Notes, photos collages, or a written story were appreciated.

Want some more ideas? Here are some additional gift ideas I’ve come up with and found on various Mom sites.

5. The Mother Huddle blog had some ideas that were nice and most importantly easy to do. I really liked the Joyful Hands soap idea.

6. The Skip to My Lou blog had some great simple ideas for Teacher Appreciation Week that would also work as nice year end gifts. I like the Gift Certificate for a Massage idea.

7. If you have an artist at home, frame one of their masterpieces. My daughter’s teacher is retiring at the end of year so she is going to draw a picture of the teacher’s classroom so she’ll remember it.

8. How about a plant? They last longer than flowers and can be used to lighten up the classroom next year.

9. A box of pretty Thank You Notes. The teachers may want to send a thank you to all of the students for their year end gifts so why not make it easier for them to do so.

10. A movie night package. Grab a recently released DVD, popcorn and some candy so your teacher can have a fun night at home with their family.

Care to add to the list? We’d love to hear more ideas.

For More Teacher’s Gift Ideas:

Unique End-of-Year Teachers Gift Ideas

Easy and Inexpensive DIY Teacher’s Gift Ideas

Thoughtful Gifts Teachers, Neighbors, and Helpers Will Love

Homemade End-of-Year Teachers Gift Ideas

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Tags: Back to School Tips · Help Mom Stay Organized · Parenting Tips

Creative Ways to Display Your Kids Artwork

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The Family Gallery: Viewing by Invitation Only

As we explained in our last post on Organizing Your Kids Artwork, there are a few things you can do to get the artwork off of the kitchen counter and out of the closet. Here’s an idea. Why not put it up on the wall instead? Get some sticky tape and display your little masterpieces on the walls. (I would have said stick them up on the fridge but as I learned when we bought our sleek, cool new stainless steel refrigerator – MAGNETS DON”T WORK ON STAINLESS STEEL.)

To get the art off of the counter, we have designated two walls in our house for artwork. My daughter who is the prolific one even created her own sign saying “Christy’s Gallery.”

Tip:You may need to set some rules on which walls can be used to display art. My daughter discovered the magic of tape at an early age and every time I turned around there seemed to be a new picture hanging somewhere in the house. We had to draw the line when she started to hang her art on top of our nicely framed travel photos.

Lil' Davinci Art Frames
You can even buy frames that allow you to change out the artwork if you want to make it look more “professional”. However, our artwork seems to come home in various shapes, sizes and dimensions to sticking with tape works best for us.

I read a good article in Cookie Magazine where some readers had sent in ideas on how they display their kids’ artwork. Some have hung wire or clothes lines on the wall or along the staircase and they use clothespins to creatively hang the artwork. This makes it easy for your kids to hang it themselves. They just clip and go. It’s a great way to decorate and add color to the basement playroom or above your child’s bed. Some other ideas included putting the art in a shadow box.

I’ve bought some colored mats at Michaels to use as a frame or border behind the artwork to make the kids’ artwork look a little more special.

gilt wall sticker frames
Don’t want to hang a frame, use a sticker instead. Try these Gilt Wall Sticker Frames around your kids artwork. Or, use colored masking tape to create a frame around the artwork on all sides.

Finally, take pictures of your favorite kids artwork and load the pics into a digital frame so you can easily “display” a year’s worth of photos in one small frame.

We’ll have some other unique ideas in our next post. How do you display your kids artwork?

Note: We don’t receive any commission from mentioning products other than the ones we sell at ChocolateCakeClub.com. We just pass the ideas along to you.

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Organizing Your Kids Artwork

The Leaning Tower of Kids Artwork

Oh no! It’s almost the last day of school and the artwork is starting to come home as kids clean out their desks and teachers sanitize their room of all signs of life. Seriously, it is amazing how fast the artwork piles up. The artwork usually sits on the kitchen counter for awhile then goes over the stairs to be taken up and then finally a few weeks later, it might make it into the kids’ rooms. We found that we had a Leaning Tower of Artwork in each of our kids’ closets just waiting to fall on some unsuspecting viewer. Afraid that I might get buried and never heard from again, I looked around for ways to control the artwork piles.

Some of the artwork that your kids produce either at daycare, pre-school, school or sitting at the kitchen table isn’t that appealing and can be easily thrown in the recycle bin when the kids go to bed. However, a lot of it is just too cute and you want to either show it off or save it. We have some ideas for both showing it off and saving it for posterity or at least until your kids get their own house and you can dump the boxes on their doorstep.

Before we tell you how to store or show it off, how do you decide what stays and what goes?

How do you choose what is Gallery Worthy?

We look at the artwork that comes in daily and first I make an executive decision on whether it’s worth displaying. Do I want to look at this more than once? Do I want others to see it? Do these colors hurt my eyes? Is it too heavy or gooey to display at home?

If it is worthy of displaying for all to see, I put it into a temporary Kids Artwork folder. Just a plain manilla folder that I leave in the laundry room by the mail sorting pile. At the end of the week I then ask my kids which artwork should be saved or displayed. This way they get involved and can tell me which of their pictures they like best and why. We then hang up these new pictures for the week. (Some artwork I just love and it gets to stay up for more than a week but hey, that’s my prerogative.) We take down the previous week’s artwork and I either toss it or if I absolutely love it, I save it in our Kids Artwork Storage Folders. Each kid has one of their own that they keep in their closet. We purge them again at the end of the year but that’s another post.

Kids Art Storage Case
Tip: Make sure you write your child’s name and the date on the back of the pieces you are storing. When we first started to organize our Leaning Tower of Artwork we did have some problems trying to remember who created what and how old were they when they made it. This may be important to us later when my daughter becomes famous and we can sell her sketches at Sothebys.

Tomorrow, we’ll give you some creative ideas on how to display your kids artwork.

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Summer Day Camp Checklist

I can’t believe school is over for us in 2 weeks and 1 1/2 days. (Yes, they have to go to school for 1 and a half days the week of June 7th. They are going to get all of the buses out, make the teachers come in, turn on the electricity all so the kids can sit there for 2.5 hours. What a colosal waste of energy and resources. But that’s a rant for another post.)

With school almost out, we are in full Summer Camp preparation mode. We’re signing up for day camps, checking to see what our neighborhood friends are doing during summer vacation, and lining up babysitters to cover for when I need to go to work meetings.

We’re also evaluating our Summer Camp Gear from last year to make sure we have everything ready to go on Day 1 of Summer Camp. Here’s the checklist I created for myself. I hope it helps you get organized as well.

    - Send in all medical forms for camp
    - Check to see if bathing suit still fits
    - Check to see if pool towel has holes in it, if yes, get a new one
    - Purchase sun screen and bug spray (don’t use old one under the sink – it’s probably not effective anymore)
    - Make sure school backpack is holding up and can carry camp gear easily. If too small, buy a duffle bag.
    - Get new lunch box if old one is looking a little shabby or you want to upgrade to a new waste free lunch box system
    - Definitely get 2 stainless water bottles ready and waiting (2 because you are going to lose 1 within the first week or two of camp or you won’t get around to washing it one night)
    - Write your child’s name on everything!
    - Stock up on trading cards or little games that the kids can take to camp to play with their new friends (My kids loved trading Pokemon cards at camp. We’ll see what’s hot this year.)

What does your child need for Summer Camp? To quote the Boy Scouts, “Are you prepared?”

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Create a Graphic of Your Personality

OK, I will admit that this post has nothing to do with Family Fun. Well, maybe it could, so read down below for the Family Fun idea. But IT IS SO COOL, I had to share any way.

If you have a blog or twitter account or any site that has an RSS or Atom feed, go to Woordle right now. Click on Create and then type in your blog address or twitter address and it will automatically make a Word Art Graphic out of the most common phrases it finds in your feed. It’s like a brand cloud. Here’s the graphic generated for Chocolate Cake Moments:

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I love it! For me it was a check to see if the words I want associated with my brand and blog stood out clearly and they did. Yeah! I’m doing one thing right at least.

If you don’t have a blog or twitter account but want to make some art, you can also just type in a bunch of words and it will create the art graphic for you.

So, here’s the family fun idea. Have everyone in the family write as many words as they can think of that best describe each family member. If some words or traits are stronger than others, type them in several times. Then create a word graphic of each person in the family. The site is so cool because you can change the color scheme, font and even delete words that really don’t fit the “cloud”. How fun!

If you play around with this, please send me your word art about your blog, twitter account or family member and I’ll post it here.

Have fun with your family this weekend! Sue

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Mom, what’s for breakfast?

I don’t know about your family but we tend to get into a breakfast food rut quite often. The morning rush is chaotic and stressful and no matter what time I set my alarm for, it wasn’t early enough.

Now that my daughter has diabetes, we are trying to get more choices into our breakfast routine. Not just to overcome the creativity rut (frozen waffles, again???) but to balance out our most important meal of the day.

I’m not a huge fan of the ModernMom.com site since it was purchased last year, but I did really like their post yesterday on 10 Super Easy Breakfast Ideas for the Morning Rush.

Check it out and tell me what you make for breakfast tomorrow.

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Tags: Cooking with the Kids · Family Dinner Time Fun · Parenting Tips

Morning Smile: Coolest Pancakes Ever!

I was lost in the social media click-through haze this morning when I came across a site that made me smile in childish glee. (I can still do that even as a jaded adult.) Jim’s Pancakes is the coolest site about a dad just trying to make some pancakes for his little girl. But, oh, the pancakes he makes. What a cool Dad!

Jim's Pancakes Cheeseburger Pancake Stack

I love the creativity behind the pancakes and admire his dedication to this fun cooking endeavor, but what I love the most is the memory and special moments he is creating with his daughter. What a cool Dad/ Daughter thing to do. Wouldn’t that be a cool tradition to start with your family. Even if you only did it one day a year.

Keep on flipping them ‘jacks, Jim. (Any time you need a tester, count me in.)

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5 Ideas for a Date Night with your Child

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Looking for something fun to do this weekend with your kids? Consider splitting up and spending some precious one-on-one time with your kids by going on a date. My kids just GLOW when they get Mommy or Daddy all to themselves. It doesn’t even matter what you do, it’s the time together that creates the gooey “Chocolate Cake Moment.”

Bonus for parents: If your kids are going through a patch where they are just fighting all the time and it’s driving you nuts, cut the fighting off at the pass by separating them. Trust me, the peace and quiet is soooo worth it.

Make sure you choose an activity that your child wants to do. If it’s not, then it’s just like running another errand to your child and the magic of the evening is lost. When you are together, make sure you spend some time communicating. This is the perfect time to ask your child about their day, their school work, what classes they love taking, and who’s their best friend. Get to know them and learn a little more about their personality and what they love. Discuss ideas for your next date night or what the family is going to get Mommy for Mother’s Day. (OK, that was just wishful thinking.)

Date night doesn’t have to be at “night” either. If you can’t schedule something in the evening, go out for breakfast together or do something in the afternoon.

Here are some ideas for Parent/Child Dates:

1. Dinner and a movie. Let your kids choose their favorite place to dine and then go see a flick together. Bonus tip: Dads, bring your daughter a flower for your date. Transform into a superhero because there is Power in a Flower.

2. Cooking class. If one of your kids likes to cook, check out some of your local cooking class locations to see if they have parent/child classes. You get to talk, eat and laugh together. Mangia!

3. Museum Trip. If one of your kids is really into history while the other is into astronomy, splitting up and hitting different museums in town can be a great way to indulge your child’s hobbies without the other child whining “Can we go, yet?”

4. Book Store Excursion. My kids love to read so they are thrilled when we go to the library or especially the book store, because they can sit and eat. Head on over to your local book store and spend time finding a book your child would love to read. It’s a perfect way to find out what interests them. Then go sit in the coffee bar section and share a hot chocolate or dessert while reading your own books together or reading your child’s book out loud. Bonus tip: Go to brunch before the bookstore trip. Make it a lazy Saturday or Sunday morning outing.

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5. You’ve Got to Move it, Move it. Head on over to the gym and teach your child to play basketball. Go for a run together or train for a local 1 Mile or 5K race in your area. Ride your bikes and stop to have a picnic. Walk to a local park and play catch. Figure out what motivates your child to get up and move it, move it and get active with them.

I hope these ideas have inspired you to get a Date Night on the calendar with your child. What do you like to do on Kids Date Night?

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Chicago Moms! Watch Sex in the City 2 for Charity

Alison at SassyMomintheCity.com told me about a great Moms Night Out Event coming up on June 3rd in Chicago. Cosmos, hors d’eovres, swag bags, and a private showing of the new Sex in the City 2 Movie! And, it benefits the Neighborhood Parents Network. What more could you ask for? There are only a few seats left but grab your Momfriends and plan for a fun night out in the City.

Here are the details:
Join the Sassy Moms Give Back NPN Fundraising Reception hosted at Old Town Social on June 3rd.

Mingle with fellow Sassy Moms and raise awareness for Neighborhood Parents Network while enjoying Absolut Cosmos and gourmet hors d’ oeuvres provided by Old Town Social prior to a private showing of the new Sex and the City 2 movie!

Who will be there? Sassy Moms in Chicago – NPN Members and Non-Members (expectant moms, moms of babies, toddlers and school aged children are welcome!)

Where? Old Town Social and AMC River East 21

When? June 3rd. Reception at Old Town Social – (5:00 – 7:00 PM)
Sex and the City 2 at AMC River East 21 (7:30 pm*) *Movie time is subject to change.

What will it cost? Reception & Movie: $60 per person (roundtrip private transportation will be provided from Old Town Social to AMC River East on 322 East Illinois Street, Chicago IL 60611.)

What will I get? A night out with the girls, cosmos, passed hors d’ oeuvres, swag bag, (1) ticket and entrance to a private theater just for Sassy Moms, private roundtrip transportation to theater and access to fabulous prizes!

Why should I go? Neighborhood Parents Network needs our help raising awareness and funds for their new website launching this fall. The website will be totally revamped, user-friendly and have fabulous new features members have been requesting for years!

Space is limited, reserve your spot today! Click here to register If the event is sold out when you register, please contact Alison Ray at sassymominthecity@gmail.com to be added to the waitlist.

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Is a Mother’s Day Card Really a Performance Review?

I had a great Mother’s Day! I wasn’t expecting much. Not to put down my family, but we have had a lot going on lately – my daughter’s recent Type I diabetes diagnosis, her First Communion Party which swelled from 10 to 60 people, and the home renovation project that maybe, just maybe has ended. We’re busy and overwhelmed as a family so I could understand Mother’s Day taking a back seat.

However, maybe that’s why the family came through for me with thoughtfulness. My husband and kids each gave me cards that they made and I could tell by the way I was crying that they actually spent some time thinking about me and how they love me and how I make them happy. It was awesome. But when I reread them, I started to think about how a Mother’s Day card is a mini performance review.

You know, once a year at work your boss would pull you in and tell you how well you are doing (I hope) and how you made a difference over the past year. (Now, I know some companies aren’t so good about the performance reviews and some reviews seem rigged or written by someone who has never even met you. But in THEORY, they are meant to be feedback for performance and motivation to keep working hard.)

I’ve always said that the most frustrating part of being a Mom is you don’t really get feedback. There’s no incentive trip you can qualify for when you have a banner year. There are no plaques to take home for 10 years of excellent service. Sure, your kids give you instant feedback on whether they are mad or happy with you, but there is no WISE one with more experience standing behind you saying “Yes, well done.” or “You handled that nicely.” or “Next time, don’t flick your dirty spoon to make your point.”

So, a Mother’s Day card plays that role. When my son writes how much he likes dancing with me, I know we need to dance more. When my daughter says she loves me because I’m creative, I know I need to take more time to draw with her. When my husband says he loves me because I’m so strong, I will work harder to support him and keep the family strong. Or maybe he meant my rock hard abs … no, that’s not it.

While one day a year of feedback and accolades isn’t enough to get me through a whole year, it sure helps to lift my spirits and guide me on my quest to be the “Most Interesting Mom in the World.” (OK, Dos X beer tagged the Most Interesting Man in the World, but if there is a wine or margarita company who would like me to be a spokesperson for them, I’m totally game. And, I’m interesting. You should see me teach aerobics. It’s … interesting.)

I’m going to keep my fingers crossed that I qualify for an incentive trip or plaque next year but in the meantime, I hope you had an uplifting Mother’s Day and a great Family Performance Review.

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Tags: Moms Living Out Loud · Parenting Tips

Why Being a Mom is Worth It

christy money shot

Do you ever look at your child and suddenly see them not as your child, but as someone who is going to rock the world? That the world is lucky he or she is here? This is the kind of photo that makes your eyes well up and truly appreciate why you went through all of the pain, nausea, sleepless nights, insecurity, and the extra 10 pounds that won’t go away. I am still astounded that I played a part in creating someone so special, who has the power to make people smile and take their breath away.

To quote one of my favorite artists Brian Andreas from the Storypeople:

She laid on my chest & her breathing filled me almost to beyond what I could hold.

I bought a print with this quote after my little girl was born and she still takes my breath away. I am glad to be a Mom today. (Now my son … he takes my breath away with laughter. I don’t know what is cooler.)

Happy Mother’s Day to all of the Mothers and Grandmothers out there. Go have a Chocolate Cake Moment with your children, who make you smile.

Do you have a photo of your child that just takes your breath away? I’d love to see it and share it with everyone. Shoot me an email at sue@chocolatecakeclub.com and I’ll post it.

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Tags: Cool Finds · Parenting Tips

Contest: Win a Friday Night Family Fun Package

This contest is now closed. Thank you for participating and sharing your ideas. Congratulations to Sarah P. who won our Friday Night Family Fun Package!

Our sister site, the Chocolate Cake Club is celebrating it’s 4th Anniversary! To thank you for all of your support, we are giving away some of our top-selling items to lucky winners every four days until the end of April. Our goal is to help you have more fun with your family.

Our first giveaway was for a Playful Chef Kids Cooking Set and Chocolate Mousse Kit. Our second giveaway was for a fabulous Mrs. Smith’s Diaper Bag and Sugarbooger Diaper Bag Organizer Pouches. Perfect for Mother’s Day or an upcoming Baby Shower. So what’s next? For our last contest, we’re featuring a Friday Night Family Fun Package.

One lucky winner will recieve everything needed for a month’s worth of Friday Night Fun with the Family. It’s an $80 prize for you.

ice cream sundae kit

1. You’ll love our Ice Cream Sundae Kit on Movie Night. Read our ideas on how to make your Movie Nights more fun. $25

Beat the Parents Game

2. Enjoy Beat the Parents on Game Night. Read how to Host the Perfect
Family Game Night
. $20

Family Dinner Box of Questions Game

3. Have fun talking and learning more about each other with the Box Girl’s Family Dinner Box of Questions. Read more on Bringing the Family Mealtime Back. $20

Alien Pizza Making Kit

4. Finally, have fun cooking in the kitchen with this Alien Pizza Making Kit where the sauce is purple and the crust turns green. Here are some more ideas on Pizza Night Fun and our Killer Homemade Pizza Recipe. $15

All of the family fun you are going to have? Priceless!

So, how do you enter? Just leave us a comment on this post telling us what you like to do most to have fun with your family. The more details and the more creative, the better.

Don’t forget to include your email address so we can contact you, if you win. We respect your privacy and your email address will never be sold, it’s for contest purposes only. One lucky winner will be chosen at random. Must be 18 or older to enter. Open to U.S. residents only. If winner fails to respond in three days a new winner will be chosen. This contest ends at Midnight CST on Friday, April 30, 2010.

Want even more chances to win? Help us promote the contest:
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• Newsletter – Sign up for the Chocolate Cake Club newsletter here. (+ 2 entries)

Good luck and tell all of your friends to enter!

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Tags: Contests · Cool Finds · Family Fun Ideas

How to Have Fun with a Sick Child in the Hospital – Books

In the last installment of How to Have Fun with a Sick Child in the Hospital series, I’m going to share some of my favorite books and audio books that will keep you giggling and having fun. There are some nice books out there about kids being sick, but I think that reading a funny book out loud together will help heal so much better.

Here are some of our funny favorites that are fun to read out loud or have everyone giggling. When you are tired of reading and want to just rest in the room together, throw in an audio book. Grab them at your local library or I have provided the link to Amazon for purchase. (Note: I don’t receive any commission from Amazon. I just wanted to make it easier for you to find the books.)

Have fun reading! Come back and tell us what your favorite books are or which books make you laugh most. We could all use a good laugh.

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Tags: Entertaining a Sick Child · Family Fun Ideas · Reading with the Kids

How to Have Fun with a Child in the Hospital – Magnetic and Sticker Play Scenes

So, you’ve watched movies, did some arts & crafts, played games, and you’re looking for the next idea to keep a child in the hospital amused and smiling. Well, remember those old Colorform toys from when you were a kid? You know the board with the felt or plastic shapes that allowed you to dress up a doll or create? Well, they are still going strong and the designs on some of these activity toys are amazing. We carry quite a few of them at the Chocolate Cake Club because they make such great travel toys and all of the pieces are easy to put back and store in the container. Best yet, they are all under $15.00!

Magnetic Dress-Up Figures

    For boys:

    Monster Magnetic Figures
    Monster Magnetic Figures

    Robot Magnetic Figures
    Robot Magnetic Figures

    For girls: There are a whole range of designs based on her interests.

    World Traveler Magnetic Scene
    World Traveler Dress Up Doll

    Ballerina Magnetic Dress Up Girl
    Ballerina Dress Up Doll

    Sporty Girl Magnetic Dress Up Doll
    Sporty Girl

    Princess Magnetic Dress Up Doll
    Princess Dress Up Doll

    At the Stable

Play Scene Sticker Sets

    Map of the World Sticker Set
    Map of the World Sticker Set

    Garden Fairies Sticker Scene
    Garden Fairies Sticker Play Scene

    Fun and Dance Sticker Set
    Fun and Dance Sticker Set

Did you play with Colorforms when you were a kid? Do you remember what they were?

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Tags: Entertaining a Sick Child · Family Fun Ideas · Parenting Tips

Games & Puzzles to Play with a Child in the Hospital

Continuing our ideas of how to have fun with a sick child or one in the hospital, we are going to focus on games and puzzles today. Since the hospital room is pretty small, I would suggest sticking to card games or travel size games. Conversation games are also perfect to spend some fun time together in the hospital. You get to talk and learn more about each other. It’s fun to play when Grandma and Grandpa or cousins come to visit as well. For puzzles, you don’t want anything too large because you don’t have a lot of surface space to assemble it. You also might only have one table surface that needs to be cleared for meal time so make sure it’s a puzzle that can be put together and taken apart again rather quickly. No 5-day, 3-D puzzles, please.

To give you some inspiration, here are some of our favorite small sized, games to help you pass the time in the hospital that we sell at www.ChocolateCakeClub.com.

    Birds Bugs and Beans Game
    Birds, Bugs and Beans – Very fun card game!

    Dog Dice Game
    Dog Dice – Bingo game using dog bones as markers. Fun and quick to play.

    Spanish Bingo – Play and learn.

    robot spinner game
    Build a Robot Spinner Game – Old Fashioned spinner game, with modern robot design

    flea circus card game
    Flea Circus Game – Very fun game where you get to steal cats and dogs from the other players

Conversation Games

Puzzles and Lacing Cards

    fairies lacing cards
    Fairies Lacing Cards

    Children of the World Lacing Cards

    Monsters Puzzle
    Monsters Puzzle – Challenging enough yet easy to put together and store in it’s compact container

    Horses in the Meadow Puzzle – Very cheery illustrations and easy to store in it’s container

You may also like our other ideas for fun with a sick child in the hospital.

1. DVDs/ Movies
2. Arts & Crafts
What games or puzzles do you recommend?

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Tags: Entertaining a Sick Child · Family Fun Ideas · Parenting Tips

How to Have Fun with a Child in the Hospital – Movies

Our hospital room had a DVD player and quite a list of movies and shows to watch for all ages. If you don’t have one, bring in a portable DVD player and let your child watch in bed to his or her heart’s content. I had fun laying on the bed with her watching the girly Princess Diaries and Ella Enchanted movies. You know movies we can’t watch as a family anymore because my son finds them icky. My husband watched Toy Story with my daughter since she didn’t remember it and it is one of his favorites. Don’t just turn on the movie for your child and go do something else. Sit and watch with them and their favorite stuffed animal. Find out why he or she loves certain parts of the movie.

Bring some old movies from home that you’ve been meaning to watch. Bring in an old classic movie that was your favorite as a child or is one of your favorite all time movies. We’ve slowly been rediscovering old movies together and here are some of our favorites. We watched the Apple Dumpling Gang last month and now a new generation loves Tim Conway and Don Knotts. My husband loves Singing in the Rain and when we watched it all together the kids thought it was hilarious. You can get these older films at Netflix or check your local library. Watching together in the hospital is a great time to share the movie and tell you kids why you love it.

Tomorrow, we’ll talk about Arts & Crafts with your kids, so check back.

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Tags: Entertaining a Sick Child · Family Fun Ideas · Family Movie Night · Parenting Tips

Crafts Kits to Do with a Sick Child

CHRISTY HOSPITAL CRAFTS
Continuing our ideas of how to have fun in the hospital with a sick child, arts & crafts are a fun way to spend time together. You then have the craft to remind you of your stay in the hospital.

This is the perfect time to draw, create, make a comic book, or in our case learn how to sew. At my store, www.ChocolateCakeClub.com, we have a My First Sewing Kit that my daughter had seen and had been asking me about for weeks. When I asked her what she wanted to do in the hospital the first day she said she wanted to learn to sew. I brought in the kit and together we made a felt elephant. This is her “hospital” friend. I like that I started to teach her a skill and that she and I made something together that will remind us of our hospital stay.

Christy sewing

There are so many arts & craft kits out there so you are sure to find some that relate to your child’s interests and skill level. Here are some of the ones that we carry that I think would work well for a hospital room because the kits have everything you need, they don’t take a lot of room, and there is relatively little mess:

My First Sewing Kit
Girls:
All That Glitters Wristlet
My First Sewing Kit
Felt Sweets Sewing Kit
Friend 2 Friend Bracelet Kit
Decorate Your Own Princess Mirror
Heart Keepsake Box
Spiffy Spa Kit
Fairy Princess Magic Crayon T-shirt
My Scrapbook

wooden race car

Boys:
My Crafty Cars Kit
Paint Your Own Garden Gnome
Paint Your Own Pirate Chest
Decorate Your Own Wooden Racecar
Decorate Your Own Wooden Train
Design Your Own Chef’s Hat and Apron

March - April 2010 154 color blanks
We don’t carry this item but my 10 year old son just had a blast doing this art kit on Easter – RoseArt Color Blanks.

Our Kids Art-to Go Folios are also great for keeping kids amused by drawing or having paper handy to play hang man or other games. Or, the My Giant Busy Box has ideas and supplies on fun things to make that will keep your kids amused for days.
my giant busy box

Do you have any craft ideas to do with sick kids?

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Tags: Entertaining a Sick Child · Family Fun Ideas · Ideas for family projects · Parenting Tips

How to Have Fun with a Sick Child in the Hospital

First of all, if you are reading this post because you really need ideas, I’m sorry. I’m sorry that you have a child, grandchild, or friend that is in the hospital for whatever reason. I hope that you get out healthy and quickly. But while you are there, ease your child’s fears and have some fun together. Trust me, when you are in the hospital you’ll have a whole new appreciation for celebrating those “Chocolate Cake Moments” with your kids.

As you may have read in my last post, my daughter was diagnosed with Type I diabetes last week. She is only 7. We spent 4 days in the hospital that just flew by so quickly. We were in the Children’s Hospital at Lutheran General Hospital in Park Ridge, IL and I have to say that they did a wonderful job. It’s still a hospital so there were some frustrations with things, but all-in-all they made my daughter feel like a princess with her illness and for that I am incredibly grateful. She even told my husband, “If it weren’t for this IV in my arm, this hospital is not too bad.”

But in between all of the nutritionists, doctors, nurses, diabetic educators, and other various hospital staff that were trying to get my husband and I up to speed on “Everything You Never Wanted to Know About Diabetes and More” in 3 days, the hospital understood the needs of our child and their parents. When the diabetic educator came in to talk with my husband and I, a volunteer came to take my daughter to the toy room. When the nutritionist came to talk with us, a child services worker came to take my daughter to do arts & crafts in the lounge. Once the staff learned that my daugher was an artist, the arts & crafts kits came rolling into the room. She was in heaven – if heaven makes you wear an IV and get shots when you eat.

Point is, she was kept entertained while we were left to quickly learn (distraction free) how to become our daughter’s pancreas and keep her healthy for the rest of her life. It was never a lifelong goal of mine to become a major organ, but I think my husband and make a nice pancreas, if I do say so myself.

But in those rare down moments, my husband and I were able to have fun with our daughter. We had no distractions in the hospital – work left us alone, family kept calling to check in but they understood when we didn’t call right back, friends and neighbors kept our son entertained and let the dog out. For all of you who allowed us to totally enjoy spending time with our daughter when she needed us most – THANK YOU!!!

So, now on to the fun ideas. If the hospital you are in doesn’t provide all of the fun activities, then do it yourself or assign a family member to take on that role during your stay. Here’s what my daughter enjoyed that you can replicate for your little sick one:

1. DVDs/ Movies
2. Arts & Crafts
3. Games & Puzzles
4. Magnetic and Stick-on Toys
5. Books & Audio Books

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Tags: Entertaining a Sick Child · Family Fun Ideas · Parenting Tips

Life Can Be Cruel … So Have Fun!

I apologize that I haven’t been posting this week. I had all of these great Easter Egg Hunt ideas and family fun posts planned but LIFE CAN BE CRUEL. It can even totally SUCK as we found out last weekend.

Last Saturday my daughter was hospitalized and diagnosed with Type I diabetes. It’s a lousy disease that shouldn’t have a place in our home. But it does, and we will deal. My daughter is my hero with the way she has absorbed and handled this major change. I wish I were that mature at 42, let alone 7 years old. Of course, her Type A parents (that sounds like a disease too) have taken on this challenge with ferocity. We will become experts in Type I Juvenile Diabetes. We will lead a healthier lifestyle for her and our sakes. We will find any and all ways to make her life easier. And, we will need the support and love of our awesome friends and family, which has been amazing so far.

But enough of the diatribe. If nothing else, this whole ordeal reminded me that life is short, so have fun. Dance, laugh, act silly, but most importantly do it with the people you love most. I am even more committed to the importance of having fun with your family. I will start writing again next week on more ideas for Spring time fun as well as how to have fun with a child in the hospital.

In the meantime, I am going to go play with my daughter.

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Family Mealtime Fun: Pitchin’ In

Get the kids to pitch in for family mealtime.
Our kids set and clear the table as part of their allowance. But lately, I have been asking them to help me cook the food as well. It teaches them a life skill (I don’t want my son growing up thinking it’s OK to eat a microwave burrito over the sink, no matter what his Uncles tell him), we get a chance to talk more in the kitchen, and it makes my life easier. (Some nights that’s the most important part, because hey, if Mom ain’t happy, ain’t nobody happy.)

To make it even more fun or “add some frosting”:

restaurant family dinner

1. Dinner is Served. Lately we have been playing restaurant on weekends when we stay home and cook. My daughter is the waitress and my son pretends he is the chef. As you can see, he even went for the Chef’s outfit and pencil thin mustache. As they say on Chowder, the new authority on cooking according to my children, “Every chef needs a great mustache.” (Psst … We don’t normally have flowers on the table. This photo was from Valentine’s Day when we opted to stay in and cook and not go out. I didn’t want to create a great impression … that is false.) They love serving Mom and Dad at the table. I have to say I like it too.

2. Dancin’ in the Kitchen. To keep things lively, we like to crank the dance tunes and dance or sing while we get ready for dinner. Grooving some calories away before dinner. It’s good for the heart. What are we grooving to these days? The Glee Soundtrack. There’s nothing like watching your kids belt out “I Ain’t Saying She a Gold Digger … ” while the macaroni and cheese congeals.

3. Choose or Lose. Another way we get the kids involved in dinnertime is to let them choose the entire meal on certain nights. I ask them to choose an entree, side dish, veggie and fruit for the meal. That way I am teaching them to include all of the food groups when they plan a meal. We can also have the enlightening discussion on why Gummy Bears are not a side dish. (I have to say they made some valid points.)

Have fun making dinner tonight!

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Tags: Cooking with the Kids · Family Dinner Time Fun · Family Fun Ideas · Parenting Tips

Family Mealtime Fun: It’s not about the food

You aren’t what you eat.
In the article we shared yesterday on 5 Ways to Improve Family Mealtime, they say not to sweat or stress about the meal itself. I agree. The kids don’t care if you make sandwiches … again, or order in pizza. It’s the time spent together talking that makes the meal essential to family health.

I’ll take it a step further and say that on certain nights where I am really busy and don’t want to spend the evening cleaning dishes, we’ll eat on paper plates. The kids think it is fun and I don’t think I’m any less of a Mom if I would rather spend 20 precious minutes at night reading with kids than washing dishes.

We have some quick, “go-to” meals when we are pressed for time or I just didn’t plan anything for dinner, like panini sandwiches, French Toast, or soup. My new favorite is to mix the Frontera Grill Tortilla Soup Base (available at Whole Foods), mixed with shredded rotisserie chicken (which I buy, shred and freeze extra from other meals or you can buy a whole bag of it at Costco now), grated cheddar cheese, crumbled Ranchero cheese, cilantro, and tortilla strips (I like the thin Salad topping kind but you can use tortilla chips too).

Here’s another of our favorite quick recipes that the kids seem to like:

Spicy Bistro Steak Subs (a Cooking Light Magazine recipe)
1 Tbsp. stick margarine
2 garlic cloves, minced
1 lb. thinly sliced lean deli roast beef
2 Tbsp. ketchup
4 tsp. Worchestershire sauce
½ tsp. dried basil
½ tsp. dried oregano
¼ tsp. ground red pepper
1 (12 ounce) can dark beer or beef broth
6 (2 ½ oz.) hoagie rolls, cut in half lengthwise

Melt margarine in a large nonstick skillet over medium-high heat. Add minced garlic, and sauté 2 minutes. Add roast beef and next 6 ingredients (roast beef through beer), and bring to a boil. Reduce heat and simmer 2 minutes, stirring frequently. Use kitchen tongs to parcel out the roast beef evenly amongst the bread rolls. Serve sandwiches with sauce from pan on side for dipping.

What is your “go-to” quick meal?

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Tags: Family Dinner Time Fun · Parenting Tips

Bringing Family Mealtime Back

There have been a lot of articles floating around the last few weeks (heck, years if you google the subject) on how important it is for families to eat a meal together. Families who spend quality time around the table talking and interacting have more well-adjusted children. What do they mean by well-adjusted? According to an article in Time.com: Healthier, less likely to do drugs, have sex, and learn to use a fork. According to the experts in the article, “A meal is about civilizing children. It’s about teaching them to be a member of their culture.” I totally want civilized children!

Our family has been making a special effort to have 4 – 5 meals together every week to make sure we connect and more importantly, have fun. Trust me, I know it’s hard for busy families to find the time to schedule quality time together but you have 21 chances a week to sit together and interact as a family. Surely, you can find 4 or 5 times to do it together. Over the next few days, I’ll be sharing ideas on how to find the time, make mealtime a little easier for Mom, and most importantly, have fun. Just because you are all sitting around a table together, it doesn’t mean you are connecting. You have to engage and I’ll give you some ideas on how.

For starters, we came across this great article on 5 Ways to Improve Family Mealtime at the MyJobChart blog so we wanted to share.

We’ll be adding a few more ideas of our own over the next few days so check back. Just out of curiosity, how many times a week does everyone in your family sit down to eat together?

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Tags: Family Dinner Time Fun · Family Fun Ideas · Holiday Traditions · Parenting Tips

Spring Break Travel Tips: The Packing List

dragon kids overnight bag
Packing for a family vacation is a pain. There, I said it. Not only do you need to think about what outfits and gear you need, you also have to do it for your children. Despite my desire to be super organized, I usually end up forgetting some essential item for myself or the kids. “Mom, where’s my underwear?” My worst packing experience was the time we left to visit family in Iowa and realized that we left my daughter’s bag with her clothes sitting at the top of the stairs. I had to drive to Wal-Mart in the next town and buy her some of the ugliest clothes ever. Oh well. At least I could drive and get something.


However, packing lists have helped me get my act together. (Lists in general tend to be a Mom’s best friend. You know, the whole Baby Brain Drain does some real damage to your memory.) Even if some lists don’t include everything that we need for our family, it’s a good place to start and helps so that we don’t forget the essentials. “Honey, why did you bring the nose hair clippers and not any toothpaste?” Anyway, download our Chocolate Cake Moments Family Vacation Packing List here to help you stay in control and smiling. If I’ve missed anything important, let me know.

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Tags: Parenting Tips · Traveling with the Family

Featured Blog on TodaysMama.com today!

TodaysMama.com Featured Blog

We were so excited to see that we were the featured blog today at TodaysMama.com. I love their content and subscribe to their e-newsletter and so we were all thrilled when we saw our site featured today.

Thank you to all of the wonderful Mamas at TodaysMama.com! We appreciate the shout-out.

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Tags: Cool Finds

The Lightening Thief Movie – It’s a Bolt of Energy!

The family went to see the Lightening Thief movie and we thoroughly enjoyed the electrifying action. I eagerly read all of the books so I was excited about the movie. Why do I love the books? Mostly because they teach you Greek Mythology in a way that is fun and the way that the author ties ADHD into the story with a positive or special spin is very clever. The author, Rick Riordan, treats ADHD like the princess fantasy. You know, the one where you are really a princess from a far away kingdom but were hidden away within a normal, suburban family to protect your life. Someday, they will come for me, … I mean you, and you will rule the land with a kind and fair hand. You know that fantasy, right? Right? (I’m still waiting, by the way, but I have faith that they will come.) Well, if you have ADHD, which I do as you can tell by my rambling narrative, the inability to focus, hyperactivity, and self-centeredness are all because you are the child of a Greek God. It’s too much power for a mere mortal to handle. How cool is that! I’m a princess and a goddess. Anyway, it’s a cool way to make a child feel special instead of down.

The books are a lot of fun for me because I have always wanted to learn more about Greek Mythology and yet every time I picked up the Iliad or the Odyssey I just couldn’t get through it. The Percy Jackson series helped me learn about the famous figures in a clever and action-packed way. While I couldn’t get my son to share my enthusiasm and read the books, he WAS very excited about the movie. (I knew he would love the books, but the Greek names put him off. He couldn’t pronounce them so he got frustrated and stopped reading.) However, now that we have seen the movie, he is interested in reading them with me.

So what did I think of the movie? It was fun. I would recommend it if your kids like action, fantasy stories. The movie is action-packed, loud, fast-paced, energetic, and entertaining. We all liked that. Highlights for my kids were Grover and the Capture the Flag scene. “Mom, how come when we play Capture the Flag at summer camp they won’t let us use swords? It’s so lame the way we play.” Highlights for me were Uma Thurman as Medusa. She was perfect. She makes a curse look cool. The minute we got home from the movie, my daughter had to draw Medusa. What do you think?
Christy's Medusa drawing
My son on the other hand had to get out every sword and shield he could find in the house, because he was electrified into action.

Here are my cautions: I thought it was a little scarier than it really needed to be, but I understand that they are trying to appeal to a larger audience. My kids (ages 10 and 7) absolutely loved the movie but they had their eyes closed and ears covered through a lot of the movie. My daughter is 7 and she enjoyed it but I really wouldn’t recommend bringing any kids younger than that, especially if they get scared by monsters easily.

If you read the books, you’ll be disappointed that they left a lot of the story and the fun characters out. Although, when I read the books I never imagined Chiron to look like Pierce Brosnan. I think that was a bribe for Moms, so that they would agree to take their kids to the movie. Pierce Brosnon as half-horse and half-naked? Grab the popcorn, kids!

There was a “drug” scene in the movie with the Lotus Flowers, although it went completely over my kids’ heads so it wasn’t that big of a deal. Finally, for me, Poseidon was a real wimp in the movie, he is much cooler in the book.

Bottomline though, my family enjoyed the movie very much and the kids can’t wait for the next one. And, if the movie encouraged my kids to now read the books, it’s money well worth spent.

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Tags: Cool Finds · Family Movie Night

Getting Teens to Stop Texting and Start Talking

I attended the workshop “To Text or to Talk” last night hosted by Telion Solutions and let me tell you, it was fabulous. My kids don’t have cell phones yet but it’s coming, so I was thrilled to pick up some tips and guidelines on how to set boundaries around texting. Here I was all freaked out about the big S-E-X talk and the issue of T-E-X-T can be just as daunting.

They are offering another workshop next week, Thursday February 25th at 7 p.m. at the Health & Education Center in West Chicago, IL. If you can, definitely attend. Click here to register. The information you’ll learn and the peace of mind you’ll get over the whole issue of texting is priceless.

In the workshop, Katherine Walker shared some pretty scary statistics and dangers of texting. How it actually erodes a child’s ability to build self-confidence and build deep relationships with other people, including their family. The biggest takeaway for me is that if your kids are texting, they aren’t talking to you or anyone else. From my point of view, you can’t have Family Fun and create memories if you aren’t interacting with each other. However, these issues can be addressed by an informed parent and child. Here are some of the highlights of the workshop from my notes.

1. It’s easier to set the ground rules and expectations before they even start texting. It’s always harder to take something away then to establish the rules before hand. For example, no texting at the dinner table, no texting past 10 p.m., don’t go past a certain number of minutes each month, and if grades start to slip, the texting stops.

2. Texting is a privilege not a right. Parents, it’s OK to ask your kids to earn this privilege, especially if you are footing the bill. Maybe your kids already earn an allowance by performing certain tasks or behaviors. Treat texting the same way.

3. Texting is a great communication tool between parents and kids. Knowing where they are and having them respond instantly with that information is wonderful in today’s fear-driven society. Share your with your kids how this is an important lifeline between you both, so it can’t be abused.

4. For kids, texting is all about their sense of worth, their identity. They feel connected, they feel cool, and they feel important when texting their friends. Growing up is stressful as they find their identity. Let them have at it, within boundaries.

5. You need to explain textiquette to your kids before they start texting. Emotional conversations, nasty comments, and lengthy conversations should never be handled with text messages. Also, once you press send, it’s public domain.

6. Parents, put the phone down. Our kids emulate us. If we are constantly checking email on our phones and checking in with the office or our friends, then we are as much at fault. We are ignoring them.

There was a lot more information shared and great tips on how to have conversations with your kids about texting. They even provided a Safe Use Agreement that you and your child can sign to “cement” the rules around texting. Perfect! If your child wants to be treated like an adult, then treat texting like an adult contract.

If you live outside of the Chicagoland area, check the Telion Solutions website over the next couple of weeks since they will be planning a webinar on the subject.

Now, go have some fun! LOL

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Workshop: “To Text or To Talk … That is the Question!”

A friend of Chocolate Cake Moments, Katherine Walker, is holding a workshop on “To Text or To Talk … That is the Question!” If you feel like you aren’t communicating with your tween or teen anymore because they are just texting or talking online, then this workshop is for you.

Here’s the blurb on the workshop from Katherine:

Do you find yourself texting your kids more than talking with your kids? Do you miss the real relationship you had with them before texting was their world?

Have personal family situations become public knowledge on your child’s Facebook page causing you embarrassment, anger, or frustration?

Do your kids routinely text at the dinner table destroying any possibility of meaningful family conversation about the events of their day?

Do they stay up and text at all hours of the night which then impacts their ability to get up for and function at school?

Do your kids routinely say, “Hold on! I gotta finish this text!” rather than giving you the respect you deserve?

The texting firestorm that is sweeping the nation is negatively impacting parent/child relationships as communication is becoming less personal with every text that is sent. Dinner tables are quieter. Quality family time is almost non-existent. Relationships drift apart and loneliness sets in.

What would life be like in your home if your teen actually talked to you about their day and the important relationships in their life? What if they didn’t hide out in their room, spending all night on the computer? What if you tackled problems together … really listening to each other’s thoughts and ideas?

Katherine Walker, MHRM, MS, LCPC, NCC, Founder of Telion Solutions and Lifetime Behavioral Health routinely helps clients address and overcome these challenges. She sees the impact of having family dramas play out on Facebook, and works with kids who are afraid to talk to their parents so they text them to death. Katherine will share four key strategies that will help you:

- Set appropriate boundaries with your child/teen when it comes to using technology

- Educate your child about how their internet activity can negatively impact their future with regards to applying for college, getting scholarships, and winning job offers

- Improve overall face to face communication within your family

If technology has invaded your family relationships, or you want to open and improve communication with your child then this is a must attend event!

Choose from two dates and locations in the Chicago area:

When: February 18th from 7:00 to 8:30 pm
Where: Hyatt Regency Woodfield, 1800 E. Golf Road, Schaumburg

OR

When: February 25th from 7:00 to 8:30 pm
Where: The Health and Education Center, 550 E. Washington Street, West Chicago

Cost: $25 per person or $40 per couple

Register on line at www.TelionSolutions.com

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Yippee! Today is National Chocolate Cake Day!

Today is a very special day for us for two reasons. First, it’s my son’s birthday. He turned 10 and is in the double digits now. Scary. In 6 more years he is going to be driving and he still can’t tie his shoes properly! I guess we need to hunker down and look into finding a shoe-tying tutor.

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We have a tradition in our house where we set up our kids “guys” or “animals” at the table on the morning of their birthday. Their toys wish them a Happy Birthday and the kids love it. This morning, Star Wars Clones and Jedi wished him a Happy Birthday, while guarding his precious birthday chocolate donut.

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Today is also a great day because it is National Chocolate Cake Day which for us, is on the same level as Halloween or Valentine’s Day. You know, a day to be celebrated … heavily, and with lots of ooey gooey treats!

Here’s our new favorite recipe for Molten Chocolate Cake, that we found over at the Pioneer Woman site.

Have a favorite recipe for Chocolate Cake or a fun way to celebrate this all important day? Please share! May your day be filled with Chocolate Cake Moments.

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Tags: Cooking with the Kids · Cool Finds · Family Celebrations · Holiday Traditions

New Pizza Exhibit at the Kohl’s Children’s Museum

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We’ve been speaking about Family Pizza Night and Kids Pizza Parties in the past few blog posts, so I thought it was kizmet when I got an email from the Kohl’s Children’s Museum on their new exhibit – Pizza Any Way You Slice It!.

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It opens this Monday, January 18th so I haven’t seen it yet but it looks like a lot of fun. Who wouldn’t love an exhibit about pizza? The exhibit focuses on using pizza to teach math concepts like fractions and recipe measurements, so I think it will have appeal for older kids. This might be a perfect outing for either Monday or Tuesday next week when the kids are off for school for Martin Luther King Jr. Day.

Click here for a $2 discount off of the Admission Price for every member of the family.

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Here’s the Museum exhibit description:

    Learn the basics of math with an incredibly popular food…pizza! Pizza: Any Way You Slice It! encourages playful, open-ended exploration by focusing on three areas: making, delivering and eating pizza. Children are instantly drawn to this exhibit that informally teaches counting, sorting, measuring, gathering, matching, patterning, sequencing, role-playing and sharing.

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If you child loved making and playing with pizza, then check out the Wooden Pizza Party Toy, over at our sister site, the Chocolate Cake Club.

Come back next week and let me and others know what you think of the exhibit.
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Download our Free Guide – How To Organize the Paperwork Chaos

Moms, need a little help getting the paperwork chaos monster under control this year? Have a New Years resolution to actually see your kitchen counters? Are the schools sending home more and more papers just to freak yo out? (Maybe that’s just me.) Regardless, we can help.

Download our FREE Guide to Organizing the Paperwork Chaos. It’s another Chocolate Cake Moments guide I’ve written with tips and ideas on how to get control of the mail that multiplies, not let the school paperwork bully you into submission, and keep your counters paperwork free. (So that you can pile other stuff on them, but that’s a different story.) My husband and I would play this game to see how long it takes before an empty chair or clear counter top gets used as a storage surface. It was sad how quickly we lost the game. So, I wrote this guide to help us get a process or system in place to get some control back. We may not be winning every time, but we keep trying and it helps. We strongly feel that getting organized and not feeling stressed about the clutter in your house will free you up for more Chocolate Cake Moments and fun with your family.

Download the guide here – Organize the Paperwork Chaos

If you like our guide, feel free to share it with anyone. Good luck. What are some of your tips for keeping household paperwork at bay?

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Banish those Back-to-School Blues!

I don’t know about your kids but mine were positively gloom and doom this morning when they had to go back to school. (Why does school start so early … at 9 a.m.? Why do I have to go to school? Reading is for others! Why don’t you ever buy me any decent pants?) Insert your kids’ favorite whining here.

While I don’t condone whining (unless it’s me doing it, of course) I was thinking of doing something special for the kids this evening to “celebrate” going back to school after the Holiday Break. My plan? Chocolate Fondue! What better way to create a Chocolate Cake Moment than with hot, gooey chocolate?

You can certainly surprise the kids with this treat after school today or maybe on Friday after school to celebrate them getting back into the swing of homework. Or, I think I’ll make it for dessert tonight for Dad to participate in the celebration. He would be upset if there was chocolate around and he didn’t get any.

Kirchner’s Chocolate Fondue
1 lb. of your favorite milk chocolate bar (we like Ghirardellis)
4 oz. dark chocolate bar
3/4 cup heavy cream (you can use half and half for less calories)
1 Tbsp. vanilla

Break the chocolate bars into pieces and place in your fondue or hot pot. Keep on a low setting. Add cream and stir constantly until chocolate is melted and smooth. (If you are melting this on a stove top, watch the heat. Don’t walk away or the chocolate will boil and be ruined.) Stir in the vanilla right before serving. Then dip away!

Dipping Suggestions (In order of our kids preference):

  • Large marshmallows
  • Sliced bananas
  • Salted pretzel sticks
  • Cubed pound cake
  • Angel food cake
  • Stem strawberries
  • Hazelnut or almond biscotti (more for the adults)
  • Serves 6

    Don’t really like Chocolate Fondue? Here’s another Chocolatey Treat we told you about last winter – Hot Chocolate Mug Cakes.

    Have fun! What do you do to ease the pain of going back to school for your kids?

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    Tags: Back to School Tips · Cooking with the Kids · Family Celebrations · Family Fun Ideas

    Great Kids Bedtime Story

    Once I Ate a Pie
    We love bedtime stories in our house. Reading before bed is the most special time of the day for me and my kids. We are always on the hunt for great books to read, especially ones that make us laugh. After our weekly trip to the library, the Kirchner family highly recommends “Once I Ate a Pie” by Patricia MacLachlan and Emily MacLachlan Charest. If you are a dog lover, you’ll definitely be smiling after reading about the 14 dogs in the book, who all have hilarious personalities. The book is written in free verse poetry, which is nice so we can expose the kids to more poetry books. The illustrations by Katy Schneider are fabuloso!

    My daughter is a huge fan of Mr. Beefy, the Pug. Check out the book from your library tonight or pick it up at Amazon to read why. (We get no payment from Amazon or the author for recommending the book. We just love it.)
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    What are some of your favorite bedtime stories?

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    Workshop on Connecting Better with your Teens

    If you live in the Chicagoland area, there is a fantastic workshop to help you connect better with your teens called “10 Tips for Raising G-Rated Teens in an R-Rated World.” If you want to make a positive difference in the life of your teen, improve your current parent/child relationship, or would like to begin to establish healthy boundaries in your relationship then please consider this event.

    The Workshops are being offered on December 3rd in West Chicago and December 5th in Schaumburg. For more information or to register, go to http://www.telionsolutions.com/events.

    A friend of mine, Katherine Walker, MHRM, MS, LCPC, NCC, Founder of Telion Solutions and Lifetime Behavioral Health, will talk about highly effective parenting strategies and practices that will encourage a deeper connection between you and your teen, as well as how to handle the toxic influences that can be detrimental to your teen’s healthy development not to mention your parent/child relationship. My kids aren’t teens yet but I have a hard enough time trying to balance out the negative external influences in their life.

    Take the class and get some tips on how to get the smiles back between you and your kids. Accomplishing that sounds like a Chocolate Cake Moment to me.

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    To Grandmother’s House We Go …

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    Thanksgiving is just around the corner and you know what that means … ROADTRIP! Yes, it is that time of year when we all pile in the car with our duffle bags, non-perishable Thanksgiving dinner contributions, and the dog and head out to Grandma’s House for Thanksgiving dinner. We’re getting ready for our Roadtrip to Iowa so I thought I would pass along a few tips that we rely on to make the trip go a little easier.

    Car essentials:

    Snacks - Make sure they’re not too messy or crumbly. Little, individual size snack bags work perfect. Grapes are good, easy to eat and no peel to worry about. Put drinks in drip-proof sippy cups or sports bottles. Juice boxes are great but no matter how neat your kids are, the juice squirts everywhere. Tip: If you end up eating breakfast in the car as you head out, make sure you don’t order anything with biscuits. They crumble everywhere!

    Garbage Bag – Always have a bag in the car to throw out trash. Trust us, you don’t want to hold a snotty Kleenex or ketchup covered wrapper or banana peel for 4 hours. (Trust me on this. I’m speaking from experience.)

    Pillows, Snuggle Buddies, or Neck Wraps – If the stars are aligned and Holiday fortune is smiling on you, the kids will fall asleep for awhile. While most kids are resilient and flexible, they shouldn’t have to kiss their navel while they are napping. Give them some support.

    Antibacterial Wipes/Hand Sanitizer – You have kids. Need I say more?

    Boredom Bag – You’ll need plenty of entertainment to keep the kids (and adults) amused during the long car trip. In my next post, I’ll give you some ideas on how to fill that Boredom Bag for younger and older kids.

    What items do you take on your Holiday Road Trips?

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    Tags: Help Mom Stay Organized · Holiday Fun · Parenting Tips · Traveling with the Family

    How To Throw a Memorable Family Party

    Are you hosting Thanksgiving for your family this year? Planning a Holiday Party for the Neighbors? Looking to throw the ultimate Kids Halloween Party? Do you dream of hosting the party that sets the bar for all family parties to come? (Am I the only one who wants to go down in family lore as the best Thanksgiving hostess?) Well, if you are throwing some parties this year, and I hope you are, we have the ultimate resource for you. MemorableEntertaining.com is a wonderful membership site for those who are passionate about creating memorable occasions.
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    Debra Kavalos-Delaney is the publisher and boy, does she help make entertaining easy and memorable for busy people like me. I love to entertain but the Holiday season is such a chaotic time with my e-tail business, the kids schedules, and work/ family commitments. I still entertain but find that I don’t have enough time to really plan things out and try new recipes or decorating ideas. In a pinch, I just fall back on the same old same old, which leaves me feeling unsatisfied as a hostess with the mostest.

    After cruising around the Memorable Entertaining site, I found all of the inspiration that I need to add some more pizazz to my entertaining. And, it saved me time by having everything planned out for me. Signing up and joining her membership site is better than buying more magazines, or trying to dig through your piles of cookbooks for inspiration. Simply go to the site, pick your theme, and all the information you need is at your fingertips. Even better than the magazines, she has plenty of videos on how to create the ultimate tablescapes, recipes, theme party ideas, and more. The site is a lifesaver.

    Kids Halloween Party Decorations
    There is plenty of “How To” information and inspiring ideas on everything from how to stock your bar, to creating unique invitations, to finding the best mood music, recipes, and even party games. I was thrilled when Debra asked me to create a Kids Halloween Party for the site. I had so much fun with my kids coming up with ideas on memorable invitations, decorations, activities, recipes, and party goodie bags. Definitely check out how to make Scarrots!

    There are a lot of great free resources and ideas on the site but to fully experience the wealth of inspiration (including my Halloween Party write-up, which I modestly think is spooktacular), you’ll need to join. Debra is graciously giving Chocolate Cake Moments readers $10 off of their membership with coupon code 54612941. Sign up for yourself or give the gift of membership to someone you know who loves to entertain.

    This Thanksgiving or Holiday Season, knock the socks off of your friends and family with an outstanding party. The awe-inspired look on your mother or sister-in-law’s face is well worth the membership fee.

    Tell us, where do you get your ideas for entertaining?

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    Fairies: Some magical reading fun

    Reading before bed is still one of our favorite Chocolate Cake Moments as a family. No matter how bad our day was, we all look forward to cleaning up, relaxing on the bed, sharing an adventure, and giggling. We love to read about magic, goofy animals, fun adventures, and kids solving problems. The kids love books that make them laugh. I especially love books with beautiful, fun illustrations. I lust after the talent to draw, which passed me by. Darn you, genetics!

    Tiptoe Guide to Tracking Fairies Book
    This week we got two books from the library about fairies. The first, The Tiptoe Guide to Tracking Fairies by Ammi-Joan Paquette is a beautiful book about how to spot fairies in nature. If your child loves Fairy Houses or hunting for Gnomes, this book is for you. The book mixes photography and cute illustrations of fairies that can be found out in your yard. It give instructions on how and where to look for clues that fairies are around. It will spark the imagination of any child (or magic-loving adult) into building a fairy house, right now! Suited for kids under 10 years old. In a previous post, I talked about making it a Family Tradition to build a fairy house or troll garden. (We love all things magical and non-sensical.)

    Gone with the Wand children’s book
    The second book is a silly book about a fairy godmother who has lost her mojo. Gone with the Wand by Margie Palatini, is a clever book about reinventing yourself and finding new passion. (OK, maybe the kids won’t get that take-away, but adults will.) The kids will love the richly-colored, silly illustrations by Brian Ajhar, as the Toothfairy helps the Fairy Godmother to discover a new purpose in life. Kids will love her new passion and it is the perfect book to read before tucking into bed. I would say kids 4-10 would appreciate this book most.

    Have fun reading! Please share your favorite bedtime stories with us. We are always looking for new books to get at the library. (I think we’ve read almost everything there already. We need help. Really.)

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    Moms, Volunteer with Ease

    School has started for a lot of us, so let the volunteering begin! If you are a classroom leader or chair for a school activity or even a Boy or Girls Scouts leader, you may want a little help organizing and leading your fellow volunteers. We just learned about a free, easy-to-use online tool that takes the hassle out of coordinating volunteers. Better yet, it encourages volunteers to interact with each other. As the leader, you don’t need to do everything.

    What’s the secret? Check out free ebooks on Fun School Carnival Ideas, Bake Sale Tips, Kid-Friendly Fundraising and Gift Ideas for Teachers.

    Good luck!

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    Tags: Back to School Tips · Help Mom Stay Organized

    Back to School Sanity? I want it!

    I found some interesting articles on Back to School Balance and Sanity Savers, now that the kids are heading back to school and families are heading into more of a set schedule. While I love being back on a more defined schedule (so I don’t have to think, just do), there is a lot going on with after school activities and homework. I definitely have to be more organized and faithful to my daily planner to keep it all together for myself and my family’s sanity. See if these articles help you to get it all together now that school has started.

    From Maria Bailey at BlueSuitMom.com – Balance for Back-to-School

    From Molly Gold at BlueSuitMom.com – Planning for School Activities

    If you find any other articles out there that you love, please let me know. You can check out our post on Organizing Your Kids Activities as well. Good luck! May the Mom Organizing Force be with you!

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    Part Three: Transition to High School

    Going from middle school to high school is a huge emotional step for kids (and for parents–get those Kleenex out again!) Most teens are apprehensive about going but too cool to let you know. They may be worried about forming friendships, fitting in, getting good grades, getting lost, dealing with peer pressure and dating, just to name a few. Here are a few ideas to help them feel more comfortable about high school.


    Re-establish routines.
    Right now, before school begins, start turning your night owl child into one who goes to bed a little earlier and gets up before noon. This will help them avoid going into shock on the first day.

    Be involved.
    Even though they hope you don’t know, teens need their parents now more than ever. Find out how to best contact the school and the individual teachers to get your help if needed. Many schools now use technology like PowerSchool to provide parents with daily or weekly updates on their student’s progress with homework and tests. Get on these systems right away so that you can head off any problems before they become larger issues. Let your kids know you are talking with their teachers so it doesn’t feel like you are going behind their back and spying on them. Make sure they know it is because you want to stay involved.

    Stay close but not too close.
    Ask your child about their day, but don’t interrogate them. If they tell you a problem, don’t automatically try to solve it for them. Expect that especially during the first few weeks of school, they may come home and need time to just “chill out.” Try to chat with them in the car on the way to activities or at dinner.

    Teach Them to Handle Independence.
    Your kids may have a lot more independence in high school than in middle school. However, that doesn’t mean you stop parenting. Talk with your kids frequently about meeting deadlines, avoid procrastinating (do as Mom says, not as she does), and prioritizing their work and fun. These are life skills they will need for the rest of their lives. Encourage them to try new activities and join clubs but learn when enough is enough.

    We hope these series of tips help you and your kids get through the crazy transition of starting a new school and meeting new milestones. Have some additional tips and ideas for us? We’d love to hear them.

    Have a child that’s younger? Read Help Your Child Transition to a New School and Part Two: Transitioning into Middle School

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    Sun Times Article About Back-to-School Bargains

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    I was very excited to be featured along with 4 other entrepreneurial Moms in a recent Chicago Sun Times article about How To Shop for Back-to-School Bargains. It was a fun interview and I even learned about some cool new websites from the other Mompreneurs.

    For example, Jill Cataldo has a blog about couponing tips. She even offers workshops in the Chicagoland area on Super-Couponing. Serena Beltz blogs at ChicSimpleMoms where as she reviews and discovers items that help make life easier for Moms. We love that! Also featured was Aletha Noonan, founder of Peeka Productions, which creates personalized DVD videos and books for babies and children.

    Definitely read the article to get some great ideas on how to save money this Back-to-School season, but here are some highlights:

  • Always have your school supplies list with you. You never know when you’ll run into a bargain somewhere.
  • Wait to buy school clothes until after Labor Day. You’ll see more coupons and sales running then.
  • Search online for coupons to your favorite stores.
  • Check second-hand clothes shops or garage sales for kids clothes. Many times, these clothes were never worn and still have the tag on them.
  • Have a neighborhood kids clothes swap.
  • Check out the article and let us know what you think. If you have any additional tips on how to save money for Back-to-School, please share.

    Check out additional budget saving tips here!

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    Part Two: Transitioning into Middle School

    This the second posting in our series about helping kids with transitions to a new school. If your kids are a little older and starting middle school or high school, they may have some anxieties and fears. Try some of these tips to help get them going on the first day.

    Transition to Middle School:

    When your child has conquered elementary school and is going on to middle school, it is a significant adjustment. Kids may worry about fitting in, making friends and huge loads of homework. Reassure them that it will all become second nature quickly. Reassure them that you will be there to help.

    Conquering the Combination Lock. Many students are terrified that they won’t be able to get their locker open in the few minutes they have in the crowded hallway between classes. Practice with your own lock in advance, or see if you can visit the school to practice using their real locker. Write the combination down in a planner. For kids who have a phone, program the locker combination into their phone – chances are, that’s the last thing they’ll lose.

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    Making friends. Middle school can be a tricky time to make friends. It can especially be difficult for girls who frequently make and break friendships. Be sensitive to this. Ask your child if they know anyone from their last school going there. Remind them that they made friends in elementary school that they didn’t know before. As with adults, tell them that joining clubs and after school activities is the fastest way to make new friends.

    Eating lunch. Lunchtime can be a social landmine. Kids are known for grouping together into the stereotypical groups—the jocks, the popular kids, the nerds, the trouble makers. Help your child plan ahead. Encourage them to find a friend who will save them a seat to avoid the awkward search. Or encourage your child to sit at a different table everyday to try to meet the most people and find the friends that make them feel comfortable.

    Find a “mentor”.Check your neighborhood for a kid who may be a year or two ahead. Ask them if they would talk to your child about middle school – how it works, which clubs to join, what to avoid, etc. At the very least, this will be a friendly face on the first day of school.

    If your child isn’t in middle school? Check out Help Your Child Transition to a New School and Transition to High School

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    Help Your Child Transition to a New School

    If your child is headed to kindergarten, middle school or high school this year, they may be nervous about what to expect. Hey, so could Mom, right? These are big transitions and your child may be excited and eager to go to the new school (for a few lucky parents) or anxious and unsure (for most). Here are some tips that we have gathered to help smooth the transitions and start the year off right.

    Don’t Miss Orientations.
    No matter what grade your kids are entering this year, be sure to attend Back to School Nights and Meet the Teacher(s) events before school starts. It makes a huge difference to your child to see the teacher and other kids in their classroom to find a friendly face.

    Transition to Kindergarten.
    To help both you and your child feel secure and excited about going to kindergarten for the first time, you need to plan ahead. Some young children jump right in, acting as if they had been there all of their lives, but others are shy and scared. Try these ideas to make going to school as easy as possible.

    Talk to the teacher.

    Open lines of communication with your child’s teacher prior to the first day of class. Give the teacher a call or an email to introduce yourself. Describe your child’s interests and strengths, as well as areas of concern. Before school starts, attend the Back to School night and help your child locate the bathroom, their cubby and the playground. At our school, the kids like seeing their desk and putting their school supplies away ahead of time so when they show up on the first day of school, their desk is all ready to go.

    Read books about kindergarten.
    Reading together with your child is always one of the best ways to help them prepare for kindergarten. For kids who are anxious and don’t know what to expect in this big transition period, books like “Let Get Ready for Kindergarten” by Stacey Kannenberg covers the alphabet, letters, rhyming, numbers, and shapes to help ease them into the school year. We like funnier books to ease our fears, so we enjoyed Jake Starts School.

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    Be relaxed but excited.
    Kids can sense any anxiety you may be feeling, so be sure to talk positively about school. Don’t ask them if they are nervous if they haven’t even considered that they need to be nervous yet. (Boy do my kids run with the power of suggestion so head it off at the pass.) Talk positively with your child about the fun they can expect in kindergarten, like learning new songs and playing games and recess, but don’t focus on it too much or don’t try to oversell the “play” part. School can be fun but it is for learning.

    Practice makes perfect.

    Kids will feel more secure if they know what to expect so practice walking to school or the bus stop. Or drive to the school and say, “This is where Mom will park or where the bus will drop you off and that is the door you will go into. Then this is where you will be picked each day.” Bring your camera and some Kleenex for that first bus ride and ask another child to help them on the bus. Share tissues with the other moms because trust me, there will be tears. But be sure to send off your child with happy –not hysterical—tears. Or hysterical relief – that’s not a good signal to send either.

    Let them have a say.
    Be sure to get their school supplies early and let the kids pick out a special folder or a cool back pack. Let them draw a picture of the family or a beloved pet to hang in their cubby, if allowed. Pick out the special “first day” outfit the night before and let them choose a part of it, such as a favorite shirt or funky socks. To remember this fond moment, take a picture of them on their first day. What’s a better way to start making new friends than at the bus stop? Ask another child to help them on the bus or encourage your kids to introduce themselves.

    Want to read more on helping your kids get back to the routine? Click here!

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    How To Get Your Kids To Talk

    How can you talk to your kids about school without getting the famous one word reply– Fine? Or my favorite, “OK.” The definition of ‘Fine’ to us can mean an entirely different meaning to them. Getting your kids to actively talk about their day can be a challenge but here are some tips that have worked for us on how to get your kids to talk about their day.

    Greet, don’t grill. Kids can get defensive and feel intimidated when you ask them right away about school. Don’t grill them about their day as soon as they walk in the door. “What did you do today? What did you learn? What did you have for lunch?” Just take it easy and truly show them you are just happy to see them again.

    We found an article that Jim Fay wrote and he calls this the 30 minutes rule. Don’t talk about school or you work for 30 minutes after greeting each other. You don’t want to hear bad news about your kid’s day and they don’t want you to take out any work aggression on them. Don’t let school or work ruin your relationship with your child. Make sure you are both happy to greet each other.

    Listen Up! It’s great if your child begins the talking first. One day, don’t ask them about school at all and see what happens. Kids are usually less defensive and more willing to share their school experience when they start to talk first. So hold back the questions and just let them tell you. Or, see if they ask you about your day. (We can dream, can’t we?)

    Sharing. Once you start talking, be very open with them. Tell them about a mistake you made that day that you wish you could take back. Seeing your wiliness to share about your day can help them talk about their school day. Share with them what you like to do, how you spent your day while they were away, what happened at your work, if you met up with a friend, or if you saw something interesting. Let your kids get to know you as a person.

    It’s All in How You Ask. Asking them “How was school today” most often or not leads to the word ‘okay’, ‘fine’ in a tone that declares an end to the conversation. We use more open ended questions like: What sport did you play today in gym? What game did you play in recess? Who did you play with at recess? Why do you like that friend? Did you like the lunch I packed you? Who did you sit with at lunch today? What was the coolest thing that happened to you today? What do you wish that you could do over?

    Take advantage of the clues in their backpack to start the conversation. Ask them about the homework, graded papers, notes from teachers, and artworks kids bring home daily. Talk to them about the notes their teacher wrote on their papers, and praise them for the good grades they’ve earned (this can increase their self-esteem). Show interest in their artwork and ask them to explain their master piece to you- even if it is just green beans glued to white paper.

    A place where everyone gathers. Make dinner a safe and comforting place for your family to share their goods and bads, happiness and disappointments, past an up-coming events. There is no better time or place to talk about your day then when you are all gathered together eating dinner. If your family’s schedule is just too hectic so that you can’t eat dinner together, then make breakfast together a ritual. Get up a little earlier but get everyone around the table talking. If you these jam sessions when they are younger, when they reach to their teen years, it’ll be easier for them to share.

    The best time is … anytime. Try talking about your child’s day at different times. After you have relaxed and read a story together might be a good time to talk. Or at breakfast before the day starts might be the best time. Try talking about their day at different times to see when they are most relaxed and open to sharing.

    We hope these tips help you any your children to have more meaningful conversations about school. If you have any additional ideas, please let us know.

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    Pack In Some Fun

    Does the idea of packing healthy school lunches for your kids make you break into a nervous sweat? Do your kids come home telling you that they didn’t eat because they didn’t like anything in their lunch box. Don’t fear. Getting your child to eat his or her lunch just takes a little planning and creativity.

    One easy way to shake it up is to vary the food that you normally use. Instead of a regular peanut butter and jelly on white bread (ho hum), make Pinwheel PB&Js by rolling up the PB&J in a flour tortilla and slicing it into pinwheels (fun!). While some kids freak out when they see a new “food forma,” as kids get older they will be willing to try more things, so don’t be afraid to shake it up. (And, if they are really hungry, they’ll at least try it.) Plus, if your kids are like mine, they eat so much more new stuff when they aren’t at home. I still remember my son coming home one day to tell me how awesome salami was because he had it at a friend’s house. Obviously, my many attempts to get him to try it were lame.

    food design

    Sally Kuzemchak, a registered dietician with Parents.com, provides several ideas for healthy lunch combinations. One is for Pretzel Kabobs, with ham, turkey and cheese rolled up and skewered with a pretzel. You could serve these with ½ cup mandarin oranges, ½ cup shelled edamame or sugar snap peas and 1 container of sugar-free chocolate pudding.

    Get 20 great lunchbox ideas in her article Healthy School Lunches and Snacks at www.parents.com.

    The site also has tips for making yummy sandwiches like one with veggie cream cheese and cucumbers or hummus and chopped peppers.

    If your child has food allergies, don’t despair. Check out Cherrybrook Kitchen Mixes for tasty treats that are peanut-, dairy-, egg- and nut-free.

    Getting your child involved with the meal preparation is a great way to help ensure that they eat their meal, not trade it away. It also makes them feel more grown-up. Family Fun magazine www.familyfun.com has several great ideas for getting the kids involved.

    You could try filling one of each of three plastic baskets with fruits, vegetables and snacks. Then allow your child to pick one item from each basket for their lunch. Add a sandwich and a drink, and you’re done.

    For siblings who like different foods, make a chart of favorite foods with the child’s name at the top and foods they like and will eat for lunch underneath. Then you can simply pick items from the list.

    Another tip is to incorporate a theme every few weeks, such as serving all red foods. Pair a strawberry jelly sandwich with cherry tomatoes and low-fat ranch dressing with cherry Jell-O for dessert. A mom from Elgin(IL), created menus for pioneer adventures, cowboy cookouts and circus parties. Meals could be all round foods (a bagel with cream cheese sandwich, an orange, and carrot rounds) or a backwards lunch (a sandwich with meat and cheese on the outside and a note written in reverse telling the child to eat dessert first).

    To make those healthy greens more interesting for your boys, label your food with a gross name. They’ll look forward to your creativity.

    Yes, these ideas take a little time and prep to make. But remember; planning it on Sunday night for the weekdays will save you precious time on weeknights from trying to think of new lunch ideas.

    Have fun and here’s to healthy lunches for your kids this year.

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    Ways to Save Time and Money during the Back to School Rush

    When back to school season comes around, so does all the stress. There are about a million things to worry about. Who is their new teacher? What time is the bus coming? What school materials do they need? And, most importantly what new clothes or school supplies do they need? Most likely your kids will either whine about being dragged out to shop, or eagerly fight through the crowds– pushing almost everything into the cart. Take a deep breath and remember that there are ways to keep your money, time and sanity in check.

    Here are some ways to help you get organized this year:

    1) Your kids are constantly growing and while you think their clothes from last year might still fit, they might not. In early August, have your kids do a fashion show for you to see which clothes still fit and which ones you can give away. (Tip: Let your little girl wear make-up while she is doing it and she’ll be at it for hours.) Boys might need a little more bribery for this and you might need to spread it out over several nights. However, now you can make your list of what clothes, shoes, backpacks, and other accessories you need.

    2) Shopping for summer clothes during the Back to School season is always more expensive. Retail sales for summer clothes usually starts at the end of July- to save some money stock up on those for next summer, especially bathing suits. I don’t know about you but right after I buy jeans for my son in August, he grows an inch. Tip: Make sure you keep the receipts, so you can exchange. I’ve learned to shop for his jeans in late September. There are usually better sales and hopefully he’ll have done his sprouting for the year.

    3) Also, remember to write your kid’s name on the tag of their coat/jacket. backpack, lunch bag, etc. Stuff always gets lost but you might have a better chance of reclaiming it from the school Lost and Found box this way.

    4) If you live in a neighborhood with a lot of kids or a lot of friends with kids different ages, suggest a clothes swap. Have all the Moms over for some chocolate cake. Tell them to bring their kids gently used clothes and see if you can swap. Even if there’s no one the right size to switch with, you had some fun with the neighbors. Set up a Yahoo Group and have your friends and neighbors list their sizes before the swap meet.

    5) Considering how active kids are, they’ll most likely need new shoes. Their feet can swell up to half a size more during the day, so trying on shoes during the evening or early morning can save you another trip back to the store.

    6)Waited too long to get the school supplies and now the shelves at Target are bare? Make life easier for yourself and buy your supplies online at sites like www.write-stuff.com. If your school is listed with them you can easily access the school supply list. If not, they have some generic supply lists by grade so you can have it all shipped to your door. What could be easier? You won’t get distracted by pretty folders and erasers at the store either. Stick to what you need!

    So relax, take a deep breath and bring on the Back to School Season!

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    Tips for Getting Your Kids Out of Bed in the Morning

    Does going back to school mean plying your child out of bed with a crowbar? Does every morning bring a fight between them, you and the covers? Funny how on Saturdays and during the summer they can get up at the crack of dawn, but once school starts it’s game over. Try these tips to make rising and shining a little easier.

    Wake up, Little Susie

    Some kids need time to come awake while others snap to it. You may need to set the alarms early enough to accommodate some sitting-and-staring-into-space time. If you don’t know which category you child falls into, the week before school begins, start using the alarm clock to see if your child needs their alarm set a little earlier to provide some wake-up cushioning. Another idea to get them out of bed is to set two alarms, one on the opposite side of the room. The fact of having to physically get up and turn it off means your child is that much closer to being awake.

    See if setting an alarm to a radio station works better than just a buzzer. Or you can try tuning it to loud radio static to encourage them to get up and turn it off. There are some fun Talking Kids Alarm Clocks that can ease your child awake with kiss noises or snap them awake with a dinosaur roar.
    T-Rex Talking Alarm Clock Butterfly Talking Alarm Clock

    Rise and Shine
    Try to wake them with their nose. Use favorite smells to lure them out of bed, such as cinnamon-raisin toast, or crispy bacon frying or coffee brewing for teens.

    While I’m not this dedicated, we found one suggestion that on cold winter mornings, you can throw their clothes into the dryer for a few minutes. Pulling on warm clothes may help inspire them to leave their warm bed. (Honestly, if you do that, you are my SuperMom hero.)

    Early to bed, early to rise

    Tell your child that you will keep pushing bedtime earlier and earlier until they are able to wake up earlier. The thought of having to go to bed at 7:30 p.m. may be just the thing to motivate them to wake up in the morning. Getting a good night’s sleep, as simple as it sounds, may solve the problem, too. We all know that we do best on a routine.

    Desperate times call for desperate measures

    If all else fails, march into your child’s room, bang on a pan with a wooden spoon, singing “The Wheels on the Bus” at the top of your lungs. That should do the trick! Personally, I enjoy using those pretend toy microphones to sing them a wake-up song. My voice is so bad that they just jump out of bed to get me to stop. While this might be a little cruel, I tend to look at it as payback for waking me up in the middle of the night.

    What do you do at your house to get the kids out of bed for school? We’d love to hear about it.

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    Organizing Activities

    SuperMom Strikes Again

    Faster than a travel soccer team practice three nights a week, stronger than two-a-day football practices, able to leap piano lessons and marching band in a single bound, it’s SuperMom!

    Do visions of running your children to all of their after school activities have you pulling at your superhero tights and breaking into a cold sweat? (It’s not the itching, but the chafing.) Fear not! All it takes is some advanced planning and family guidelines to take the pressure off of you. Enlist your children and your spouse in this planning, and then the burden of organizing all of the after school activities won’t necessarily call for super hero strength–just some flexibility.

    Write it down—all of it

    Mom's Plan-it Family Calendar
    Get in the habit now of writing everything down in one place. Keep a master family wall calendar like the Mom’s Plan-it Family Wall Calendar to keep track of up to five family members. The calendar is color-coded, magnetic and keeps it all together.

    If you or your kids want to, have a separate calendar posted low enough for them to reach to write down their own activities. They can keep track of special classes like art or music, activities or sports, or playmates and birthday parties. Have fun with the schedule. Let them add stickers or smiley faces or whatever they like to remind them of important days. Just get into the habit of everybody checking the calendar daily before they go to bed so everyone knows what’s going on the next day.

    Have weekly calendar sessions with the whole family every Sunday night to update the calendar. This helps you keep everyone on the same page and avoids potential scheduling conflicts before they occur. (This way no one in the family can claim … “But, no one told me.”)

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    Keep it together
    Keep all of your kids activity stuff together in a duffle bag or backpack. Have a special duffle bag for soccer with pads, shoes, uniform and a water bottle. Keep all of this gear in the bag hanging in the coat room or garage. After your wash the uniform, throw it in the soccer duffle bag. Don’t take it upstairs and put it away in a dresser. That’s just an extra step. The ready-to-go bag will make life easier when you are late for practice and running out the door. You won’t need to go hunting for all of the gear you need. “Why are my soccer shoes in the pantry?” If you have two sports going on at the same time, get two separate duffle bags.

    Same for piano lessons, keep all of the books, folders, etc. in a designated backpack. It’s always ready to go when you are and keeps the clutter in the rest of the house down to a minimum. Invest in hooks for extra backpacks. It’s worth it.

    Say No once in a while

    Busy moms and kids get a lot done in part because they are so busy. But remember to schedule in some down time between activities. Don’t pack the schedule so full that all you are doing is running from one thing to the next. Where’s the joy in that?

    Step back, and remember that it is OK to say No to some things. The world will still go on, and someone else can run the bake sale this year. It is an important time management lesson to teach your child that you are choosing to do only what is most important to you and your family.

    We tell our kids that they can do 1 extra activity per “quarter”. While we insist on things like Spanish, swim lessons, or music at different times to make sure they are getting exposed to different talents, we let them choose something they want to do. Whether they want to play soccer, basketball, gymnastics, art classes, Tae Kwon Do or nothing, they start to learn how to choose and set their own priorities when you aren’t in the car 24/7.

    Think about how taking on another activity or group or commitment will affect the entire family, and say no to ones that you or your kids don’t love. Kids also need an appropriate amount of time to do homework. Make sure they get it. Children and adults all need down time to just hang out and relax. Don’t overbook so you can use that new found time to create more Chocolate Cake Moments!

    Roll with the changes

    These days, everyone seems to have a jam packed schedule. Know that sometimes it won’t always be perfect. You can’t be SuperMom (even though you may come very close). Try your best to be organized but stay flexible. When the schedule gets messed up, have back up plans in place for quick, easy dinners or a carpool driver on speed dial. If you miss an appointment, don’t beat yourself up. If you signed up for an activity where the coach insists on holding practice during church or important family times, quit and choose another program. You and your family are all in this together, and you will get through it in flying colors. The goal is to remember that nothing is more important than having time to spend together as a family.

    How do you keep your kids activities straight? Share any tips with us because we’d love to learn more ideas!

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    Tips for Surviving the First Day of School

    First day of school is never easy for Moms or kids. Starting off right and setting the right tone can be helpful for your child’s rest of the school year. Here are some steps to consider:

    The night before – Get whatever you can get done the night before so you have more time in the morning. Have your child bathe at night. Have your kids pick out the outfit they will be wearing (including shoes, socks, hats). Pack their lunch the night before, and maybe include an encouraging short note in it!

    Waking up a little earlier- Getting up a little earlier can gain you some much needed time. Wake your child up so that they won’t have to feel rushed on the first day. Starting the day off right by giving them a big healthy breakfast. If your child seems to have nervous energy, have them ride their bike around the block to work it off.

    After school- Set expectations, like homework routines, immediately and stick to it. Having your child finish their homework before letting them watch TV is always a habit to develop. If your child needs help on homework, make sure you can set aside time without any distractions (tv, phones, etc). And remember, when your child brings home those health and emergency information paper for you, do them immediately.

    Making it memorable- First day back to school is always filled with nervous excitement! To make their first day more pleasurable and memorable, do something simple and sweet for your kids. It could be making their favorite breakfast or dinner on that day, or going out to get ice cream. You can even pick out something inexpensive from the store.

    Sticking to the routine- Stay in the same routine each night by bathing, picking out their outfit for the morning, waking up a little earlier so that won’t feel rushed to eat breakfast and get ready for school in the morning.

    Find out what else you can do to prepare at Getting Ready the Night Before!

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    Back to School Checklist

    It’s that time again when you and your kids pick out their new school supplies. Hunting for school supplies is always fun, but exhausting process. Besides the list that you get from school here are a few more necessities you may need.

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    Preschool/Child Care

    *Toddler/Small Size Backpack
    *Nap Mat
    *Lunch Boxes/Snack Bag
    *Water Bottles
    Gym Shoes

    Grade School

    *Backpack (age, size appropriate)
    *Lunch/Snack Bag

    *School Supply Bag
    *Water Bottles
    *Alarm Clocks
    Hand Sanitizer
    Gym Shoes
    *Duffle Bag (Essential for Sports or other after school activities)

    Checklist for Moms

    Moms beware of all the paperwork, events to remember, and planning you will need to do when your child is back to school. Here are some supplies that will help keep you and the rest of the family on track.

    *Weekly Menu Planner
    *Family Calendar
    *School Paper Organizers
    *Kids Artwork Storage Folder (You will definitely need a place to store the masterpieces that come home.)
    School Lunch Notes
    *Take-Out Menu Organizer (For those school nights when no one has the energy to cook)
    Cold Packs (to keep kid’s lunches cool)
    *Kid’s Reminder Notes
    *3 Way To Do List Note Pad
    *All Out Of Grocery Pad (Make it easy to remember what to grab at the grocery store when you are on the way home.)

    What did we miss? Let us know what you think is a Back to School essential.

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    Getting Ready the Night Before

    The morning rush hour isn’t just for commuters on the freeway. It can also apply to busy moms trying to get their kids out the door on time for school. “Where is my backpack?” “What’s for breakfast?” and “What should I wear today?” are just a few of the barrage of early morning questions that somehow are all directed your way. Although it takes a little planning, to make things run more smoothly in the morning, try starting the night before. The more you can do in advance of the morning, the better it will be for everyone. Really!

    Early to bed, Early to rise
    Grandma was right, this saying is true. If your child has a tough time getting up in the morning, institute an earlier bedtime. Even 15 or 30 minutes earlier at night can make a big difference in his or her attitude in the morning.

    A corollary to this one is just for you, Mom: set your own alarm for 15 minutes earlier in the morning. Rise and shine before your family does, enjoy that cup of coffee in quiet before they awake. Although it stinks that you need to be the one who sacrifices, the calmness is worth it.

    Preparation is key.
    Lay out your daughter’s entire outfit for the next day, including hair bows and socks, if they care about such things. You don’t want to miss the bus because she dissolved into tears over not finding her special Barbie barrette.

    Generally, boys don’t seem to have the picky clothes gene and most just want a T-shirt—any T-shirt—and shorts. But if he needs a special Cubs shirt, find it the night before. (You’ll thank me later for this one.) This will also tell you whether you need to do laundry. You don’t want your child going to school with mustard stains.

    Designate a School Zone
    Keep all of your kid’s school papers, forms, schedules and backpacks in one area. If possible, make separate binders or hanging folders for each child. This way, everything is in one general spot. To really work ahead, check homework and sign any permission slips the night before. Then pack up the backpacks, zip them closed and line them up, ready to go.

    Make a Master Task List
    Involve your child on this one. Ask them to think of all the things they need to do before they leave for school in the morning. Then, create a checklist. This does two things: (1) it helps them take ownership of the job and (2) helps you not to have to nag them for every step. The list could include: Make bed; Brush teeth; Brush hair; Eat breakfast; and of course, Hug Mom good-bye.

    Once you have the list 5 to 8 items, let them decorate it with stickers or drawings. Then laminate the list, or cover both sides with clear Contact paper, attach an erasable marker in their favorite color and put it on a clipboard in a special place in their room. Then, they can check off the items as they do them. And you can quietly enjoy a second morning cup of coffee.

    Check their backpack if you haven’t already. You don’t want to find out that they needed to bring 100 raisens to school in the morning. At least if you see it before bed you can run to the convenience store. They know me well there.

    Track the Time
    If your son tends to wander off or get distracted, you can take the Master List one step further and set a simple kitchen timer for each task. Say, two minutes for brushing teeth, five minutes for making the bed, etc. If they get everything done in time, then you can reward him with a special book or money for a snack. Leave the TV off. It can derail the most focused child in the morning.

    Keep it light
    Don’t feel like everything must be perfect every morning. It won’t be. Remember to keep your sense of humor when things go wrong. The kids can smell your tension like a burnt casserole (not that any of us know what that is). If you are able to laugh, so will they.

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    No Whining Allowed!

    It won’t take long into the school year. It could be a few days or a week, but you know it is lurking around the corner—homework. The teachers will waste no time sending it home. And if your child is like many, he or she will start whining as soon as they receive it.

    To win the whining wars, set some ground rules ahead of time, experts say. Follow these easy tips to bring peace and order to your home.

    Susie Julian of Libertyville (Ill.), an experienced elementary teacher, said developing a routine to get homework done is the key. “Set the expectation with your child that they do their homework first,” Julian said. “Make it as much of a routine as possible. Then there’s no whining. It’s just what we do everyday. It’s like brushing your teeth.”

    Set a specific place to do homework.

    If possible, set aside a desk or card table just for homework. If you are tight on space, designate a spot in their room or at one end of the kitchen table. Have pens and pencils available, and a calculator and a ruler for older kids.

    Eliminate distractions. Give your kids sperate spaces. That means no TV and no cell phones for the duration of their homework. Older kids probably will fight you on this point, but again, just make it part of the routine. They will get much more out of their U.S. History analysis of the causes of WWII if Jenny isn’t texting every five minutes about the new boy in class.

    Start early.

    Start the homework sooner rather than later at night, when the whining may go up exponentially.
    “Make it as much of a routine as possible,” said Julian. “Having the same time, same routine seems to help with the whining. Set the expectation that you do homework first, then you can go relax or be with friends.”

    She added that parents need to pay close attention, however, if the whining persists.

    Whining with a reason.

    There is whining, where the child just is not in the mood to do homework, and then there is true whining, that could signal a bigger problem.

    “If you have a lot of whining, perhaps there is a real reason for it,” Julian said. “Is there too much homework? Is it too difficult? Maybe there is a legitimate reason for it.”

    If so, you or your child should contact the teacher right away.

    Julian recommended that depending on the age of the child, have the child talk to the teacher on their own to encourage responsibility. The child can ask the teacher to explain a certain section or simply say the homework didn’t make sense. If the child is too young, or too reserved, then you can send an e-mail or call the teacher on their behalf.

    “As a teacher, I need to know if something didn’t connect with the students,” Julian said.

    Help, but don’t rescue.

    Parents should support their children with homework struggles without rescuing them or doing the work for them.
    For homework help, check first with the school. Many offer homework help lines where you can simply call in for assistance. They are often staffed by teachers or volunteers who can help a student with a confusing subject.

    There are also online sites to give assistance. Try www.school.discoveryeducation.com, a resource provided by Discovery Education to help students in all grades with all subjects, or www.homeworkhelp.com, where online tutors help students understand the homework concepts. Good luck!

    For more ways to communicate with your child, check out How to Get Your Kids to Talk.

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    Back to a Back to School Routine

    Getting your kids to switch from the crazy, free days of summer into a Back to School routine again can be a little challenging. But with just a little advanced planning, you can get everyone back into a School frame of mind.

    Get in the Groove Again.
    A week or two before school starts again, start to get the kids back into a routine. No more sleeping in front of the TV. No more waking up at noon or with younger kids, no more waking up at 6 a.m. for no reason. Establish a bed time, start reading a story again before bed, and wake the kids up earlier in the morning to get their body into the ‘school sleeping cycle’ again. If they seem drowsy to you at first, don’t worry! Remember that they bounce back quickly.

    State the Rules.
    Sit down at the dinner table one night and lay down your expectations for the school year. Remind them of the family rules like no breakfast until they are fully dressed. Get their backpack ready the night before. No TV or Wii until homework is done. No friends over until homework is done. By stating these up front as a reminder, your kids should have the rules down pat by oh, say Middle School. Make a chart that visually reminds the kids what they need to do each morning or before bed – brush teeth, get backpack ready, set out clothes for the next day, make bed. This takes away your need to nag, or at least less of it.

    Address hidden emotional concerns.
    Kids are usually worried about going back to school, even if they don’t express it. So ask them. Sit down one night at dinner and go around the table to ask your kids what they are most excited about and most worried about for the upcoming year. You’ll be surprised at what concerns them and you may be able to help them eliminat the concern before school even starts. But only if you know what’s bothering them. Most of your child’s concern will most likely come from not knowing what to expect (so ask an older neighbor kid), where their class room is (go see it when you Meet the Teacher), or how to get on and off the bus (ask an older neighbor to be their bus buddy). Give them the confidence to start school right.

    Be sure to take advantage of meet-the-teacher nights if your child’s school offers it. It’s nice to see the teacher and see which kids are in the class this year. If your school doesn’t have one, schedule an appointment to go check out the school before hand. Exploring their new school together is always an adventure!

    Get a Family Calendar. The Master Schedule should be easily accessible for all in the family. Teach your kids how to look at the family calendar and increase their sense of responsibility by letting them know what they need to prepare for the next day. Once school starts, have them sit with you and write in which days they have gym, art or music. Have fun marking the days off. Look at the calendar together after dinner so that everyone can prepare. Check their backpack to find those papers with new important dates to mark on the calendar. Even Dad will appreciate the family calendar when he comes home and can’t find anyone. Check the calendar and see we’re all at soccer practice.

    Give your self time. Your kids can sense your moods. They are like bats that way. Their stress radars work great so do what you need to, to stay stress-free. Keeping yourself upbeat and calm in the morning can work wonders on how your kid’s day goes. Whether it may be getting up extra early if you need to begin the day with a quiet morning, or just a cup of extra strong coffee is all you need; be sure to give your child your brightest smile in the morning- that is the best gift you can give your child to help them through the rest of the day. Then, when they get on the bus or your drop them off, have another cup of coffee. While it’s not fair that you are the one that needs to sacrifice those extra precious minutes of sleep, it’s better for all to not be freaked out in the morning.

    Breakfast, it does a body good. Breakfast doesn’t need to be elaborate but it does set the energy level for the whole day. Keep it simple with cereal, yogurt, granola, fruit, frozen waffles (no-trans fat, please) and hard boiled eggs, if they’ll eat it. We introduced our kids to the European bread, ham and cheese breakfast and they like it. On Sunday you can make pancakes or French toast and freeze it for the week. Don’t let your kids skip it though. Eat a cereal bar at the very least to get the brain going.

    Here’s to a new year at School!

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    Celebrating the Last Day of Summer Break

    While Mom you may be jumping for joy that the kids are finally going back to school, the kids might be a little bummed that summer is over. Just because summer is almost over doesn’t mean you can’t have one last day in the sun. Help your kids to see the last day of summer as something to look forward to by creating a tradition where you do something fun as a family to celebrate. Mom and Dad, see if you can take the day off of work so you can do something fun together.

    1. Hit the pool one last time.Your kids have probably been swimming all summer but that’s no reason not to go again. Enjoy the sun and get that last tan of the season.

    BBQ
    2. Have a block party. Invite the neighborhood kids and parents over. Share your summer vacation highlights as well as talk about who has which teacher, new outfits, bus schedules, etc. The kindergarten kids can ask the older kids for help with getting on the bus.

    3. Run Around. It’s still summer, so go outside. Be active and enjoy the outdoors on this last day. Your kids are going to be sitting in a class room for the next 9 months so release as much energy as you can. Go to the local forest preserve and play games, hit the theme park one last time, go for a long bike ride in another part of town, or go horseback riding if it’s available near you.

    movies
    4. Go see a movie during the day. If your outdoor activities get rained out or you just want to relax, this will be the last time to take advantage of that early bird, weekday discounts to see the latest family flick. It will be a rare pleasure for the kids to see a movie during the day, just because you can.

    5. Cook your kid’s favorite meal. Ask your kids what they want as a celebratory meal and have fun making it together. Make cookies in the shape of a school bus or apple that they get to take to school on the first day. Make homemade trail mix or snack mix that they can take the first week of school. Simple, but fun.

    Click here to see tips for getting ready to go back to school!

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    Tags: Back to School Tips · Cooking with the Kids · Family Celebrations

    Moms, Organize Those School Papers

    Once school starts, you’ll be amazed at the amount of paperwork that they bring home. While some schools are doing a good job of sending newsletters and information home electronically, there is still a mountain of papers on the counter after just one or two days of school. Here are some tips to keep on top of it and not let it overwhelm your house.

    1. Designate a place to put your school papers. Do you have a desk or place to set up a few files?

    2. Create a folder filing system. You’ll need folders for temporary papers, permanent information, and kids artwork. In the temporary folders, put the paperwork that you need to hang onto for a few days and then throw it all in the recycle bin at the end of the week. This can be field trip forms, notices for school parties, Star of the Week paperwork, birthday party invitations, or weekly homework packets. In the permanent folder, include school phone numbers, schedules, contact numbers for afterschool activities, etc. Anything you might need to refer to during the whole year. Finally, throw your kids artwork in a folder. At the end of the month, go through it and keep the ones you want and move them to a larger, more permanent space. Don’t forget to date them first! The Chocolate Cake Club has some School Paper and Kids Artwork Organizers, if you need help creating your filing system.

    3. Create folders or a holding area for your kids other educational activities like Religious Education Classes, Tutor schedules, Spanish class, piano, etc. We have magazine racks sitting on the counter because they can hold information papers and any text books the kids need to grab for their weekly class.

    4. Box tops. Have an envelope or small box designated to hold the box tops you collect to send in for school fundraising. Throw the box tops in as you go. Then, divide them up equally between the kids when the school collects them.

    5. Family Schedules at a Glance. Have a Family Wall Calendar in the kitchen. It is essential for Moms and the rest of the family to have a place to refer to for activities, appointments, and social fun dates. If someone asks your daughter to babysit, she can easily check and see if she is available. If Dad comes home from work and no one is home, he can check the calendar and see that everyone is at soccer practice.

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    Tags: Back to School Tips · Help Mom Stay Organized

    Tips for Buying the Right Lunch Bag

    What’s your child’s favorite time at school? For mine, it’s lunch. Because lunch time is so special, make sure you’ve got the best lunch bag out there to make eating not only fun but easy. While we love a great design, keep in mind that your lunch bag needs to be functional too. Here are some things to think about when picking your child’s lunch bag. There are all kinds of different sizes, shapes, and designs for lunch bags. Some zipper, some fold over the top. Designs are cute, hip, or just plain functional. But which to choose? Hint: It’s all about Size!

    Snack vs. Lunch. Our kids get a hot lunch from school. However, they do take a snack everyday and sometimes they want one that needs to be kept cold, like a yogurt drink, vegetable dip, or certain fruits that taste better cold. So, when you are picking your lunch bag, if you are only going to include a snack, then get the smallest bag you can find.
    small lunch bag homerun lunch bag

    What’s in the Bag?
    Figure out what your child will be taking for lunch everyday. Do they need a drink or will they buy milk at school. If they are bringing a drink, are they bringing a water bottle? If so, will it fit inside to stay cool? How about a juice pack? How will you keep everything cold? Think about what you want to throw in the bag and then you can determine the right size. You don’t want a lunch bag so big that your child needs wheels to drag it to school. But at the same time, you want your child’s lunch all together in one bag and not with separate pieces floating around the backpack getting smashed.

    Keeping your Lunch Cool!
    Does your child want to keep lunch items cold or hot? Then the lunch bag needs to be insulated and needs a cold source. Some lunch bags come with a chill pack but most don’t. If not, you can buy one separately but make sure it fits in the lunch bag. Some chill packs are large. If you don’t want to buy a separate chill pack, here are some tips for keeping lunch cool. Throw some ice cubes in a plastic baggie. Ask your child to empty the melted water and bring the bag back so you can reuse it the next day. Or, if you have a smaller lunch bag and don’t have the room for extras, save space by freezing the water bottle or juice pack then use it as the chill pack to keep the food cold. If your child isn’t concerned about temperature, then a good old paper bag will do.

    Waste Free Lunches?
    We all want to do our part for protecting the environment and waste free lunches are a great way to conserve. Many schools are encouraging kids to bring waste free lunches. Our kids earn points every time they bring a waste free lunch. However, plastic containers take up space in a lunch bag so make sure you have a large enough bag to hold them all. There are some awesome waste free lunch containers out there like this one from Kids Konserve – (http://store.kidskonserve.com/) designed by two Moms who know their lunches.

    Safety
    We all care about our kids’ health and safety. If you are buying a plastic or vinyl lunch bag, just make sure it is lead, phthalate, and PVC free. If your child wants to keep food hot or cold, it needs to be insulated. But definitely make sure to ask if the bag is safe, if it is not labeled as such. Most bags are these day, but just double check. Check out the aluminum or stainless steel water bottles as an alternative to plastic.

    Design
    OK, now you can think about design. See which type of bag is easiest for your child to open. For a smaller child, a “fold over the top” Velcro closure may be easier than a zipper. Just like with backpacks, kids will express themselves with their lunch bag. Once your safety and size concerns have been met, Mom, let your child choose the design they love.
    Rocker lunch bag fairy lunch bag Pink

    Cleaning
    Finally, the most important consideration for Mom. How easy is the lunch bag to clean? Does it have tiny little corners and pockets where you won’t be able to reach the crumbs? No good! Make sure you can easily wipe it with a cloth and access all of the corners so things won’t start breeding in the lunch bag.

    We hope this helps you pick the right lunch bag for your child. For ideas on what to pack in the lunch bags, check back for another post. Looking for some inspiration, check out the lunch bags at the Chocolate Cake Club.

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    How To Keep Your Kids Active this Summer While You Work From Home

    Every summer I find myself facing the same predicament: how can I keep the kids busy so I can get work done? I work from home full-time and while my job is very flexible, I do need to get stuff done. We rely on the local YMCA Day Camps to keep the kids busy most of the summer but this year the kids wanted to spend more time at home. So, we scheduled a few weeks during the summer where they get to run free (right!). I know I’m not alone with this predicament. With the economy this summer, many families are opting to keep their kids home from camp to avoid the extra expense. Since summer is halfway over, I’ve learned a few tips on how to get work done. Here are some ideas that may work for you.

    1. Plan for the unexpected. One of the perks of working from home is the ability to set your own schedule. This comes in handy when one of the Moms in your car pool has to cancel last minute, or when you have to pick up your sick child from camp. So, to plan for the inevitable loss of work time, try to schedule less meetings during the summer. Use the phone more so you can stay close to home. Embrace your phone’s mute button so if the kids get a little rowdy, no one on the phone will know. Plus, it allows you to indulge in some of those spur of the moment whims to, say, spend the day at the beach with your kids. Focus on projects that you can work on yourself so it doesn’t require a lot of meetings and that can be done late at night when the kids are in bed.

    2. Set a Summer Schedule for the Day. It’s hard to get much work done when the kids are running in and out of rooms and getting into little tiffs that require Mom Mediation. So, rather than yelling at them to keep it down or pleading with them to let you work for just 10 more minutes, set up a daily summer work schedule that includes fun time for the kids. In the morning, tell the kids that here is what we are going to do today so they know when you are working and when it’s playtime. Go to the pool from 11:00 a.m. – 1:00 p.m. every day. If you schedule their fun time in and they know it’s coming up, they will respect your work time more. Also, for your sanity, keep the schedule the same every day. Consistency will help you focus on work and help the kids focus on how to respect your time. While I don’t like using TV as a bribe or babysitter, sometimes you need the quiet inducing time TV brings. Plan to do your serious work when the shows are on that you know captivate your children. If that is the only time of day that they get to watch TV, they’ll be even more quiet and engrossed during that time period.

    3. Enlist Help! Ask your neighbors, friends, or family if you can set up a swap or just plain ask if they can watch your kids while you run to a meeting or write that article. Some of my neighbors have said they don’t mind watching my kids at all (even if I’m not able to reciprocate the same amount) because it helps entertain their kids who are bored with summer break already. “If it keeps the kids from whining, I’m all for it.” I have a few Mom friends who work full or part time from home and it has been nice to offer to swap shifts. I will take all the kids for a few hours and then we’ll switch houses. It allows us Moms to get some work done during those hours.

    4. Time Consuming Activities – Some days you just can’t get the back-up you need and the deadline is looming. Try getting your kids to start an activity that is time consuming, meaning they will be amused for at least an hour so you can work. The AtHomeMomblog.com has put together a list of 15 activities to keep kids busy. Here’s another list of activities from Workathome.org. Finally, the article 94 Ways to Keep the Kids Busy for the Work at Home Parent at the Sparkplugging site. It nicely divides the activities by age. Figure out which of these activities keep your kids most busy and have at it.

    5. Work outside – If you have a laptop and wireless internet connection, go out in the backyard to do your work. While it is a little distracting (focus, focus), you can go sit on the patio and watch your kids play with the hose, jump on the trampoline, or run around and collect bugs. Another idea is to go to the library. Let the kids read books and play in the play area (if there is one) while you sit at the computers and do your work. You will still need to supervise your children but they might sit quietly for while.

    I hope one of these ideas brings you some relief. If you have any other tips that work for you, please share!

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    How to Buy the Perfect Kids School Backpack?

    Kids School and Toddler Backpacks
    It’s getting to be that time of year, when our kids are done jumping into pools and beginning to jump into books. That means one thing – school supplies and backpacks. There are some questions that you need to ask yourself and your child before picking that backpack for school or even preschool.

    How big do you need it?
    Monkey Toddler Quilted Backpack
    Your child will go through three backpack size phases in their school years – preschool, elementary school, and middle/high school. While you may have more than one backpack during those times, the sizes will grow as your child grows. (I know, obvious.)

    Preschool or Daycare: A preschool size bag should be small and simple, just big enough to carry those toddler essentials like a change of clothes, snack, BFF blankie, or a stuffed animal. So ask yourself, what do they need to bring every day and will this backpack hold it. Are you going to carry it or are they? If they are going to carry their own backpack to preschool then it needs to be smaller and very lightweight. You don’t want them looking like a deformed turtle as they walk down the driveway.

    Four Peas Chocolate and Lime Kids School Backpack
    Elementary School: They say Niagara Falls is the 8th wonder of the world but I would argue that it’s my son’s backpack after a day at school. We’re talking a few books, folders, loose papers, a few Lego guys to play with on the bus, and of course pieces of priceless art like life cycles of a butterfly, macaroni necklaces and popsicle stick art. (I know these are going to be worth something on eBay one day.)

    So, your child’s backpack needs to hold all that and a bag of chips. If your child takes lunch to school then you also need to fit a lunch bag and maybe a water bottle. Now, here’s the kicker. Does your child go directly to an afterschool activity or care location where they would need to add in sports gear, additional books, or toys? Most school size backpacks are sufficient for an elementary school child’s needs but if you are using the backpack for extra activities or to travel with on the weekends, go for the largest size you can find.

    Do you want to embroider their name on the bag? If so, look for a design that has an open space on the front so you can add the name.

    Four Peas Rocker Messenger Bag
    Middle or High School: For you, it’s all about durability because they carry some pretty heavy books. Look for durable material and a large size bag. For them, it’s all about the ‘tude. This bag will hold more than just books, it will hold a statement. Don’t be surprised to find their bag covered in hanging doodads or covered with pins and patches. Your child will want to express him or herself so let them go for it.

    There are a variety of styles for older kids; standard backpacks or messenger bags are popular, so have fun with your tween or teen picking out what they feel comfortable carrying- because now they’re not just carrying a bag, but their heart on their sleeve, I mean back.

    Cleanability
    If you want the backpack to last a few years, look for tough material. Not only to take abuse but to stand up to a hazmat-type cleaning. Make sure it is machine washable. With my kids, we need to empty the bag and wash it every 2 months. They get skanky with food, left over glue, and various other substances that I can’t even identify! Remember, you only want one living thing attached to your kids backpack – your kid.

    Last Notes about Design
    When your kids are younger, backpacks make a great gift. You or the gift giver can choose a cute, hip, or even plain design and your child will be thrilled. Once your kids gets ready for school, just try and get them to like the same design you do. Avoid the arguments and let them pick.

    Also, when your kids are younger they are going to gravitate towards the character designed backpacks – Spiderman, Dora, SpongeBob, Princesses, etc. However, these “fad” backpacks will probably only last you one year because your child will move on from that character quickly. “Oh Mom, Dora is so yesterday.” So, if you are going to buy a character backpack, don’t obsess over the quality and durability factors. And don’t pay too much for it because most likely it will go in the donation pile and be going to school with some other child.

    Hope these tips helped you. The Chocolate Cake Club has a ton of Kids School Backpacks and Toddler Backpacks if you are looking for ideas and inspiration.

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    The Mother Lode Back to School Giveaway

    Yeah! Tamara B. from Cantonment, FL is the winner of our Motherlode Back to School Contest. Congrats, Tamara! We hope this Back to School Season goes super smooth for you.

    This contest is now closed. Thank you to everyone who entered and helped spread the word. We will be announcing the winner of the contest in a few days. Please come back and check the blog often for new contests and advice on how to make family life a little easier.

    Back to school contest

    It’s Back-to-School time and the Chocolate Cake Club and Chocolate Cake Moments Blog want to make one lucky Mom’s life easier with a chance to win $140 worth of Back to School products. The contest winner will receive a Four Peas School Size Backpack with matching Lunch and Supply bags. The winner will also grab a Talking Alarm Clock for the kids, as well as a Mom’s Plan-it Wall Calendar, Engagement Calendar, and Kids Reminder Notes, so that she can be that Mom who’s got it all together. Finally, you will love the momAgenda Kids Chore Chart to keep kids on track with their homework and chores. A prize worth $140.00! Hurry, contest ends August 12th, 2009! (Winner will get to choose the Backpack and Alarm Clock design of their choice.)

    How do I enter, you ask?
    Leave us a comment here by answering this question: What did your school lunch box look like? If you don’t remember, just tell us about a favorite school memory.

    But wait! Want more chances to win? Find out how to get additional entries, complete prize package detials and contest rules on our Mother Lode Back to School Contest Page.

    After you’ve entered the contest, head over to Chocolate Cake Club to check out our cool Back-to-School products or to the blog home page for Back to School tips and ideas on how to get back into the school groove.

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    Chocolate Cake Club featured on ABC TV’s 190 North Program

    We were recently featured on ABC TV Chicago’s 190 North program. Our TV debut was very exciting. Check out the video clip.

    The topic was Family Fun for under $25. We got it!

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    Art-to-Go, Because Creativity Knows No Boundaries

    My daughter is a prolific artist and it occured to me the other day that the true artiste needs to create when and where the mood strikes her. So, Art-to-Go is a big issue at our house. She creates art by the pound and I always need to have a notebook and pencil with me at all times, just in case. If you have a child like this, let me tell you about some things that have really helped make my life easier.

    We went to a restaurant recently and I had to carry loose white copy paper, a ziploc bag of crayons, two coloring books, and some markers. (Why? Because that’s Mommy’s job, you know, to carry stuff.) My daughter insisted she needed these and she doesn’t like the restaurant supplied coloring pages because they restrict her creativity. That’s what she told me … really. Regardless of the reason, having some art supplies at hand for when you are out of the house is a great way to capture spontaneous creativity and keep kids amused at restaurants, on a plane, at the dentist office, or just at Grandmas.

    Spring Fling Art-to-Go Folio
    While I could have found her a backpack and let her carry her supplies by herself, I gave her one of our new products instead and she loves it. The Art-to-Go Folio Paper and Crayon Sets are one of the cutest kids items you’ll ever see. It is also one of our top selling birthday gifts because kids love them.

    Art-to-go folio open
    Made by a fellow Mom-run business, the Piggy Story, these Art-to-Go Folios contain everything you need to keep your little artist happy when you are out and about or going over to Aunt Nancy’s house. Inside the folios, your child will find 12 crayons and a pad of white paper to create to their hearts content. This solves the “Mommy, why do restaurants only give you 3 colors?” issue. It even folds up like a briefcase, perfectly sized for little hands. Ta Da! Mommy doesn’t have to carry it.

    Dragon Art Backpack
    Older kids may like the Kids Activity BackPacks which are made by the same company, with the same fun designs. These however, include a sturdy backpack so you can add toys to the mix, double-tipped markers, and an activity book with stickers.

    If you want more ideas on ways to keep kids amused while out of the house, check out our Table for Fun post.

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    Teach Your Kids the Importance of Giving Back

    We recently found a great site Mom it Forward where they believe that Moms can make a difference and change the world for the better. They have kicked off a pretty cool contest this summer called the Summer of Service (SOS) Challenge. Each week they will post tips on how to make a meaningful difference. Do one of their suggested tips, tell them, and you could win some great prizes. Check out the Challenge here and show your kids how you walk the talk and give back. Even if you don’t participate in the Challenge, we think this is an awesome way to pick up some tips on how to get your kids and your family thinking about giving.

    Mom It Forward Summer of Service Challenge

    My husband and I talk to the kids about giving back but we always need to do more. We do some things as a family like every year we buy a Christmas gift for a needy child from our YMCA Giving Tree. We also donate money to the World Wildlife Fund every Christmas so the kids can get a cool, endangered stuffed animal. We donate our used toys and clothes to charity. By doing these things consistently, they have become a giving tradition in our family. The kids actually ask about when they are coming up.

    Our kids also love one of our Church fundraisers for a local Women’s Shelter. They hand out plastic baby bottles and ask people to fill them with all loose change around the house. Our kids love searching the house for coins to put in the bottle.

    Some of the activities that we are involved in offer some great opportunities to give back to the community. With our son’s Cub Scouts troop we have packed care packages for our troops with Operation Yellow Ribbon. Both of our kids take piano lessons and every year their teacher has the kids perform a Halloween concert at a local nursing home. The residents love to see the kids in their costumes playing music. We have helped to clean up the local forest preserve with my daughter’s Adventure Guides group.

    If you have a hard time thinking of ways to give back, definitely look to see what your Church or kids groups have planned for the summer. Definitely check out the Mom It Forward challenge. What we love about the Mom It Forward suggestions is that they remind us that we should all be practicing more random acts of kindness at home. It’s important to help strangers, but it is also important and really easy to help those we love.

    What do you and your family do to give back to the community. Please share your ideas with us since we are always looking for more.

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    Tags: Contests · Cool Finds · Holiday Traditions · Ideas for family projects

    A Horse is a Horse, is a Horse … Unless It’s a Bike

    Christy with Handlebar Horse
    Thinking about trying to teach a little girl how to ride a bike, either with or without training wheels this summer? Here’s an idea to potentially help the process go smoother.

    We were struggling with getting our daughter motivated to take her training wheels off last summer and it looked like another milestone would pass us by, until we found the Handlebar Horse. Hmm? What is a Handlebar Horse, you ask? This kids bike accessory is the coolest thing since well, bikes, I guess. The set includes a horse head that makes galloping and neighing sounds when you press its ears. It also includes a tail with a wired center so that it sticks out from the bike and “bobs” like a real horse tail when you ride.
    Handlebar Horse package

    Our daughter really liked to ride her bike with the training wheels. However, when we tried to take them off and teach her to ride solo, she fell. It was game over. It reminded us of the Calvin & Hobbes strip when Calvin swears his bike is taunting and stalking him because he was afraid of riding it. She was scared.

    So, when we saw the Handlebar Horse, we thought it was a perfect fit. Our daughter loves horses. No, really. She loves horses. We thought this product would be the perfect motivation to get her “back up on the horse,” so to speak. The Handlebar Horse was a birthday present that she immediately named Jessica and we put on her bike.
    Handlebar Horse on bike

    It’s so easy to install since it uses Velcro strips and elastic straps. It will fit on any kids bike. Well, once we had Jessica ready to go, she learned in two days. It was an equine miracle.

    The funny part is watching people watch her ride. All of the neighbors stopped to ask her about her horse which she proudly showed off. My husband would jog on our local bike trail with my daughter riding alongside and he said everyone would point and rubber neck to look back at the horse.

    More recently, we went to our local Memorial Day parade where my son was marching with the Cub Scouts. The rest of us rode our bikes to meet him at the end of the parade route. There was not a girl watching or marching in the parade who didn’t point and say “Oh, look at that horse!” While it made my husband and I laugh, it made my daughter beam with pride that she was the center of attention.
    Handlebar Horse at Parade

    Want one? Get your Handlebar Horse Bike Accessory here.

    Tell us what motivation you used to get your kids to take a big step in riding their bike.

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    How to Get Your Kids out of the House This Summer

    After being cooped up all winter, everybody is anxious to get out and enjoy the outdoors again. Liberated of our heavy winter coats, it’s hard not to feel happier, lighter, and more energetic. The longer days and warmer nights are terrific opportunities to get out of the house and enjoy nature again.

    As a parent with two kids of my own, I’ve discovered that summer can be as challenging for adults as it is liberating for kids. Once the charm of sleeping in wears off, I know it’s not long before I’m hearing the dreaded refrain of “Mommy, I’m bored!” Even if they go to summer day camp, the novelty of an unstructured day will eventually wear off, too.

    In my experience, preparation is the best way to avoid the B-word. With a little creativity and planning, you can stockpile an arsenal of fun activities to throw at your kids before they can even say “bored.” None of these activities should include sitting in front of the computer, video game, or television; the whole idea is to get them outside and enjoying the sunshine while it lasts (giving you a little well-deserved space in the process).

    Here are just a few outdoor activities to get you started:

    1. Invest in the Super Parachute Kids Party Game. Kids love parachutes, and I’ll bet all the neighborhood Moms will love you for having this super-fun game!
    Super Parachute Kids Party Game

    2. Camp out in the backyard – pitch a tent, grab some sleeping bags, pillows, flashlights (and bug spray!). If you have a fire pit, do it up right with some S’mores.

    3. Most libraries have a summer reading program, so take advantage of it. Walk to the local library to check out some fabulous summer reading. Then, set up outdoor reading stations in the backyard with umbrellas, beach towels, and frozen grapes to snack on.

    4. Organize Family or Neighborhood Olympics that includes events like hula hoop competition, 3-legged races, water balloon toss, or egg and spoon races (you can buy an Egg and Spoon Race Game and save yourself an eggy yard or kid).
    Egg and Spoon Race Game

    5. Set up a miniature golf course right in your own backyard. The Mini Golf Set has everything you need to get your toddler’s golf career started (or just to keep the little ones occupied for a few hours).
    Mini Golf Set

    Share your favorite activities that get your kids out of the house and having fun.

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    Tags: Cool Finds · Family Celebrations · Games · Reading with the Kids

    Blog Posts We’d Like to Share

    Some of our good blog-writing Mom friends have sent us links to their recent posts that we felt we just had to share.

    Our friend Jasmine Jafferali, the Chicago Family Health Examiner writer, amused us with her 10 Reasons Why I’ll Never Be The Perfect Mother. As she says, “Here’s to putting fun back into our dysfunctional families.” Hear Hear!

    Jeanne Sager, writer extraordinare for Babble.com’s Droolicious and her own personal blog Inside Out, wrote “It’s Not Swine Flu, Your Kid Has Whine Flu.”

    Finally, here’s a great recipe for a Chocolate Cake Moment that we found while cruising around the web. It’s from the Moms over at MyMommyManual.com. Go ahead and indulge. You deserve it.

    Seen any funny or family fun oriented blog posts recently? Please share!

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    Some Great Articles on Protecting Your Family from Swine Flu

    Jasmine JafferelliOur friend Jasmine Jafferali, who is the Family Health writer for the Chicago Examiner, has written two great articles to educate us all on the Swine Flu and how we can take measures to keep our family healthy.

    How to Keep Your Family Healthy During the Swine Flu Outbreak

    Putting Things in Perspective About the Swine Flu While Keeping Your Family Healthy

    Read up to see what we should be concerned about and what we can do to help keep our kids healthy. Our hearts go out to the families in the U.S. and Mexico, who have been affected.

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    How to Find a Smile Today … Capturing the Little Moments in Your Life

    We saw a great article on the Today’s Mama site by Emily Falconbridge called Capturing the Little Things. We had to share this fun idea to help you get past the frustrations you may have about how cluttered your house looks or how you wish you had new furniture. Read it and see how she easily creates a photo book of the everyday beauty in her house that most of us don’t take the time to see and appreciate. She also create a fun book for her daughter with photos of her favorite things. See the photo below. Check out the article and let us know what you think. I’m going to work on one this weekend.

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    Tags: Cool Finds · Ideas for family projects · Parenting Tips

    Help Your Kids Conquer Their Fear of the Dark with Dream Cards

    Another idea we have used at home to help our kids conquer their fear of the dark is to create Dream Cards. (You can see that fear of the dark and failure to fall asleep is a big issue in our house. I’ll try anything to get these kids to GO TO BED!) So here’s the thing … Wouldn’t it be cool if you could pick your dream ahead of time? Well, we used that thought as a springboard for our Dream Card ideas. One night we sat down and cut out playing card-sized pieces of thick paper. Everyone in the family then drew pictures of some dreams they wished they would have. Our daughter’s cards involved a lot of horses, picking roses in the clouds, and animals at tea parties. Our son’s cards seemed to have a lot of Star Wars, skiing, and pirates in them. He seems to find chaos and destruction calming before bedtime. Go figure.

    When our deck of cards were made, we placed them next to our beds and every night before we went to bed, our kids would choose whichever dream they wanted. They put the card under their pillows and went to sleep imagining their dream. (One of my dream cards involved sleeping through the whole night without my kids waking me up. Ah! Bliss. The kids didn’t find it very amusing. My other dream card involved having my own cabana boy who would make me margaritas, but that’s not important. )

    This worked for about a week but again, we had a blast one night spending time together as a family talking about our desired dreams and creating our Dream Cards. Try it one night and let me know how it works at your house.

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    Tags: Help Kids Sleep Better · Ideas for family projects · Parenting Tips

    Help Your Kids Conquer Their Fear of the Dark with Dragons!

    Here’s another fun idea we used to help our kids conquer their fear of the dark and go to sleep easier – we created guardians for our beds. While exhausted one night from having to come back into both of our kids rooms one night, we asked them what would make them feel safer in their bedrooms. Both our son and daughter said that something to watch over and guard their beds would be great. So, after using our creative juices, we thought what makes a better guardian of special treasures than a dragon? (I’m sure there is something, but at midnight we couldn’t think of anything better.)

    So, the next night we went and got all of our books with pictures of dragons in them. We seem to have a plethora of books with dragons but if you don’t, go to the library and get some. Everyone in the family picked their favorite style for inspiration and then drew a dragon on a piece of paper. We then named our dragons (my dragon’s name is Fiero – very Italian, very hot!) and taped the dragon to the wall near our bed.

    Pick any animal, person, or thing that would make your kids feel comfortable. Be creative. My son was considering drawing the killer rabbit from Monty Python and the Holy Grail but ultimately went with a dragon.

    Whether this idea helps your kids conquer their fear of the dark or not, we had a blast sitting together at the kitchen table one night drawing and naming dragons. It turned out to be a Chocolate Cake Moment of family fun in my book. Plus, I now have a hot, Italian dragon guarding me at night. Cool! (Click on the picture below to see Fiero in his full glory.)

    Dragon drawing

    See our other ideas on helping kids conquer their fear of the dark using night lights.

    Have you ever done anything similar? Please share.

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    Tags: Friday Night Fun · Help Kids Sleep Better · Parenting Tips

    Help Your Kids Conquer Their Fear of the Dark – Constellation Nightlights

    When your kids suddenly become afraid of the dark, it becomes a literal nightmare to get them to sleep. While you feel bad that they are scared, you also know that you still have to wash the dishes, walk the dog, pay the bills, talk to your husband, and maybe throw in a load of laundry before calling it a day. You want to help your child but it is very hard to be empathetic when you know that the monster in the closet is really just the cat attacking a fuzz ball. We have tried a variety of products and ideas to help our kids sleep. Some of these ideas work for a week or two while others seem to truly offer comfort. We’ll give you a new idea every few days to help you discover the magic formula for peaceful a bedtime at your house. Try them out and see which ones stick for your kids.

    Twilght Turtle Kids Constellation Night Lightt

    Twilight Turtle or Twilight Ladybug Nightlight – My daughter can’t to to sleep without her “turtley” on. She loves the fact that her turtle friend lights up her room and projects stars on the ceiling. For my son, the Twilight Turtle didn’t make him feel that safe but we had some great bonding time together looking at the “stars.” He and I would lie on his bed and look at the stars, looking for Orion’s Belt and the Little Dipper. It was a nice way to spend some quiet time together before going to sleep.

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    Staying Connected with Kids While Traveling for Work

    Airplane clip art
    I recently wrote an article for the MotherhoodLater.com newsletter and I wanted to share it all with you. The topic was very timely for me since I had to take a business trip recently and I was thinking of how I could make my absence more fun for the kids. MotherhoodLater.com is a great site for Mom’s who started a family later in life and want to connect with other Moms like themselves. Go to their site and sign up for their newsletter because there are some great articles … for Mom’s of any age, really.

    Staying Connected:Tips for Staying in Touch with the Kids When You’re On the Road
    Sue Kirchner, Contributing Mom and Business Woman

    With teleconferencing and a bad economy, traveling for work has decreased in the last few years, but the occasional trip does come up. While quite a few moms relish the nights away from home – ordering room service, indulging in a bubble bath, or watching TV uninterrupted – it’s still hard to be away from your family. There are some fun ways to stay connected to your kids even if you have to travel, so when the room service trolley has been pushed to the corner, the movie is over, and the tub is drained, try some of these tips to stay close to home:

    Write some notes: Before you leave, write a few love notes or jokes for your kids and hide them. Tuck them under their pillows, lunch boxes, backpacks, sock drawers, or toy chests. Your kids will feel connected to you as they find these little surprises.

    Bring a bedtime story: If your kids have a favorite bedtime story, get an extra copy at the library and bring it with you. When you call home to say goodnight, you can read your kids their bedtime story while they follow along at home. It’s a nice way to keep the bedtime ritual going even if you aren’t there.

    Take a friend: Ask your kids if you can take one of their favorite toys or stuffed animals with you to remind you of them while you travel. Your kids will love to help YOU not be lonely. While traveling, you can take pictures of their friend in cool places to share later. Try taking some funny pictures too: Have the stuffed animal or doll sit with you in a restaurant like you’re out to dinner together; or how about a photo of the toy in the bathtub, or sitting on the toilet. Bring that digital camera or cell phone with you so you can email the pictures home and have something to giggle about over the phone later.

    Send a postcard: I always send a postcard to my kids. Even if you’re home before the postcard arrives, kids just love knowing that you were thinking of them. They also want to see where you’ve been (try sending the postcard from your child’s stuffed animal. More giggles. They’ll love it).

    Map it: If you have a large map at home, get it out and show the kids where you are going. My kids always want to know where, and how far away, I will be. Looking at the map with them and showing them your travel destination helps them feel connected. No matter what age your kids are, they miss you when you are gone. Just take that little extra time and make it an adventure for the whole family.

    Skype it: If you haven’t used Skype yet, this is the perfect opportunity. If you travel with a laptop, make sure it comes equipped with a webcam (if not, they are not very expensive). Make sure you have 2 web cams: hook up one to your home computer and take the other on the road with you. Download Skype onto both computers (it’s free). Skype allows you to make a video “phone call” over the Internet so you can talk to your kids “face to face” whenever you want. You will have to set up a time in advance so the kids know to be online for your call. Technology makes staying connected a lot easier!

    Sue Kirchner is the founder of www.ChocolateCakeClub.com, an e-boutique that offers busy moms products to help them get organized, encourage kids to be more self-sufficient, and distinguish them as Moms-who’ve-got-it-together with must-have gifts and parenting tools. She writes the blog, www.ChocolateCakeMoments.com. When not working, she’s home having fun with her husband and two children.

    Tell us, how do you stay connected with your kids while on a business trip?

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    Tags: Mom's Corner · Parenting Tips · Traveling with the Family

    Spring Break Boredom Busters

    Not going anywhere for Spring Break this year? Don’t fret. Here are some fun kids crafts kits and games to keep the kids occupied while they are at home … and give Mom a chance to hang on to her sanity.

    Art Projects
    Get the kids started on some art projects. It gets their creative juices flowing and keeps them away from the TV for awhile. At the Chocolate Cake Club, we carry a few art kits that have a lot of craft materials and project ideas to keep kids busy for days, or at least hours. It will give you some kind of break, trust us.

    Giant Art Supply Jar
    The Giant Art Supply Jar is wonderful because it gives your kids so many different kinds of supplies in one compact, easy-to-put-away plastic jar. My daughter says she hates to do projects at home because all we have is paper and crayons. Well with the art jar, I astounded her with unique art supplies like multi-colored pom poms, glitter pom poms, pipe cleaners, fringed crepe paper, feathers and popsicle sticks. Let the imagination run wild. (Tell your kids to build a diarama and see the glazed look that comes across their face.)

    If your kids can’t think of anything to make, then the Little Hands My Giant Busy Box is ideal. Included are 16 exciting arts & crafts projects for kids in one big box. You’ll have all the supplies needed to make dough animals, sticker art, a collage farm, paper bag puppets, and tissue art projects. This way they won’t be asking you to make one more trip to the craft store to get different supplies. The Busy Box Kit also includes 2 plastic frames, 4 animal punch outs, 10 colors of dough, 2 peel and stick tissue art pictures, tons of tissue paper, glue, and instructions. Whoo Hoo!

    Games
    When your kids’ eyes start to glaze over from playing too much Wii, tell them to play a low-tech game. Here are some that kids like a lot, therefore, they will play them and amuse themselves.

    Monkey Hide 'n Seek Safari Game
    The Monkey Hide ‘n Seek Safari Game is a lot of fun. You can hide the monkey somewhere inside or outside and then your child will use a “magic” wand to find it The wand lights up as your child gets “hotter” or “colder” to finding the monkey. If you have more than one child, have them take turns hiding and finding – letting you get some things done around the house. Older kids get a kick out of seeing who can find the most clever hiding place. It’s also available in a T-Rex Hide ‘n Seek Safari Game.

    The Build a Robot Spinner Game is fun for those rowdy boys who need to slow down for a minute. They’ll have fun with this old-fashioned spinner game trying to get enough pieces to build a funky robot. If your child doesn’t have anyone to play with, he or she can use this game as a puzzle and just build cool looking robots on the floor. How’s that for cool – a game they can still play even if they are alone.

    Kids Cooking Kits
    We think cooking with your kids is one of the best ways to create Chocolate Cake Moments. Not only are you teaching your kids a life skill, but bonding while cooking up some delicious treats is a special time to be close to your kids. Whether you cook with your kids or have them cook with Grandma and Grandpa, they are going to have fun. Here are some kids cooking kits that we just love to heat up some family fun in the kitchen.

    Take a tour of France in your kitchen with the Playful Chef Kids French Cooking Set. All of the tools and recipes you need to make some popular French-inspired dishes are included, as well as fun information about French history, vocabulary and geography. (So your kids minds’ won’t completely atrophy while on Spring Break.) Have fun making Quiche Lorraine for breakfast or Chocolate Mousse for dessert.

    Have all of the kids cooking tools but short on inspiration? Check out the Playful Chef Kids Cookbook for some new recipes that are kid-friendly.

    Baseball’s Spring Training has started so why not celebrate with your baseball-loving kids with the Play Ball Baseball Cookie Kit. Celebrate the beginning of a new Spring Season with some baseball cookies. You can even bake the cookies, while watching a game on TV. This Kids Cooking Kit includes: sugar cookie mix, decorating gel, icing, cutter, and a recipe with instructions.

    So, whether you create fun works of art, play games, or cook up some fun, your kids are sure to be amused this Spring Break … giving us Moms a break as well.

    Do you have any other ideas for Spring Break Boredom Busters? Please share.

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    Tags: Cooking with the Kids · Cool Finds · Fun with Grandma & Grandpa · Games · Spring Family Fun Activities

    Moms, Save Money on Food!

    We recently met another Mom Living Out Loud who impressed us with her dedication to Women’s Health and Wellness. Jasmine Jafferali has an impressive bio in fitness and wellness programs. She holds a B.S. in Exercise Science and a Master’s in Public Health. She is a certified personal trainer, group fitness instructor with the American Council on Exercise and specializes in Women’s Health and Wellness. She authored the Online Professional Certificate in Women’s Exercise Training and Wellness, an interactive Online Web-based Certificate program designed to ensure the development of safe and effective exercise programs for women by personal trainers, allied health/medical and fitness professionals, and the general public. Wow!

    We asked her if we could share some of the great programs and information she has available for women with our readers and she nicely agreed. If you are in the Chicagoland area, she is conducting a workshop on Healthy Moms at Work in the CIGNA office space at 525 W. Monroe, Chicago on Friday, March 13th from 11:45 a.m. – 1:00 p.m. If you are interested in attending, send an RSVP email to Bria Day at bria@walkthetalkchicago.org.

    Jasmine also wrote a great article called Eat on a Dime, which shares money-saving tactics for saving on your weekly food purchases. Read it and save.

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    Kidwinks – Your Chicagoland Parenting Resource

    For those of you in the Chicagoland area or those who may be traveling there, check out www.kidwinks.com. Created by two incredible Moms, this site is a resource for busy Moms to find information and parent reviews on local attractions, stores, restaurants, and other things to do with kids in and around Chicago. You can sign up for their weekly emails to get the scoop on upcoming activities. One of our favorite features of the site is the Kids Eat Free Calendar. As a busy Mom with an active, on-the-go, nutty family lifestyle, we eat out or grab food on-the-go quite a bit. (Which is why the car looks the way it does.) With the economy as it is, any help we can get with free food is very welcome. You can sort by date or restaurant to find free food for the kids. Yee Haw!

    In fact, the Kidwinks.com Kids Eat Free Calendar will be mentioned in the “For Your Family” segment on WGN News tomorrow, Tuesday, February 24th. Check it out.

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    How to Control the Mail Clutter – Part 3

    Ready, Set, Declutter!

    Welcome Back! This is Part 3 in a series of tips on How to Control the Mail Clutter. The last post gave you some ideas on how to create a temporary storage place for mail that keeps the clutter to a minimum. So, what are you waiting for? Attack the piles!

    Step 1: Get a filing folder of some kind. Or get a desk letter sorter and use labeled manilla folders. Get a binder with pocket folders inside. Anything that works for you. If you need help, check out our Mom’s Life Organizers. We have Organizers for Kids’ Papers, Instruction Manuals, Take-Out Menus, Shopping and even Family Vacations to help you keep your paperwork in one place and easy to find. Red Take-Out Menu Organizer

    Step 2: Now, gather up every pile of mail that you have in the house. Sort it into categories. There you have the amount of folders you need. Label them, put the mail in their respective places, and viola! You can see your counters.

    Step 3: Go to the mailbox and get today’s mail. Now, walk over to the recycle bin to sort it. It makes life so much easier to be able to immediately pitch items that you don’t want. Don’t even let it in the house. Weed out the junk and don‘t give it a chance to form a pile in the house. Not only does it make you feel better that you are helping the environment by recycling but there is some weird satisfaction to saying “I don’t want you” to the mail and seeing it gone immediately.

    Step 4: The hard part is the discipline. Make yourself a deal. If you sort the mail and use the folders like this for a week, give yourself a piece of chocolate cake as a reward. Second week, do the same thing. Third week – it should be starting to become habit and you don’t need to eat as much cake. (Eat the cake for another reason, now.)

    TIP: Another way to get a handle on the mail is to reduce the amount of mail that you get. You can go to Optoutprescreen.com to opt-out of all credit card and insurance offers. This alone reduced my mail by half. You can opt out electronically for five years, or print a form to mail in to opt-out permanently. You do need to share your social security number so if you aren’t comfortable doing so online, you can mail it in or call 888-5-OPTOUT. You can also go to the Direct Marketing Association’s Mail Preference Service website.

    For a $1 fee, they will help to remove your name and address from prospective mailing lists. This may prevent you from getting any catalogs, new catalogs, coupons or business announcements but if you throw all of that out anyway, then sign up for help.

    If this seems overwhelming, then take small steps. Do a little everyday until you see the piles start to disappear. OK, feel better? Take a deep breath and enjoy this Chocolate Cake Moment because you have taken back your countertops. (You might need to wipe them down now that you can actually see them.)

    Do you have a good system to control the mail clutter? If so, please share it with us.

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    How to Control the Mail Clutter – Part 2

    No More Piles! Stop the Madness!

    Welcome Back! This is Part 2 in a series of tips on How to Control the Mail Clutter. The first part concentrated on the “Touch It Once” Rule to keep some control over how much mail accumulates in your house. However, I realize that this rule doesn’t apply to everything. Some mail, as much as I hate to say it, needs to sit around for a few days. Say it isn’t so! But that doesn’t mean that you have to live with clutter. (Moms, you live with enough other stuff. Say “No” to clutter!)

    To beat the clutter elves and stop the mail pile madness, you need to designate a special place where mail gets stored temporarily. We use a hanging file folder that we found at the Container Store. It is basically an accordion file folder but you hang it on the wall and the folders cascade down so you can see the tabs on all sections. The goal our family set for this file folder is that it is a place to store items for no more than a week or two. Bills, coupons, invitations, school event flyers, financial statements, etc. – this is their temporary home to keep the clutter off of the tables and counters until we pay them, take them to the office to be filed permanently, or throw them out. At the Chocolate Cake Club, we sell Bill Payer Organizer Folder that basically does the same thing but it doesn’t hang on the wall.

    With these organizers you can customize the folder names and temporarily store the papers you need. Here are some of the folders that we have created to deal with the mess o’mail:

    Bills. Once a week I grab all items in this folder, walk to my computer and pay them online or write a check. I do it every Friday morning. By making it a habit, I don’t forget to pay them and I pay frequently enough that I’m not paying bills late and racking up late fees.

    Kids. This file folder holds our flyers from daycare, school, or sport teams that we might need to look at frequently for a week or two, but then we can throw it out. If your kids aren’t in school yet, just wait. You’ll be amazed at the amount of paperwork and “homework” Mom gets. The momAgenda Kitchen Folio works well for keeping the kids papers in one place.

    Artwork. I store all of the cool artwork the kids bring home everyday and once a week I decide to pitch it, hang it, or put it in their Kids Artwork Storage Folders to save for posterity.

    Filing. This is where the mutual fund, bank, tax, medical, and receipt statements go that need to be filed and saved. On Friday when I pay the bills, I also carry these items into the office where they go in our more permanent hanging folders in our office credenza. This is where we file all paperwork that needs to be saved for 1 – 3 years.

    Coupons. If a store sends us a direct mailer with a coupon offer, I store it here in the folder. Then if I am heading to the store I know where it is and can easily grab it. Once the sale is up – pitch it! I can also hold the coupons here until I transfer them to a Shopping Coupon Organizer, which I keep in my car. You never know when you will be near a Gymboree and want that 30% off coupon.

    Shred. We get so many credit card applications that I have to cry at all of the trees that are being cut down for NOTHING! With all of the reports on identity theft and fraud, we definitely want to shred these credit card applications. So I file them temporarily and once a week I turn the shredder on to get rid of them. Don’t let these intimidate you. File and shred. File and shred!

    TIP: Put your mail filing folder near where you normally sort the mail. We come into our house through the garage and the first room is our laundry room. The top of the washer and dryer had become our sort and mail pile mess area. So, we hang our mail file folder right there on the wall in the laundry room. The goal is that the mail shouldn’t accidentally sneak out of this room until we are ready. Back mail, back! Sort it, act on it, and temporarily file it right here as you walk in the house.

    Tomorrow, we’ll give you the last posting on How to Control the Mail Clutter.

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    How to Control the Mail Clutter

    Does it seem like every time you turn around there are more and more stacks of mail piling up in your house? Do elves come in and wave a magic wand to watch your mail piles grow? Do they get points for this? If only the tooth fairy would leave us a dollar for every piece of mail!

    When I rid my house of mail clutter and feel more in control, I’m having a Chocolate Cake Moment, baby. So I have written a three part series on some ideas to rid your house of mail clutter so you can have your own Chocolate Cake Moment by taking control of the mail that never stops.

    HERE’S THE MAIL, IT NEVER FAILS …

    Mail is like a weed, if you don’t create a routine to manage it, it multiplies like crazy and will take over any free space you have in your house. One day I looked around my house and saw paper piles on the kitchen counter, the kitchen table, the wash machine, the family room coffee table, my office desk, the printer, the stairs and in a stack in my car. Agh! The National Association of Professional Organizers estimates that 25% of Americans pay their bills late because they can’t find them. I know I’ve called Visa begging for forgiveness from late fees as I explained that I put the bill in a pile and forgot about it.

    I’ve blamed all of this on the clutter elves so that I don’t have to face up to the fact that I created the piles to begin with. Feel free to create your own fictional creature to blame.

    I decided that this clutter was a problem and I went about looking for the following tips and tricks to help me get control of the paperwork chaos. Not all of these tips may work with your lifestyle but hopefully some of them will be easy for you to adapt. This is the first of three posts on How to Control the Mail Clutter.

    The “Touch it Once” Rule

    While this rule can’t appeal for every piece of mail that comes in the door it has certainly helped me strive to meet the goal. The Rule is simple. Only touch each piece of mail once. Open it, act on it, and then file it or throw it away. If you get a bill in the mail, open it next to where you store your checkbook, pay the bill and move on. This way it is done and won’t be hanging over your head. Put it in the paid bill file, shred it or throw it away but don’t leave it sitting in a pile anywhere in the house.

    Let’s say you receive a birthday party invitation for your kids in the mail. Call and RSVP immediately! Write the date and time in the Family Calendar so everyone can see the event or enter it into your Electronic Organizer or Planner. {Tip: Also enter an appointment to go shopping for the birthday gift so you don‘t have to scramble at the last minute.} Then you can put the invitation away in a temporary file folder to wait for the day you need the directions. Again, don’t put it in a pile and forget to RSVP so you have to make that apologetic phone call. Touch it once.

    However, I do realize that the “Touch it Once” Rule can’t apply to everything. Or, you may have a system where you pay bills online once a month so you can’t drop everything and pay the bill as it arrives in the house. In that case, never fear! We can deal with this but you need to designate a place to put these bills or mail so that you can easily find them and keep control over the paper chaos.

    Check in tomorrow for my next tip on How to Control the Mail Clutter.

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